Is being a 20 year old virgin a good or bad thing?

[Anonymous]

Jw how most girls would feel about dating a 20 year old virgin.

[virgininla]

Whatever you do, DON'T tell the girl.

A lot of girls say they are OK with it and aren't. In fact, I would argue that most girls want their guys to have a lot of partners before them. Do they say this? No. But look a the guys they go after.

Typically what happens is you have been on a few dates with the girl and you are opening up to each other and the subject of other sexual partners comes up. You mention you are a virgin. She says how great it is and how she is OK with you. The rest of the date seems to go fine.

Then she stops returning your calls or tells you that while she would love to see you she is busy.

[recniabsal]

I lost my virginity at 20. I'm 25 in 2 weeks. The guys who lose their virginity later are the ones who are like the "ugly duckling." Once they mature they're better looking and have way better spirits and personalities than the guys who got all the girls in high school because most of those guys never learned to appreciate what they had. Not saying its always how it ends up but there ain't nothin wrong with it.

[kayotik]

I'm a 20 year old virgin. Nothing wrong with it. Sometimes I wish there were more guys my age who are virgins.

In the end though, it only really matters what you think. Don't let anybody else make you feel like you should/shouldn't have sex. Do what YOU want.

[tohrment]

I don't think it's a good or bad thing, per se. I guess it depends on your reasons and whatnot.

It's definitely not a turn off or anything. It just means you haven't had sex yet.

[LilPinkGirl]

it doesn't matter what we think. it matters what the person who is the "20 year old virgin" thinks. I guess it isn't "bad" or "good". it just hasn't happened yet, no biggy!

[lissy2278]

I'm gonna be honest, I wouldn't do it. I like a guy to know how to handle me and a virgin would be completely overwhelmed.

[Comet]

It depends WHAT kind of girl you wanna date!

A party girl will laugh her ass off!

A christian girl will be amazed!

A decent girl wouldn't mind it.

[kheserthorpe]

I lost mine at 20 or 21.

In retrospect I wish I'd tried harder to have sex sooner.

[Cupcakecutie0]

I doubt they think its bad. Some girls find it very cute.

[Anonymous]

I'm a 25 year old virgin. Is it good or bad? It's neither. It represents what I want.

It just means that you haven't had sex yet.

[Kain6th]

It's good. :-D

[Anonymous]

It's nothing overly shocking given how many times this question gets asked on this site.

[Anonymous]

Its brilliant,there should be more guys like you around :-)

[Anonymous]

Not at all bad, completely normal. I'm a virgin too and I'm 22.

[SnackG]

Probably bad to most girls. In general it's not bad.

[Dom163]

It's normal man don't worry take things at your own pace

[Anonymous]

I know a lot of girls who would love to be a guy's first, just because there's less pressure to be some sex goddess. I'm 20, a virgin, and I would love to be with a guy my age who is a virgin as well.

[Asker]

Soooo watsup? hahah

[Tentacle_Therapist]

Neither. I guess it depends on your reasons.

[socalgamehater2006]

negative to most girls

[Hades]

It's good if you're female.

[teasegirl]

Do guys like taking a girls virginity? say he is 7 years older than her...

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't.