Guy's would you be ok with your girlfriend going clubbing?

[Anonymous]

Would you let your​ girlfriend go clubbing and why? Or are you one of those couples who go clubbing together? Would you say it turns you off that a girl would even consider it?

[JimRSmith]

If you trust her, there isn't an issue with stuff like this.

Guys go clubbing to pick up girls. Many guys assume that the same thing (and only the same thing) applies to girls, too.

Sometimes girls do go clubbing for the same reason. Other times they go to dance and see their friends.

No problem with it here.

[hellionthesagereborn]

I would not appreciate it. Going clubbing kind of puts you in a situation where your intoxicated, in close proximity to men and "dancing" today seems to consist of just her grinding her ass on to another guys croch so that to me seems like a terrible thing and is just asking for trouble.

[Wonderer89]

Haha, the minute my husband thinks he can "let" me do anything we're gonna have a problem.

But he's fine with me going out dancing with my friends and generally picks us all up when we're done so he knows I'm safe

[wittymilf]

My husband hates it, it drives me nuts coz I'm social and he's not, I feel like a caged animal. :(

[wittymilf]

Why the gown vote? Should chicks have to get permission to leave the house?

[Vanjasper]

That is the question. Who has the right to forbid their partner the opportunity to enjoy themselves.

[BasicFlake]

I'd be fine with it, yes. There is no need to restrict a partner from being able to go out with her friends/colleagues. Indeed, if she is working then it is somewhat expected that she would socialise with her work colleagues, particularly at times like Christmas.

If you trust someone then it shouldn't be a problem. It doesn't matter if guys might try and hit on her, she is the one who says yes or no. If you trust her then you have nothing to worry about.

[Phantomium]

I'm not the clubbing type and quite frankly dislike party animals and their behavior. If she wants - she's free to do as she likes of course, but the odds are I wouldn't date such a person. After all we're supposed to have similar interests, not completely opposite ones.

[ShortCircuit]

"Would you say it turns you off that a girl would even consider it?" - bingo!

I'd say that it has less to do with the act of clubbing itself, but more to do with the "type of girl" I would perceive her to be for enjoying such a thing. That is not the "type of girl" I want to be with.

[TheFriscoKid]

I'm a different breed and believe in not being controlling, jealous or possesive. As long as my girl is honest and real with me... dance away and enjoy yerself!

[Browneye57]

Girls gone clubbing with girls are looking for guys, whether they're hitched or not. So no, first it's clubbing, next it's fucking. And then you hear the justification, "Oh, it meant nothing, I was just drunk." Riiiiiight...

A girl with a guy takes him with, or they go with couples, or she does something else with her girlfriends, like coffee, shopping, manicures.

Not only no, but HELL NO.

[Anonymous]

She is free to do whatever clubbing she wants. If she does, I will use that to justify why I have been neglecting her. I would then feel free to quickly replace her with the girl that has my attention. Making sure that I never have anything to with her again. It would be the only reason I would be more than ok with it.

[favor-A]

sometimes trust isn't enough. we are humans and mistakes are inevitable especially when there lots of alcohol and men

[Bandit74]

I dont think I would want to get involved with a girl who likes to go clubbing in the first place. I don't want a girl who has slept around and grinds with random guys.

[Asker]

Just because she's been to a club doesn't mean she's slept around. Can't she just go to dance with her friend's?

[Bandit74]

I definitely think girls who drink and go clubbing are far more likely to have had numerous one night stands compared to girls who don't drink or go clubbing. In addition to being less likely to have slept around she would also be more compatible with me since I don't drink or go clubbing either.

And like Hellion said "dancing today seems to consist of just her grinding her ass on to another guys crotch"

So overall I find those kind of girls less desirable. Sure, I am probably limiting my options a bit, but I think it is worth it.

[tzdc21]

That's a definite turn off. If she wants to club, she can but she would be single if she does. And I'd tell her upfront.

[Zer0Ghost]

Don't have a problem with it, she's not very big into clubbing anyway but she did go out for her friend's bachelorette party, I trust her

[dannymexico90]

Hell no. I'm going with her to that environment. That's like asking to cheat. Women who go clubbing are looking for men.

[redeyemindtricks]

"Women who go clubbing are looking for men."

Nope.

[Aming]

i wouldn't date sluts, so if my girlfriend goes clubbing, i know i can trust her

[asriel_jin]

I would for certain clubs at certain times cause of all the fucked up people out there so sometimes I might go with them and just chill by the dj occasionally checking up on her for shit like that.

[Vanjasper]

Don't see how or why i should forbid her.
She should think more of you if you make no objections. You have no right to forbid.

[qwerzxcv]

Not okay. Men would be groping with her permission.

Not cool at all.

[Asker]

What makes you think she'd give them permission?

[qwerzxcv]

Let's say you and I are dancing.

We rub our bodies.

Not cool.

[Iron_Man]

Of course I'm not going to let my girlfriend go with her female friends alone and be around other guys in the nightclub

[BigBallerSodaPop]

These days, most people come and go with the same people they came with...

I think the amount of people that have casual sex at clubs is overstated, but I could be wrong.

[Anonymous]

no, i dont want a clubbing girlfriend. clubbing is bad for health.

[johnmichaei]

fine with me but go as couple also

[Anonymous]

I don't like clubbing women. They're more likely to cheat.