7 Things I Love About Men

[Stacyzee]

These are psychological and physical qualities I love about men. Please note a man does not have to have all of these qualities to capture my interest, but if he has a fair amount of them, how can one resist?

1. His package

I would not be a straight woman if I did not find this part of a man appealing. When we have close connection, besides the great chemistry that we share I find myself, from time to time thinking about his package or the great intimate encounter we had.
A nice looking package, which fits inside of me like a perfectly matched puzzle piece, is enough to make me wild! The fact that this man knows what to do with his package is an added bonus, moments after the sex, he introduces his special delivery! Yummy! Yum! Yum!

2. His voice

It's so sexy when he takes his time out of busy schedule just to give me a call. The sound of his voice just makes me want to melt.
A deep voice sends shivers down my spine!
Even if the voice isn't deep, just the sound of it, including the accent makes me feel as if I'm falling in love all over again. I could curl up all day, speaking for hours just listening to the sound of his voice.

3. His physical strength

If his arms are well defined this is a plus, although not necessary. As a woman most of us love a man that asserts physical strength. We love a man that can offer protection and security. If he's able to carry me across the room without looking as if he's going to die, then this is a quality I must admire!
By the way, my weight is not equivalent to that of an elephant, so don't say I'm not being fair!

4. His smile

I know you ladies have noticed it before. When a attractive man posts a photo online, and it looks like a mugshot! Oh my gosh! Who did you kill and where?
-Wipes forehead- Great! I am no where near that location!
Don't men realize how much a smile compliments their look? A man can go from appearing creepy to attractive in seconds!
If he has dimples on his cheeks this further enhances his look. Dimples are just so adorable, in combination with a beautiful smile. It's just so amazing to look at!

5. His eyes

The eyes are one of the physical features that draw me in the most. They say the "eyes are a window to ones soul", I stand behind that entirely. There's a lot one can say with their eyes. Sometimes communication is non-verbal and I am able to understand what someone is thinking solely through their eyes. It is powerful and has so much effect!
Eyes that appear kind, are very inviting. They allow me to want to get to know the individual further more.

6. Intellectual conversation and sense of humor

What makes a guy special from the rest is his ability to carry on a meaningful conversation. He is able to express his views in an intelligent manner, without condemning or offending others. I enjoy this aspect so much because it's not a quality all guys have.
I also, love a sense of humor in a guy!
He doesn't have to be a comedian, lets face it some of us are bad joke tellers and shouldn't try!
We'll tell a joke, and look around only at serious faces staring back at us.
-Audience- BOOOOO!!!
However, if he's great at "taking" a joke, then this shows me he doesn't take life too seriously. He knows there is a time to laugh, and a time to be about his business.
The wonderful balance in personality is gold!
Okay, maybe platinum....Jackpot!

7. He is compassionate and romantic

I remember, a while ago when I was 17. I bought my first Valentine a box of chocolates. He got me nothing in return, but don't worry that wasn't even the icing on the cake. He quickly devoured the candies inside of the box (did not even offer me one, as I stared at him eating like never before). He crumbled the heart box and threw it in the trash. I felt like it was my heart that was being crushed at that moment! Okay, call me overdramatic, I don't care :P !
The fact that he had no idea, that I was upset turned me off completely!
This leads me to saying, I like a guy that is romantic and has compassion! I don't expect flowers on my doorstep every day, but when the occasion calls for it, nice flowers and the ability to understand my feelings will do!
I swear if this ever happened to me again, I'm slam dunking the chocolate box on a guy's head!

Trust me, this list has just gotten started! I'm looking for you ladies to add to it. So, I will ask Ladies, What do you love about men? If you have nothing to add, what's on this list that you love about them the most?

Thanks for reading!

[Anonymous]

I'll admit that this is one of the very few myTakes that I've read every word in it. So, well done, I'll remember your username and will always check out your myTakes that I stumble on in the future. :)

It's kind of sad when it comes to the 2 guys that have a negative attitude towards it. It seems like every time a woman speaks of anything about men, she has to get negative responses and most of the negative responses have to do with how women care so much about a man's pocket. Yeah sure some or even lots of women only care about a man's pocket... but, they're by far not the majority else how would male minimum wage workers have girlfriends? I know a handful of them from my minimum wage days that have been dating for years, had children and built families... and the ratio of how many girls that were attracted to me as a minimum wage worker compared to my current salary is almost the same, I didn't notice any difference whatsoever.

[Stacyzee]

Thanks so much for your comments , that is a major compliment. <3

I'm glad you have the ability to see the overall picture and reason, not all women are the way the other guys are describing.

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome!

And yes, I understand that but I just wish I could know where they got the idea from? It's always good to try understanding the reasoning behind such statements.

[Stacyzee]

I think they are speaking on their experiences. When people never see anything different than what they know , it becomes all they "know". They start to think everyone is that way.
It will take them meeting a great girl for their viewpoint to change unfortunately.

[Stacyzee]

If they keep their attitude to such negative extremes , sadly these great girls will never give them the chance. Some people have a way of harboring resentment.

[Opinion Owner]

That's a valid point, but me and you can only assume we can't know for sure what might be inside their heads.

[Stacyzee]

Well, you never know you can only speculate but it makes the most logical sense. Usually people's information comes from their own solid personal experience.
But definitely ask them if you want to know :)

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I just attempted challenging one of the guys but I'm bracing for impact though... LOL. When people type on the keyboard while thinking of something that infuriates them, they tend to not sound so pleasant.

[Stacyzee]

Yeah, you're right lol.
I guess because there's no tone to what you read just a perspectived one in your head

[Stacyzee]

*perceived one in your head ( I meant )

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah... LOL. Please do me a favor though, if that guy replies, please let me know somehow so I know that he did. Because I'm not going to know at all since he's Anon and his mentions won't send me the notification.

[Stacyzee]

Sure, I will

[MaskedSanity]

Jesus fucking Christ, it seems you can't even say GOOD things about men without having a bunch of butthurt little piss babies turn this into a woman bashing contest.

Some men on this website are beyond help.

[ThisDudeHere]

So says the woman who did nothing but bash men.

[MaskedSanity]

@ThisDudeHere

I bash both genders equally. You're more than welcome to check my comment history.

[Stacyzee]

She's 100 percent correct. It's sad how men cannot accept a compliment without having to voice their insecurities and tear women down.

[ThisDudeHere]

Well it's them trying to express their frustrations. One might come to the conclusion that the dating world (and women in general) are pretty hard on men, so they end up bitter.

[MaskedSanity]

@ThisDudeHere

Yeah, but the take is talking positively about men, not listing a checklist of requirements or saying "7 things I hate about men".

Venting their frustrations here of all places is just juvenile.

[ThisDudeHere]

But then again, when was a last time a take that was actively offensive/ antagonistic to women was even allowed to stay? They are almost immediately banned most of the time. And those that aren't don't get a lot of female traffic so any vented frustrations won't be seen by the people they're addressed to.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to excuse them bashing women, I'm just stating why they do it. I kind of feel similarly but I'm not about to be a dick about it. I'll just keep it to myself instead.

[MaskedSanity]

@ThisDudeHere

Both my takes very aggressively bash women and they got a lot of traffic.😛

[ThisDudeHere]

I meant women bashing takes written by men.

[MaskedSanity]

@ThisDudeHere

I suppose you're right. However, far too often the criticising takes written by certain men just go on about how much women suck, are inferior and deserve to be hated, rather than provide reasonable criticism of certain behaviours.

[ThisDudeHere]

I can not deny that, yes. But the last ones I came across didn't come off that way and instead were well constructed. None the less the women went there and instead of providing good counter arguments, they did the usual "oh look who's bitter."

[MaskedSanity]

@ThisDudeHere

I haven't seen any such takes recently, to be honest, but I can definitely believe the nature of those comments by women as I've seen such replies before.

[FilthyPervert]

Not one thing here was a compliment to men, it was an example of peer pressure to be super strong and sweet and beta male 'carry me bitch' type of boyfriend.

[truedee-sire]

@FilthyPervert I completely 100% agree

[Anonymous]

This take is nice but the only thing that matters to women when it comes to men for the most part is this:

1. Looks (Face)

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2. Height
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3. Money
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4. Social Status (Popularity)

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Personality is irrelevant. Hence why guys often ask themselves why girls stick in abusive relationship with a guy who treats her like shit and has a horrible personality.

It's because he has all these.

[10dsw]

Tastefully said my friend.

[Stacyzee]

From a realistic stand point, since humans were put on Earth to procreate we are going to want qualities in a partner that are deemed as attractive and that can be passed on to our future offspring. It's not bad if a woman wants to reproduce with a man who has attractive characteristics. Money is included, because who is going to want a man who cannot provide for his family? Someone that is a hard worker and is independent is attractive. There is no denying that. However, when a woman refuses to work and constantly has her hand out for money, then there's obviously something wrong. She's a gold digger.
Wanting someone who has attractive characteristics isn't a bad thing. If someone goes for another they don't find even the least bit attractive how can they establish chemistry? Personality goes hand in hand with the way someone looks.
Looks gets someone noticed, but personality is what keeps the person.
How many marriages end in divorce because of personality traits clashing?

[Stacyzee]

As for you stating that women stay in abusive relationships, that's due to their past trauma and low self esteem issues. Women that get help with their self esteem, or have a great sense of self worth don't find themselves in those types of relationships.

[Stacyzee]

As for "social status" unless the girl is in highschool or a groupie whore (gold digger) I can see this mattering. The more popularity, most likely the more connections, fame and cash.

[DBAOracle]

I disagree with you. I'll make the example out of some of the guys at my workplace, they're the nerdiest type of nerds. (I'm not looking down on them, I'm one of them and we work in IT if you're wondering) and I wouldn't say they might necessarily posses points 1,2 and 4 but we do make pretty decent incomes, so they have point #3. Only 2 out of 7 of us in the IT sector are single; me and another guy. Assuming that the other 5 are not singles because of heir income is absurd especially because I've met the girls during company parties and they were like the nicest girls ever you'd never perceive them as the scheming type.

If you really want to know about what women like, look at the types of guys that they date and listen to them describing their current and previous boyfriends. Never have I stumbled upon a woman that said that she dated the guy because he was rich neither have I seen a woman highlighting rich as one of the things she likes about her guy. I'm sure they exist though.

[Opinion Owner]

@DBAOracle Dude every rule of thumbs has outliers. Doesn't change the rule of norms which is true for most cases. Just as you can name on case I can show you plenty others. Men who are 5'6 getting passed over and not given a chance by women because they are too short especially in online dating. Where it's reported men need to make 60k+ to compensate for 4 inches.

Also you should never listen to what a woman say. Look at their actions. The type of guy they huddle and usually swoon for are tall guys with nice faces, rich guys and so forth. A woman will never give you an honest answer if you ask her because they don't like to be looked at as shallow.

[DBAOracle]

"Dude every rule of thumbs has outliers."
That's a true statement, I agree. But from my observation, the majority of people are either dating or have dated before.
"Men who are 5'6 getting passed over and not given a chance by women"
I'll probably agree that lots of women care about height. But, we also care about things. In my Computer Science classes, you can imagine the types of girls there (when there's any); not necessarily cute or sexy. None of us guys approach them either out of shyness or for higher standards. One case that really made me think was when a girl next to me was Googling something similar to "what do guys do when they like you?" she was playing with her hair while reading the results and you could easily conclude from the look on her face that she was wishing one guy would do to her what she was reading. Girls do have problems, we just don't always understand their problems same way they don't always understand ours. We're different genders, not the same.

[DBAOracle]

"online dating."
That's a whole different beast. But, because there are all these different options out there, our standards usually skyrocket because we subconsciously believe that all these options out there allows us to raise our standards a bit. That goes for both men and women.
"Where it's reported men need to make 60k+ to compensate for 4 inches."
As humble as I can, I currently make around that much, usually DBAs make more than this but I still go to school and that's why my salary is a tad lower than usual. But, as I said before, I'm barely feeling any difference between my previous incomes and now. But for the sake of honesty, I don't necessarily show off with clothes, jewelry and such...

"Look at their actions."
I've said before, "If you really want to know about what women like, look at the types of guys that they date and listen to them describing their current and previous boyfriends."

[DBAOracle]

Yes, I've experienced girls saying that they want something but then go for something totally different. But I just can't assume that every girl that speaks is providing me with false information...

[Scrambledagain]

The fucked up thing about these type of takes is that every man has a smile, eyes, deep voice etc. most nice guys are romantic and compassionate. So why don't they get girls? this type of take is actually invalid. Every guy basically has these traits. It's like me saying: "I love boobs and ass on on a woman". all women have this. That doesn't mean anything. it's ALWAYS in the context of something more specific.

I can confidently say I have all 7 of these traits. So that would make me 10/10. But alas I am a bit short, so 9/10. i do gym, weigh 80kg (bench a 100kg) and am ripped. But there are way bigger and stronger guys. I'm also more a musician than say a boxer. So -1 in protection. 8/10. Conversation? I have several university degrees and stayed in 3 countries. So what? its not what you know, it's how you project it. Women fall for the dumbest shit if the guy looks confident in saying it. some of the most interesting, well educated guys don't even have a chance to talk to a girl if they don't know the skills of attraction. I'm poor with that, so -1. 7/10. Humour? That's always been my major strength (my player buddie always used me as a wingman for this). Again, if you don't direct it properly, you look more like a clown. So again, in context, -1. 6/10. Player boy got the girls I buttered up. Romance and compassion? "Red alert, red alert, red alert, nice guy contamination, please evacuate love game immediately" 😂😂 that's a -50 in my experience. But realistically, again, in the wrong context, it can creep a girl out. I've been bad with this too... overly romantic. -1 5/10. Can go on forever...

Point is, in reality, I'm either perfect or non- existent based on your take.

[Stacyzee]

Why must you always find the negativity in something? You are one of the most misguided guys on this site I have ever encountered.

Although all men have these traits , not all of them are nice (let's be real).

Not all eyes are striking.
Not all smiles are great (people smile differently , some may even have damaged teeth).
Not all penises look and feel great.
"Most men are not compassionate or romantic" some have to be taught , did u even read my experience?
Not all men are strong , in fact some of very weak or extremely unfit to the point where it shows.

[Scrambledagain]

Misguided? I am the most logical person here. The difference between me and everyone else is that I can see the bullshit. You know what my highest mark at University was? Critical psychology. Got 98% for slamming theories in Psychology at Honors level (my second highest mark Female Psychopathology... which is ironic ha ha). Got me a Golden Key membership (given to the top 15% of university students around the world).

But apparently you are a babe, so again, you wouldn't fully feel what its like being a man reading this. This type of take is a depressive trigger in some men. Hence the backlash from some of us. You actually make it worse. Its like a rich person telling poor people what you like best about having money.

Im just saying your take, although cute and positive, is invalid without context.

[Mistnigqa808]

"When a attractive man posts a photo online, and it looks like a mugshot!" LMAO that sounds like @Humping_Tornadoes and I when we take pics on here >_< img.pandawhale.com/46896-laughing-fox-gif-VJr9.gif

nice take as usual.

[Humping_Tornadoes]

Guilty! Hate smiling in pics 😂😂

@Asker Good take btw! ☺

[Stacyzee]

Thanks :)

[Phoenix98]

LOL that gif.

[AleDeEurope]

Good take, it was nice to hear :)
I didn't know hearing our voice is that important... I guess I gotta call my girl more often :P

by the way, when I saw that #1 was "His package" I thought: "Oh no, little dicked Gagers are gonna get pissed at this xD"

[FatherJack]

Thank you for posting this , it's extremely rare to hear / see a woman being complimentary towards men , most women bash men constantly. Surprised @ No 1 , was under the impression that most women are not really sexually driven & were turned off by overt male sexuality I don't really smile at all , not romantic , but have been complimented on my unusual green / blue eyes & do 6 well

[Anonymous]

Number 6 is when I turn off most women, should I just shut up and never speak my mind? I can't change who I am, a man with a serious morbid mind, aggressive at times and delirious and satirical at others.

I hate agreeing about everything just to be able to talk to/be with a woman these days... they have very few beliefs that are similar to a man like me and/or they seem to want a subservient man. I like a woman who will listen to me talk if I listen to her, and share the time and split it up fairly.

[Anonymous]

Thank you. I know a lot of people have a hard time accepting compliments. I think they just aren't use to being complimented. We live in a society that typically only compliments us, when someone wants something from us. As a result when we are complimented, it makes us reflect on all the times we only hear the negative about ourselves and makes us feel defensive. I think that is the problem.

[IceEverest]

Great and amazing take... LOVED IT.
THANKS FOR THE COMPLIMENTS...
1. I dont know I am a virgin.
2. I have masculine voice and it brings me attention.
3. I dont know, But I am partially muscular and play sports.
4. No, I look like a kid when I smile.
5. I hate my eyes.
6. I have little bit of it...
7. Compassionate but not sure about being romantic.

AGAIN A SORRY FOR MY PREVIOUS COMMENT

[ConsultantIsBack]

Good list and writing! love how you just start right into things with #1 xD haha

[Stacyzee]

Oh yes :) if he doesn't have this I have to go !

[Anonymous]

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[Stacyzee]

Sadly, the girls you've met feel that way.

But that's definitely not a representation of how I feel about men :)

[Opinion Owner]

It's not that all women are whores all the time... but the natural apotheosis of the feminine attitude is prostitution.

[Stacyzee]

That's great you feel that way. You must feel the same way about your Mother and grandma.

[Stacyzee]

Okay, I misread what you said (sorry!). I agree with you to an extent. I really think you are meeting the wrong types of women to even think that.

[Opinion Owner]

Men have always known you... woman

No amount of feminist brainwashing can stop the awakening

[Stacyzee]

"you women" and I'm brainwashed?
I'm automatically put into a category because you believe there are no exceptions to what you think we are.
You're the one brainwashed.
Its sad :(
You'll never find love that way.

[Opinion Owner]

Nobody's denying that some women are better in comparison to other women...

[Opinion Owner]

Finding love is a terribly feminist thing to do... I will have no part of it

[889889]

Thanks for writing this, it's heartwarming when women post this stuff, a lot of guys will appreciate it.

[ThisDudeHere]

"7 Things I Love About *Attractive* Men"

Fixed it for ya^^^

[Stacyzee]

Feel free to write your own.

In your case "unattractive men" since it's apparent you harbor some type of resentment.

[ThisDudeHere]

lol just a joke

[Stacyzee]

Ahh, it better be :( I'm thinking what's wrong with this guy , he's going to start this early on already lol

[UnknownXYZ]

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Except the joke is true.

[Stacyzee]

@DBAOracle There's more ! We have another one.

[DBAOracle]

@Stacyzee Haha, thanks. But this opinion is just constructed wrong. Because attractiveness is subjective and any girl that makes a myTake about "Things I Love About Men" of course she'll mention what she finds attractive else it wouldn't make sense. For example if some other girl made a similar myTake and one of the points was "dirty and never take a shower" To her, that would be attractive. So for sure it can be renamed as "Things I love about attractive men". Any similar myTake can include the word attractive in it's title since it clearly speaks of what is found attractive and what's attractive to the author might not be attractive to someone else. Sure some things are commonly liked among girls but I've seen some girls throw exceptions on the guys they dated just because they possessed some other quality that they liked.

[Stacyzee]

I got to say MaskSanity hit the nail on this one when she said men cannot accept a compliment , it's sad :(

[Baggz]

Awww thanks Stacy!! Love your description of my personality and appearance 😂😂😂😂

[Hollywood-Glam]

Please God help me find a man with all those qualities😌

[DocRim]

I agree with most of this! You just summed up why I'm 140% straight. Really nice Take.

[Cjanes]

I'm about 70% sure the guy in number 5 is wearing mascara

[xslope]

He's also wearing photoshop.

[godfatherfan]

LOL bingo...@xslope

[YourFutureEx]

Damn. I've only #6.
Well, better luck next time for me, I hope.

I think most women prefer the same things. :)

[Anonymous]

i think this is for you

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hr0Wv5DJhuk

[thesunstillshines9]

I love these things about men too
Whenever I mention the mans voice comment some people think I'm weird
I love a nice sexy voice on a man

[heavensgift2girls]

You aren't weird for liking a guy's voice. A lot of women love a man's voice. In fact men with a deeper voice, tend to have more children than men with a high voice.

[SITdown]

Check check check check check check check ! My girlfriend agrees :)