There's a girl I talk to, was first hesitant meeting me, and said we need a little more time to chat before meeting her.
I said okay, she proposed meeting at a time, was sudden and I couldn't.
She seemed a little angry about it.
She apologized two times meeting me after it.
Now, she says it is hectic but she's trying to find a time so we can meet.
Maybe less than what you have.. but still confusing or maybe scared. So far she now says she's busy after she said she's okay meeting.. but she'll text me and decide earlier that same day.
I know some people are spontanuous.. but feels a step hinting to she won't be available 🤷♂️
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Yes, it means she just likes the convenience of you , from the attention you give her , if she doesn’t want to spend time with you? , that pretty much means she is more than likely spending time with someone else, instead of spending time with you. When someone really likes you , they don’t hesitate to see you as much as possible , if they are hesitating? That means they are investing their time into someone else. Never allow yourself to be treated like a convenience by anyone , if someone is not giving you the same or equivalent to what you are giving them , than you are just wasting your time being strung along. Kick her ass to the curb where she belongs and find yourself someone that wants to make you a priority, life is too short to be used as a convenience
Yes! Had a guy constantly tell me he loved me and misses me but he always seemed to be "busy". They are just lying because they like you loving them it's nothing more than an ego boost for them.
I don’t know. Maybe she loves you, but is wise enough to understand that love isn’t always enough to make a relationship last?
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The word "love" doesn't always mean love you romantically. It is been used so frequently that Love you can also mean, I love you the way you are as a friend.
It's not a massive red flag, it can be a red flag, if she uses you for something and just utters the words love you.
I think it's a red flag... If I said I love you, I would want nothing more then to be with you. Go out, explore, take pictures for my memories and definitely want to fuck.
Sorry about it but I'd rather be honest
Red flag, for sure she def don't give a f bout you bro. If a girl genuinely likes you as a person she would def make time for you no matter what, and that's a fact bro
Sounds like she's getting a damn good fucking with someone else.
Are you sure she finds you physically attractive? Confirm that first.
She spending time with someone in person. You aren't dumb enough to be buying stuff for her or paying her bills, are you?
Sounds like she could be living in a fantasy or maybe she’s really immature or insecure.
She probably just likes the attention you're giving her but aren't actually serious about having something special with you. It could be that she's using you or wants the attention.
Yeah, what kind of relationship is that?
She likes your attention nothing more. Drop her flat.
Yeah, it means she's likely cheating and keeping you on the back burner.
She just wants your attention. Date someone else.
Ask her to hangout?
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yes a massive red flag
Yeah definitely..
yup!
Definitely.
Kind of it's strange
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