How to handle my friends calling my mom HOT?

[Anonymous]

How to handle my friends calling my mom HOT?

My mom is 42 years old.she married my dad at 19.

Now she has a pretty good body for her age.My friends keep discussing about her being a MILF.I get very upset by this especially when they do it in front of me.I have picked lot of fights over this issue but what should be done,if everyone is talking about her being hot and looking at her like that.I don't know how to handle this.

I know its a compliment for a women of her age but I cannot take it when my friends or others talk about how good she would be in bed and stuff like that.

So how do you handle this?

Guys and girls please help me out.anyone been in this kind of situation before?

[2confusedgirl]

Why are they doing this in front of you? It's rude to do it in front of you. It is common sense the son will be offended hearing his friends talk about his mom that way. Are they doing it in front of you just to get a reaction since you have reacted badly before? Maybe it's a game for them. Try to keep level head and ask them to not do it in front of you.

[vmw2008]

My mom is also the so called "hot mom" all my friends love to talk about. I found that ignoring it helped a lot. I'm proud that she takes care of herself and looks great, so I quit getting upset about it and instead took it as a compliment. Most of the time they're doing it to get a rise out of you, so when you stop getting upset they'll stop talking.

[Deft_maiden]

That is incredibly disrespectful. If you already expressed your feeling about it then crack few jokes about their mom. See how they take it. I would stay from angry reactions however. It feeds the cycle.

[EpicSteve]

Getting worked up about it isn't going to make them stop. The fact that you react the way you do is probably half the reason they do it in front of you. I suggest you either learn to make fun of it yourself, or just don't respond to it at all.

[mattygfromtheMD32]

People tell me they want to f*** my older sister all the time.

I just can't comment on it.

[Asker]

so how do you handle it?

[mattygfromtheMD32]

i used to say the same thing about his mom, but she's ugly as sh*t so I can't even fake it anymore. I just shake my head and keep quiet.

[FierceMegan]

Just start calling them, "daddy" and teasing them that they would make a great Pop.

[Asker]

hehe good answer

[FierceMegan]

lol, it's true. :)

[MeiBell]

hehe maybe you mean Po op...

[FierceMegan]

lol, =P

[slipslender]

wow. how f***ing rude. tell your friends to STFU and stop disrespecting your mom. if they're really your friends, they'll stop. if not- make your own milf jokes about their mothers. see how they take it.

[ColtsFanForever]

why are they telling her that in front of you any ways? Let them know it bothers you and tell them to stop it

[Anonymous]

Tell them "Guys, I've been in there. It's a mess. You're better off just dropping the subject"

[MeiBell]

just say. Dude, sorry but, , , , , I don't want you as a step father. ^.^