Why are women so harsh when they reject men?

[Yeahhbro]

Whatever happen to respect and honor? I mean if you don't like a guy its totally OK and must men would be fine understanding that, but most women seem to be so out of line, a mean as if the guy owe them respect for wasting their time?

This is what I usually see:

1) Not answering messages, dead silence. You don't even know what is going on. Is she playing hard to get? Is she mad at you? Did you offend her?

2) Cold shouldering the person in public and walking away with some other guy or her girlfriends.

3) Being a complete bitch in his face, so he gets the message? It is sort of like number 1 because you have no idea what is going on. Did you come off as a creep? etc etc.

4) Isolating them from the group. This usually happens at work, or places where both of you see each other frequently. The girl talks garbage about you behind your back to everybody else, so everybody thinks you are a weirdo and then they isolate you.

Some of them are pretty obvious, but some of them are not so much. I mean why are a lot of women so psychotic and they don't tell men that they don't want anything?

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5)Being a bitch as well, just like number 3 but the only difference, but this time its pretty obvious she is not interested in you: Dirty Looks, get away from me, etc etc etc.


I mean I am sure if a girl is lady about it and says it with class, I am sure a lot of guys wouldn't get mad about it.

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LOL I am not talking about just one girl, I am talking about different girls in general from my own experiences and other guys experiences as well.

[malekoniky]

Why are men so weak and threatened by anything. A woman for example?

C'mon. Man up.

1) stop trying to talk. She obviously does not want to answer for whatever reason. It is her problem that you go out to find somebody who will. So go and find another girl!

2) She obviously didn't do it to that other guy she walked away with, but you childishly try to assign blame. Ooo what a bad girl, why me why she did this to me. Cause you are not good at this. Man up and get a girl instead of blaming girls on how bad they are. You love them anyway, you are just not man enough to get one. Women does not need a man who will tell her how bad she is. Maybe that is the problem.

Don't blame others. Some man can get her. So can you! Find a way! Get a girl! You are man for pete's sake.

3) They either don't want to talk to you. Don't get hurt little five year old. You are the man and you can't take it? Make it into something good for her and she will respect you! Instead of blaming her and getting angry!

Or she is even testing you! What kind of man you are. Good man is not going to cry because she screamed a little. No girl wants that one. No surprise that she walked away with another.

4) She is harming herself you are just too ... to stand to her and show world that she is lying. That she is harming people around her. And you have honor. They will lose respect for her and get one for you. But you are going to cry about it right? O o little boy. C'mon! Stand up for yourself! Don't get hurt or hurtful. Just talk to your coworkers get your friendship back. Ask them what proof aside from her words they have that they see you as creep. Get your friendships back! But instead you cry and act hurtful? Instead of showing how wrong she is you are making her right with your actions and wonder why the hell everything bad happens to you?

Get life! Man up! Get in control of yourself (not others, but complete control of yourself). And get what you want and need!

[malekoniky]

and one link to number 3) link

educate yourself

[Yeahhbro]

pssssshhh didn't answer a thing of what I was asking. Ask for your money back bro, you lost in that Masters Degree of yours...

[malekoniky]

I know :)

[shyguy89]

well I can tell you from experience if the girl dosen't physcially open her mouth and tell you how she feels point blank...its a show girls love attention they love acting no offense to the women here you just have to be tough let them open there mouth and reject you don't never assume because her body lanuage says no she could be the opposite cause girls are more complex mentally than guys that's why nothing ever comes out straight I think its rather adorable...im serious back one of these so called bad girls in the corner if your smart and see how they melt like chocolate..not saying abuse her but what ever you do don't let the body lanuage tell you what a girls wants find out yourself..shy guy out.good luck young jedi

[katherinefairchild]

I don't do any of the things you just listed. I'm very personable and empathetic. I can put myself in the situation of the person opposite me and think of how they would feel and what I would want them to do in that situation. Usually the guy is a great person, but there's just something that doesn't make us connect. Whether it's because I'd already had a boyfriend, or because we have no similar interests or because my reason now; I don't date. I'm blunt and explain why, but I do it in a way that won't hurt the guy any worse than he'll already be hurt just by the rejection. Positive reinforcement is awlays good. I also usually know a girl friend of mine that is single and would be a great match for the guy.

[RubyRedRox]

Hmmm these chicks you are describing seem to be very immature and so rude! X(

Though I can sort of see these types of girls at my University walking around like they own the school, let me tell ya they ain't really worth your trouble.

If she does any of those things, especially to your face, just laugh it off and walk away like a bad arse as if it don't phase you. Trust me the ones who give the cold shoulder know how much it sucks because they can't stand it themselves.

Honey you need your self a lady who handles things like an adult, not some little demon diva princess jerk.

Just shrug it off and swagger through life like you're worth it and they ain't ;)

[Yeahhbro]

It is unfortunate though, that a lot of women are like that though, with that sense of princess entitlement, you would think that in this age people are brought up with good manners. But I guess you are right.

[Anonymous]

I'm sort of like this sometimes now when I get approached at clubs or bars which I am sure is different than your scenerio. It's only towards men that are creeping on me though. I'm totally not like this with guys that I socialize with or see on a day to day basis. I agree with what Ruby said, it's true she does sound like an immature jerk. I'm sure these types of girls are very spoiled and were never properly hugged/held by someone when they were babies/children.

[Anonymous]

I think you must go after the ignotant girls!

To be honest I think the best way to "reject" a man is just to be totally straight with them, but still be sensitive! I kind of get why some girls are like this though, if your at a club and keep getting all these guys flirting with you your bound to loose your patience!

But I suppose its still no excuse to be rude.

Maye you should change the kind of girl you go after lol!

[Anonymous]

it's probably all in your head. you're making it seem worse than it is