Girlfriend going back to modeling, not sure if I'm OK with it....

[Anonymous]

Hey guy and girls, OK so my girlfriend used to model when she was in high school. She took about 3 years off and now might be going back, well we have been really serious lately and I'm not sure I'm OK with her modeling again, it is nude/partial nude. I'm not sure I'm OK with her being viewed by others just for the wank bank. Am I being out of line?

So I think my general question is, what should I say to her?

GUYS; Does your girlfriend model?

GIRLS; Do you model and your boyfriend OK with it?

[Anonymous]

Hey man. I feel the same way. My girlfriend is a model and she travels around the world almost every other week and it is insane. She is seen everywhere on the runway, magazines, etc and somtimes she's not much covered up...I was nervous about it at first but i realized, its a professional job. now it is her career to be a full-time model. and i treat it like its any other career. it helped me see things in a more relaxed manner.
and as long as she is with you at the end of the day, and as long as she is happy and loving what she does. i dont see a problem.
even if she wasn't a model im sure other guy would turn heads and look at her. her being a model doesn't change much...
be happy you have a great girlfriend! not every guy gets to date a model.. consider yourself lucky!
and if you really can't feel comfortable, just talk to her about how you honestly feel in a calm voice. and talk a solution out :)

[Cantremember]

Be happy about it. And stop trying to control your girlfriends life. that's one of the worst things one can do in a relationship.

[Alynaresque]

Hopefully I can provide some help here.. I do model sometimes :) Or at least I did back home. But I moved, anyways.. I was talking to my boyfriend about getting back into it, and we talked out what he was comfortable with in the range of things that I like to do. For instance: he is only so so, with lingerie, and would prefer if it was all covered, aka booty shorts, no thongs or g-strings (but that`s my comfort zone as well), and if I do lingerie shots, he`d like to be there. Basically talk to her, tell her that it makes you feel uncomfortable, she`ll voice her opinion on it and you guys will at least have it out in the open.

No you aren`t being out of line, she`s your girlfriend, you want what you see in the bed room to remain special, not plastered for other men to jerk off to. :)

[harveykinkle]

Wtf. Why are you letting some man dictate what you do?

[Alynaresque]

I`m not letting ``some man`` dictate what I`m doing. I love him, and I do plan on being with him for a while. I don`t want him to feel uncomfortable and he doesn`t want me to be. We work everything out together, and with us, we share everything. If he is uncomfortable with my friends, that is different. That`s kind of like saying my boyfriend should just take pictures of his junk and share it with the world.. I wouldn`t be okay with that.

[Anonymous]

You should tell her that you're not completely comfortable with it. Tell her you're very supportive of her, but just let her know how it makes you feel. She will take that into consideration and will probably try to do some less revealing modelling?

[kmhco]

I think you should talk to her about it. You might be able to reach some sort of compromise that makes you feel better about it.

[adviceneeder2]

it's very simple! If your girlfriend is a model do not worry about anything your life kicks ass!

[harveykinkle]

Considering she is not your property I think it's okay.