My girlfriend's friends are planning on going to Vegas & have invited her to go. They're all married or in a relationship. One friend is lesbian & is bringing her Girlfriend with her.
At the heart of it, I trust her but don't know her friends well enough to trust her with them.
Any tips to deal with this and/or support her with her girl's only trip?
Guys-would you be okay with your Girlfriend going?
At the heart of it, I trust her but don't know her friends well enough to trust her with them.
Any tips to deal with this and/or support her with her girl's only trip?
Guys-would you be okay with your Girlfriend going?
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I made sure she knows that I trust her & love her unconditionally. I didn't mention anything negatively towards the concept but rather expressed my concerns for her going with her ("I haven't seen these girls in 8 years") and don't really know what they would be like in a place like vegas.
Turns out she is uncomfortable going and is planning on cancelling because the girls are talking about doing drugs and most of the activites don't include things she would be interested in.
Turns out she is uncomfortable going and is planning on cancelling because the girls are talking about doing drugs and most of the activites don't include things she would be interested in.
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And, she said she would rather do a couple's trip whereas we could do things together and the girls do their thing with their S/O could things with the fellas.
I really appreciate her decision but in the end would have supported her girls trip regardless.
When you love someone, I have learned that giving them their space is necessary in order to grow and not be dependant on that person's every move.
I really appreciate her decision but in the end would have supported her girls trip regardless.
When you love someone, I have learned that giving them their space is necessary in order to grow and not be dependant on that person's every move.
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