Signs a girl is playing hard to get?

[Anonymous]

How do I know if a girl is interested but playing hard to get or just not interested?

Wish I knew so I could stop wasting my time

[Anonymous]

A lot of times if a girl is playing hard to get it means she is not sure about you romantically. Either that, or she could like you and try to make you feel like she doesn't. Either way, it's bs. This is why games suck. :) If you can't figure it out, you can confront her, which is the toughest and possibly most awkward way, you can play hard to get back, and she may or may not be more flirty with you, or you could just realize that if she likes you, she still doesn't like you much romantically, and you can forget about her. Or you can confidentially try to ask her out, if you think she might like you someday or you don't care about a relationship and just want the benefits. On the other hand, you could play the waiting game and ignore her, and when she gets bored of what she is doing, hopefully she likes you enough and is confident enough to ask you out or something. Another tip is to try to ask a mutual friend how she feels about you, which may sound childish, because it is, but it might work. Finally, the best and most asshole way to figure out if she likes you is to be really mean to her in a joking way and pretend you don't like her. This is called negging. It doesn't always work if the girl is smart or confident and it will backfire if you want a long relationship usually, depending on how mean vs joking you are. The best thing that this is for is for immature, nervous girls with low self esteem. They will flock to you like you are their messiah because you act like you are better then them. This strategy is last resort. Only sometimes does it work for relationships if you also throw curveballs like doing nice things or wanting to spend lots of time with them. If you can keep a girl guessing they will want more. Humans are simple, dumb creatures and they probably won't understand what you are doing. Anyways, interested body language is eye contact, legs crossed towards you, feet pointed towards you, neck exposed at you, hands open, and if her vibe is good.

[Asker]

Wow, surprised u know all this at your age lol. Thanks

[Opinion Owner]

I'm in high school. Learn or die :)

[Asker]

Why would a girl like me n try to make me feel she doesn't?

[Opinion Owner]

Bc she is trying the asshole method

[Anonymous]

Some girls play hard to get, they are usually very flirty with you one minute and then seemingly unavailable the next... Or talk up how much other guys want them, or flirt with other dudes in a bid to make you jealous. I'd generally say, just ignore them. It's a long battle, and these chicks are usually insecure so they require a lot of attention (but will walk all over you if you're too quick to please).
Don't get them confused with shy or awkward girls. It may seem like they're playing hard to get, but really they're just nervous around you or back off when they think they've said or done something stupid. With these girls you just have to try and make them feel comfortable. Smile, or laugh at their jokes, ask questions to show you're interested in what they are saying. Be sure to give them some time, texting/messaging is often a good way to start things off.

[Forca]

The average guy won't be able to distinguish between the two.

[Asker]

That's what I'm saying. A guy won't know the difference. The signs a girl likes a guy n the signs a girl does not like a guy r often the same ie ignoring calls, text, making excuses to cancel dates, avoiding, rude behavior. N then the girls will get mad n say guys can't get the hint when they r giving them signals to leave them alone. N if a guy gives up when a girl is playing hard to get she will say he didn't work hard enough or wasn't that interested when the truth is he just thought she was not interested

[Opinion Owner]

It's hard with girls, cause there are no general rules. It will vary from girl to girl, and we are the definition of subtle.
The question you really need to ask yourself is do i want to play games? Do i want to date someone who plays games like this? Like some of the examples you gave, avoiding, rude behavior, canceling dates (note the plural) etc, why would you want to date someone like that? I think the whole idea that girls have more control in dating is a bad mindset for guys to have. Cause i know a lot of male friends who do it too, and they just put up with so much sh*t that they don't deserve. If she says you didn't get the hint to leave them alone, just tell them they're being conceited and you just wanted to get to know them, maybe be friends. And if it's that bs about not working hard enough, just tell them you don't play childish games like that, and you don't date girls who do either.

[Opinion Owner]

You've got to have standards other then what a person looks like. If they are treating you badly, they're not worth it. If they're ignoring you, or standing you up, screw them. They don't get to date someone like you.
If however you just want to get into their pants well, play along, put up with crap until you get them and then move on.

[Asker]

These r all very good points! Hmm its like even being friends can work against a guy because then u get the o u r just a friend excuse or the uncomfortable friend zone. Thanks so much!! I will figure out something.

[Stacyzee]

I dislike when girls play hard to get... it leaves you in the state of dilemma that you are in right now.
The only way to know for sure... is it directly ask the girl out on a date.
If she declines then she probably isn't interested despite other signs that she may be.