Girl say she loves me but now is ignoring me.

[Anonymous]

She says she loves me and that no matter what happens I will always have her heart. Ever since she said that I get the feeling she is ignoring me. She also said she can't imagine giving her love to anyone else She won't take my phone calls or answer my text messages. I feel the same for her and think we might have something special but now I am confused. I am wondering if she is holding back her emotions because she is scared is she playing games with me. What course of action should I take? Do I leave her alone for a while and see if she comes around or keep trying to contact her and possibly push her away? Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

[superbeverly]

well, in my opinion, I think she may be scared of something after telling you her feelings. yet again, she may be toying around a little bit. it is really hard to tell. but in my eyes, I see it as if she was playing games because usually if someone really and truly wanted to be with someone, they would want to talk and spend time with the person as much as possible. its hard to tell & I suggest that you shouldn't wait around too long. I had a similar situation to this when I liked one of my friends and I told him straight up how I felt. afterwards it got a little awkward for me. just give her some time and see if she really meant what she said. I mean if you really had the same feelings for her then don't push her away until you really know her true emotions. make an effort to see if she will try to contact you back within the next 2 weeks. if nothing comes out of it, then just leave everything alone.

[finecute]

That is weird for her to become distant. Either she is scared and doesn't know how to handle her emotions, which I find that hard to believe, because I tell my boyfriend the same thing and I really mean it. I don't ignore his calls or texts mssgs. it does sound like she might playing games, which is the worst thing to do to somebody. In order to not waist ur time on games and lies, I would have a one on one with her and ask her what's the problem and tell her to be HONEST, no holding back, and listen to what she has to say, and actually listen and pay attention to her eye contact. if you feel like something isn't right even after the conversation, then keep her at distant, you don't have time for games :)

[yasmin09]

'no matter what happens' This suggests that she needs time to appreciate what you really mean to her. If you keep trying to contact her, I think this will push her away. If she really does love you, no matter what shel find her way back to you. I would advise that you let her know that you wil be there when and if she is ready to talk.. then you have done your part.. And if she cuts you out of her life just like that, and doesn't respond at all... this was just her way of letting you go. however give her some time alone. hope this helps

[knight4]

actually madam is right @yasmin09 my ex returned back to me , I also had this same incident in my life. but unfortunately she was too late, and we never had a healthy relationship, when she started avoiding me I thought I don't deserve to be her boyfriend , she said she will never leave me, but she always used to keep secrets and used to suspect me she never found anything wrong but still, So I left her, I started giving time to myself, indulged in new hobbies and now i think i don't need her, but she wants me back in her life so i kept her on hold. but its all upto you sir... take your own decision and try to stick to it :)

[jaycee777]

She may feel vulnerable now, she has bared her soul to you and may be worried that she said to much, maybe send an email expressing that are wanting to share your feelings with her also.. women need to hear it. Ask her to call you, then leave it at that... fingers crossed it works for you hun.

[angel829]

Well my problem it's the same but I met this girl a week ago and she said that I'm her babe and that she wants us to be in a relationship but she won't text me back or call me after like very late and she makes promises that she would pick me up to go out and this is the 3rd day she said that and always tells me that she's sorry that she was tired from work and that one day we would see eachother again and I only hanged out once with her and tongue kiss a lot no sex cause her baby was crying and it since this hause ain't mines my sis didn't accept it and she lives with her fam too and we didn't had money for a hotel and it was 5am already... but anyways why she blows her promises away I understand she got things to do like any other humans but why saying something you know you won't do like?

[nusrathmec]

dude I am 22 and "psychically challenged" ..having same prblm...my girlfrnd does not respond to my calls and msgs I don't understand what to do ...normally I wasn't intrested in her she proposed me spoke to me in such a way that I fell for her and now when I am serious about her ..when ever I cal or text her she cals my sis and says .."say him not to call me"...she also said that her family member don't allow her to text or cal me and my family...i can't understand that reason but I feel that if she really likes me then she should tell me her prblm what ever it is ...and bcoz of this my heart feels like cheated...whats solution for this?

[Tr1gg3r]

Get a glock in ya rari

[idlike2know]

SHE feels naked and not certain what to do after confessing her feelings and this is why she is ignoring you.

IF YOU did not assure her you have feelings for her- love her too, be a man and show it to her as soon as possible and face to face.

Women back off if they admit their feelings and don't get the love back.

REMEMBER!

she is giving you time to miss her and realize weather you have feelings for her or not.

so if you do - meet her and let her honestly know what's crackin'

ALL THE BEST! : )

[jefferson]

god she's a bitch. she wants you on her leash man, she's trying to make you her bitch, never forgive this behavior.

[tatyrobi2c]

im not sure she sounds fake