How to tell my crush to stop hitting me?

[awesometjgreen]

this is just pitiful yet another one of my friends got with a boy she likes today and I'm still basically chasing this girl. she still acts like she likes me but know she's started hitting me :-[ . like literally smacking me upside my head. When I tell her to stop she thinks it's funny and laughs. I know I should stand up and tell her to stop but if I lose her I have nothing else to fall back on, I'm just back at square one. any ideas?

[Dim_121]

1 when she hits you next grab her wriste and forcefully almost angerly tell her to stop it is not fun for you and then walk away.
2 don't ever let any one be like that to you. There is always being single to lean back on. No woman is worth being miserable for.
3 Don't compare yourself to others. Huge life lesson there. Measure you according to your improvements. Comparing yourself to others will only make you feel worse because there is always someone else better at something than you.

[blutwolfe]

some girls hit guys they like, do you have her number/social media yet?

[awesometjgreen]

not yet buddy but the good news is that other asshole gave up on her. now I'm trying to separate myself from these other guy's she hangs out with since basically I only walk her to class and talk to her, but she says she can get others to do that. she's bold and I want to demand that she stop hitting me but I'm afraid I'll lose her if I be upfront. how should I tell her to cut it out bro?

[awesometjgreen]

plus the other guys don't like her they're just her friends so that doesn't bother me that much

[blutwolfe]

"If you're gonna keep hitting on me, you can at least give me your number"

use it to your advantage boyo

[awesometjgreen]

ok, now also those hits hurt, BAD :-) she aims for my head and when she hits you can hear it. she took the hearing out of my ear for a few seconds; it's ridiculous what do I do about that?

[blutwolfe]

oh wtf, well if you walk her to class talk to her about it then, and she sounds like she knows she's got you wrapped around her thumb, clearly telling her to stop is not working so stop doing that, if she thinks its funny it might be the reason she does that, and if you stand up and tell her to stop you'll look too butthurt, so pretty much take it like a man lol if you wanna be with her, literally act like she doesn't phase you at all and don't talk to her focus on class, she'll figure somethings up, act somewhat distant, if it persists after a few days just don't sit next to her I don't know

you have plenty of opportunity to go further if you get to talk to her so much lol, you should definitely ask for her number, he gave up on her because she's not easy but if you get her number that'll definitely get your foot in the door, like man up and just do it dude its not that hard, she probably thinks you're too wuss if you known her this long and don't have it

[awesometjgreen]

lol I don't take a class with her but okay, so tomorrow I'm gonna be super serious and pull her aside and say, "it's okay if you hang out with me, I enjoy your company but the hitting has to stop, I'm starting to get really tired of it". if she says something smart back, I just won't hang around her for a bit and if she approaches me/brings it up, ill straight up tell her I'm avoiding her until she stop hitting me

[blutwolfe]

so she just hits you when you guy walk, wtf? It can go one of 2 ways, she'll totally forget about you or she'll acknowledge it, you don't want someone whos gonna hit you all the time tho thats like domestic violence

if she says something smart, totally pull "well fuck you too then, I bet you didn't even know i had a crush on you" then just walk away and dont talk to her

[awesometjgreen]

k I'll do it. Thanks m8

[Anonymous]

she obviously likes you lmao. you should ask her out or something and in my opinion just keep letting her do it (sorry) but she might get offended if you tell her to stop. that's her way of expressing/dealing with her feelings with you. she's flirting with you

[awesometjgreen]

so girls express their love by smacking guys in the head super hard repeatedly then laughing about it? I like her but I don't like being abused. how would a girl like it if I started hitting her? yeah I'd be in jail, so no that's unacceptable. do you have a good way to tell her to stop?

[Opinion Owner]

honestly I didn't know you meant hard bc yeah girls do hit guys they like but not exactly hard sorry. And if you wanna tell her that she's being annoying and to stop or just yell I don't know. or if you wanna be nice just be like I don't like be touched. can you stop also get her number or something

[proudthatimnotugly]

hit her back and tell her she's ugly

[awesometjgreen]

but I don't wanna lose her, plus the teachers watch everything (the black guy does) so whereas no one cares if she does it, they'll be all over me like flies