My fiancé asked me to give him the ring back when he was mad. what should I do?

[Anonymous]

My fiancé asked me to give him the ring back when he was mad. I didn't give it to him right away but he kept saying he wants the ring. Finally, I gave him the ring. 15 minutes later, he asked me to wear the ring! I said no because what he did is very stupid and imature. When I said no, he got mad and said he was testing me!!! I do not know what to do. I can not trust him anymore because that fight was the first one after he gave me the ring. He gave it to me just two days ago. He is not a child. he is 40 years old. I'm counfused and do not know what to do. Should I say no or yes again.

[singlebee]

Well he is immature.. LOL he was paying with for when he asked you to give back his ring... And threatening you to breakup... very very immature for a 40 year old... you should not marry this guy... Cause i think it's a big red Flag if he is acting like this all the time...
And if this was the first time then let it go... But watch out.

[Anonymous]

This is what we call a "warning sign," folks. If I were in your situation, I would give back the ring and thank my lucky stars I saw the warning signs before the wedding.

[Asker]

He was saying I have to wear it or he is breaking up with me. I said, does it not mean breaking up when you asked me the ring back? He was just screaming. No answer.

[Opinion Owner]

That's bad, very bad. Do you want that kind of drama in your life for the next 40-50 years? I know I wouldn't.

[misscoffeehead]

He was testing you? Is he an idiot? Tell him what he did was not good. Ask him why he needed to test you for.

Guys guys guys guys, do not test your girlfriend, fiancé, whoever. It's so bad. Nothing makes you look so bad when you test your SO.

[Asker]

He wanted me to say no please do not leave me! we had a fight and he thinks this is a good way to punish me for fighting with him.

[misscoffeehead]

Yeah that's still not on though. Your not a child. And why he is even punishing you like that is beyond me.

[ChaosKilledTheDinos]

I would not stay with him, or at least not agree to be engaged for quite awhile. "Testing you" is a sign of being controlling, it's just creepy. You're right, it's very immature.

[Drooogie4]

Big red flag. BIG.
He's super immature, and that's a warning of what's to come.

[Account]

You don't want my honest opinion about this matter, trust me on that.

[MrAtticusLebowski]

HE'S 40? sounds like a 12 y/o. You really marry this "man"? He sounds like he has some issues.

[Asker]

He blames me for what he did. I told him that I can not put the ring on again. It has no meaning since he asked me the ring two days after he gave it to me.

[MrAtticusLebowski]

You need to take a long look inside. He sounds like a man that will punish you for every little infraction. No way this marriage is starting on the right foot. Sounds like a man-child... you're still young enough to find someone else. Run while you can.

[snowangle]

Agree with this.

[Octavion]

He was testing you... That was the best he could come up with. That would be even worse. Testing someone is what you do when you don't trust them.

[Jellybeansr]

Sounds like a big baby. Jump ship while you still can

[theCatcherintheRye]

and that kids how I realized older men are not always more mature...

[Kshppatel]

Asks for ring. Tells you to wear ring few days later. Uwotm8

[Cowboy6666]

Its complicated...
Can't say what are his intentions...

But he is acting like an immature... !

[Anonymous]

One of you needs to be the big kid and apologize for whatever caused this

[Bluemax]

How long have you been together with him?

[Asker]

almost two years

[Bluemax]

His behavior is a red flag.

[princessmethteeth]

Obviously you like rings and shiny things...