"My Definition" of Prince Charming

[MissPoirot]

Helloooo members of G@G!

Today I am going to share things I love about men, both appearance and charachter wise! Now, this may come as a shock to you, but since this is a myTake, it is also MY opinion on men and of course yours may differ from mine. That being said, let's get started!

Appearance

Suits & Ties

I just love it when men wear suits, it looks so sexy and sophisticated. I don't know what it is about ties, but something about them just makes me want to rip them off and... No, actually, I'd like to leave the tie on if ya get what I'm saying. I mean, just look at him:

Tall & Slim

I have a thing for 'student' type guys. I know a lot of girls prefer muscular, but I am an exception. Now I know a lot of guys worry they aren't tall enough, this is just my preference and of course there are tons of girls out there that have a different opinion. But to me, tall and slim guys are extremely attractive!

Character

Intelligence

I think it's enormously attractive when a man is good at languages and loves to read (because I am passionate about different cultures and books). I admire intelligence in a man.

Humour & Sarcasm

I want a man that makes me laugh and that I can laugh with. I think humour is one of the most important things in any relationship.

Open-minded

He has to be open to different cultures. I think nothing is less attractive than a guy degrading foreigners or thinking his country is the best.

Gentleman

What can I say, I am not a feminist. I think there is nothing wrong with a man opening doors for you, bringing you flowers or paying for a date. I am sorry, but that's just how I feel.

To sum up I added a scene from the BBC series of Jane Eyre. Mr Rochester defines sexy.

Do you agree ladies? And guys, what do you think about this list? Feel free to comment below!

[Anonymous]

MY PRINCE CHARMING!!!
He's Tall, Built, Athletic, Funny, Intelligent, My Best Friend, Cultured, Business Oriented & Looks Superb in a Suit From Big & Tall LOL! :)
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The Rock

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Idris Elba

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Houston Texan's JJ Watt

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Jason Momoa

[Calla_Lilly]

Oh my god, you mentioned Idris Elba. I love you. Tons. Gonna go watch Luther now. :P <3

[ConsultantIsBack]

Lol I feel like I'm reading a teenager girl's diary lmao I'm so out of here!!!

Good write up tho 😀

[lilac_flowers]

I think what you're describing is called Logical Intuitive Extratim, LIE, ENTj, PT, Enterpriser, Pioneer, or archetype... Jack London.

https://www.wikisocion.org/en/index.php?title=ENTj (click on male and female descriptions)

Socionics is a theory of personality. Part of it is talk of duality. Matching partner recognition. When you ask personality types to describe their ideal partner, they tend to mostly describe their socionics dual, even if they've never met one.

I'm merely guess that's what you're describing. In which case I would be guessing you're a Dreiser ISFj, or Dumas ISFp...

[lilac_flowers]

And lol @all the insecure guy bitching about you wanting "model looks". What was she suppose to do? She was using guys from popular culture. I can't believe you guys are so looks focused that you continually project on women.

I'm with this girl, I also tend to find guys attractive that most girls think are ugly, but no guy here would believe me when I say that.

[MissPoirot]

That's so interesting, thank you! A lot of those are accurate. Sadly, I can't find the Dreiser or Dumas

[MissPoirot]

I know right, lol. Thanks! :)

[lilac_flowers]

Take Owner just navigate the site. There is even a little search bar to the side that helps you search all personality types, search: ISFj (the letter code, not the archetype name Dumas). Or you can do so trough links. It's basically Wikipedia after all.

[WiseTruth]

You got a good head on your shoulders. There are all sorts of people in the world, but this are ideals to look up to or to strive for I believe. A good suit from time to time indicates self respect and leadership. Character is very important. And taking things with humour also. So it takes a smart woman appreciate these things and securely speak of it. Don't worry about the douche comments with their man-child selfies. That is not what a real man should look like anyways, much less talk.

[MissPoirot]

Thank you for this comment! Another reason why I prefer older men over high school boys.

[serp777]

Lmao no where do you mention superficial attractiveness anywhere even though you're ironically including pictures of physically attractive men. At least 50% of being prince charming is that you're gorgeous. All that other stuff is important, but ultimately secondary. Could an ugly person be your prince charming? Yeah, no. Give me a break. Everyone is superficial so why are you only including personality traits? Who cares if some butthurt dude gets pissed that being ugly excludes him from being Mr. perfect.

[MissPoirot]

But guys that I think are hot, are called ugly by my friends. Attraction is very subjective. And the only guy I have ever been in love with, I didn't even find attractive before I started to like him. I do agree with you on one thing though, those butthurt guys are frickin annoying.

[serp777]

well fair enough but I think most women tend to value superficial attraction just as much as men. It is certainly subjective but was the guy you were in love with ugly? I mean the way I see it is in terms of percentages: This guy had like a 60% physical attractiveness but a 100% personality attractiveness and so together you get an 80% attractiveness which is way above average. Not perfect but still pretty damn good and very possible to fall in love with. Also genetic compatibility has something to do with it too--people who are attracted to each other have certain genetic configurations which promote a more differentiated immune system in their offspring which is the entire reason to have two genders. So that's another important factor still.

[MissPoirot]

I don't like calling anyone 'ugly'. When I had seen him in tge streets I just wouldn't think he was an attractive guy. But now he is still very attractive to me. I do believe what you said is true. But that's the point, everyone is attractive to somebody. That is why I think those guys shouldn't be whining. Their bitterness is what makes them unattractive.

[Nik1hil]

I want to dress myself in tux, it's like one crazy wish. I never wore one a nice tux and tie. Feels like being a perfect man
This suits my explanation
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Like this
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Or this
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I am 179cms, hilarious on occasion, and I want to dance with a girl in a tux.

[NatashaJ]

I want to add
he will barley hurt you emotional he doesn't want to see you cry or be the reason why your crying.
That one is #1 for me.

[MissPoirot]

Very important, thank you for adding that, it is on my list too.

[QooLipBite]

After reading this take, no wonder I'm slaying so much.

[MissPoirot]

Lol I love you

[QooLipBite]

Like I said, it's no wonder ;)

[Roostah]

So basically, White, Tall, and have model tier looks:

The generic girl's dream guy=men liking bimbos with skinny hour glass frame and big tits and butts.

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[MissPoirot]

I didn't say anything about model looks. Usually I am even attracted to guys other girls see as 'unattractive'

[Lightspeed-Lemon]

Benedict Cumberbatch and Rob Pattinson don't qualify as having model looks?

[MissPoirot]

They aren't the only guys I'm attracted to @Lightspeed-Lemon plus, it isn't Benedict I like; it's Sherlock. I am attracted to his character.

[zombiebabe]

i think the definition of prince charming is really subjective cause that's not what a prince charming looks like to me at all!!

[MissPoirot]

Exactly and I think that is quite interesting :)

[roxyreigns]

by the sound of things you could have just written "david tennant"

[MissPoirot]

Ooh sounds interesting, I'll have to look him up

[Anonymous]

We all have different preferences I have the characteristics only but one slight difference, personally I only do gentleman things because I was raised to do it hell I don't want to do it most of the time but it's like a reflex

[MissPoirot]

I think that's great haha

[homper87]

My definition of sexy personality ;)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3eHzSEXHEyY

[MissPoirot]

Lol! Love it.

[abhiplayer1996]

It sounds like me.
I'm tall, funny, gentle (too much which i hate sometimes), being tall makes me look slim, I'm addicted to reading and learning new things.

[MissPoirot]

That's lovely! :)

[abhiplayer1996]

Hah... Thanks

[abhiplayer1996]

What's your height though?

[MissPoirot]

1,73 m

[abhiplayer1996]

Oh that is pretty much I am 1.80 So i guess I qualify for you... lol

[MissPoirot]

Lol Yes

[abhiplayer1996]

well thanks that was great acheivement...

[MissPoirot]

Hahah you're sweet :)

[abhiplayer1996]

Thankyou so much.. I feel blessed now...

[gunny007]

I think you see yourself in him!! Not fair @MissPoirot

[MissPoirot]

Hahaha you flatter me @gunny007

[gunny007]

I love doing it ;)

[Octavius]

I have nice suits but no occasions to use them currently.

[MissPoirot]

Too bad!

[Saydou]

May be we share something there, that is what i will like from a girl too. nice take xD

[MissPoirot]

Cool, thanks!

[Saydou]

No prob :)

[Riggers]

So basically.

A) Model looks
B) Born tall
C) High paying office job (Who else would wear suits?)

Basically a model-like British aristocrat?

Haha, Life fucking sucks dosent it.

[MissPoirot]

Well nobody is born tall lol. I didn't say anything about model looks, I usually even find guys attractive that other girls see as unattractive. I have a special taste

[IAmCluelessToo]

She's got high standards

[Riggers]

You are born with your genetics which determine how tall you will be in life. So yeah, You are either born short or born tall in essence.

Sadly for most guys who dont reach that golden 6ft mark, Well... they're fucked and theirs nothing they can about it. Pretty much any guy under 5ft 7in is worthless. And, I know you said to someone else on here ''Some girls dont care about height'', Thats a lie and you know it, Literally 99% of girls do.

I judged of the pictures you uploaded, Basically all of them are model material.

[MissPoirot]

I do, but I think that's a good thing. @IAmCluelessToo

[Riggers]

take owner, Its not just you, Every girl has high standards. And you, Just like every other girl always says ''Its a good thing'', For you, It is yes.

For the the massive amount of guys who got a shit hand in the DNA lottery or who werent born into wealth... well... Theyre about as much use in life as a wet towel.

[MissPoirot]

Most of my friends think the guys in the pictutes I posted are ugly. Actually, there are enough girls that don't care about height or even prefer shorter guys. Plus, there are a lot of short girls out there too so you would still be taller. If you're in love with the guy it doesn't matter anyway. But I have seen you on here before and know that you are insecure, that in my opinion, is your only unattractive feature. You probably know girls prefer confident men, but you shouldn't gain confidence for them. It is important to love yourself because 'you' is all you'll ever be. I think it's terrible that there are grown men that still aren't comfortable with the way they look. So please don't get bitter and gain confidence!

[MissPoirot]

And most of my requirements are achievable, so men could improve themselves as well so they match the high standards.

[Riggers]

Haha, I'm bitter because i like to think im intelligent enough to realise how fucked i am haha.

Im 5'9, 3/10 facially, Fat, and dont make a lot of money and shit with people, Im fucked, I know im fucked, So i dont even bother dating haha, Infact, Id rather fucking die at this point then date another human being, So i dont need to gain confidence for something i dont want to do :).

Now, Your friends, I doubt they believe they are ''Ugly'', Maybe just not ''Uber hot'', But there is no way you could honestly say those people are ugly when you compare them to the likes of some people who genuinly are badly ugly.

Sure, You may find Robert Pattison hot, But your friend just might find Channing Tatum or someone hotter.

Looks define our worth as human beings my friend.

[MissPoirot]

Dude 5"9 is tall. I actually messaged you before because I thought you were handsome so I don't agree with the 3. I had this period when I loved guys that were on the fat side, the guy I am still not completely over is actually quite chubby. Money isn't everything, but I do hope you will be able to do what you love. I think it's sad you think this way about yourself because literally the only reason I wouldn't go out with you is your insecurity/bitterness. I sincerely hope you will gain confidemce but if you don't want to, who am I to tell you what to do?

[Riggers]

No offence to yourself here, You seem like a nice enough person, But, Seriously mate, Dont lie to me about that, I know i look like shit, I've been told the same thing by others countlessly on here and have been told a stupendous amount of times offline too. I dont know what of me you think you seen, Or if your memory of it has blurred, But i can assure you right now your current view is incorrect.

The simple fact is, It is completely impossible to have even a remote shred of confidence, When you know, and know everybody else knows, That you dont look good.

Im sure you, at least once in your life have had a day where you feel especially ugly? Imagine living that every single day, And having other people constantly remind you of it, And try to have confidence. I doubt you could.

If i wanted, I could lie to myself and have a false feeling of confidence, But at the end of the day, I will always look bad and thats all what will matter. Some people are just ugly and fucked mate.

[MissPoirot]

I swear I am not lying! I remember very well what you look like and you aren't ugly at all. I think we've all been called ugly at some point im our lives I think, but that doesn't mean it's true. People have different opinions, are immature or just jealous. I understand it can be hard to see yourself in a good light when you believe all the negative things. Look at yourself and notice your good features and tell yourself you are worth it. Even if you can't find yourself attractive, you should know looks aren't everything and focuss on your good qualities. That is why you shouldn't be bitter. I remember talking to you on here (a little offended that you don't remember me lol) and I know you were very fun to talk to. So I think the only problem is in the way you are thinking

[Riggers]

Sorry, Its nothing personal, I just have a pretty bad memory. I don't suppose you were the girl i was talking about books we liked was it? (Sorry if its not, That will probably sound random haha).

I appreciate your pleasantness but, Im sure you can understand in that i just can't believe it. Infact, How did we even come onto this topic? It seems pretty futile us even wasting time talking to me about it, Im pretty bitter and stubborn on this sort of topic, So, We're probably just better of quitting whilst we're ahead matey, Im sure you have better things to do then waste time talking to a stubborn manic depressive right? Ha.

Enjoy your night mate.

[MissPoirot]

I love how you call people matey lol. Well, we talked about all our hobbies so I am not sure I am the one you are referring to. You've got a lot of girls on here don't you, riggers? xD
I won't give up this easily I'm afraid.. I have this glass and it says: Mrs Always Right. So I don't think it would be a good idea to disagree with me on this (or anything for that matter.) I will find a way to make you see how great you are, be prepared riggers

[Riggers]

Are you sure it wasn't you? I remember talking to someone about things we did, And the girl said she liked to read books by a female author (I cannot remember the authors name for the life of me).

How ever many girls you think i have, Minus that number from itself haha.

Seriously matey, I wouldn't waste your time, You could literally say anything, And i wouldn't change my opinion :/.

Im sure you can understand when a notion has been so massively solidified over such a prolonged period of time, Its very hard to impossible to change it.

I appreciate the attempt anyway.

[Vasiliy]

Everyone is born at a certain height. You can't exactly make yourself taller m8.

[Anonymous]

How tall is tall enough for you? If a guy is a tad shorter but very slim/muscular does that make it up for you?

[MissPoirot]

I love slim, not a fan of muscular. I am 1.73 m, so when he is taller than that. But I mean, when I fall in love with a guy it doesn't matter that much. How tall are you?

[MissPoirot]

Don't worry about it either way

[SuitAndTie]

Darn! Not tall. Otherwise I may have possibly ticked all of the boxes.

[MissPoirot]

Your username is perfect lol. But don't worry about not being tall please! Some girls prefer shorter guys and other girls are short themselves so you'll still be taller. Plus, when girls are in love it doesn't matter anyway.

[BelleGirl21]

You certainly tick all the boxes.

[Lonewolf_1296]

That's Your* definition. Good for you, you know what you're looking for.

[MissPoirot]

It is, thanks!

[Helghast_kitty]

damn it, not tall. Oh well, it'll be nice to watch everyone else be happy

[MissPoirot]

Tons of girls like shorter guys, or are short themselves. (Then you can still be taller)