What is your ideal boyfriend or girlfriend?

[SuperCurious]

When you think of your perfect guy or girl what do you imagine? What would they're body, face, personality etc. be like?

[zeitgeist057]

Physical:

Short, maybe 5'3"

Dark Hair, Light eyes. Likes to dye her hair in funky colors. Hair can be from mohawk to long, but I prefer a little more on the short side. My girl is a pixie!

wears makeup, simple but a little dark, smooth skin

Lips not all huge and mushy but not pencil lips, either.

Teeth a little crooked is cute but not English status.

Breasts can be B-++ but I like them FIRM so if they are large I prefer for them to be fake rather than mushy.

In general a girl should be curvy but have a firm figure, smooth.

an ex of mine is here link and she is a good example of my idea of physically perfect

Mental/Personality:

Is the kind of person who says "Yes" to opportunities, learning, life in general.

Loves to talk and banter. Witty and shares her ideas with me, whether they are silly or serious.

Honest and loyal, with a strong sense of the importance of friends and family, connections to other people.

Has a life and interests outside of me and mine.

Gives me attention, most importantly in the forms of verbal praise and physical affection.

Communicates problems and concerns effectively using verbal skills rather than withholding of affection or other physical demonstrations.

Likes children and animals, is kind to both.

Sexual Compatibility:

(I have to keep this section a bit restrained, I've discovered this site is not the most progressive in regards to sexuality.)

Generally submissive, trusting and derives enjoyment from pleasing me.

Enjoys giving and receiving oral pleasure. INITIATES AGGRESSIVELY when she wants to give.

Enjoys middle of the night or early morning incursions. (I'm a bit of a somnophiliac)

Shaves or better yet, waxes.

Interested in Dom/sub roleplay

Communicates/discusses afterward to make for more intimate experiences.

Vocal but not "The neighbors are gonna call the police" vocal.

Lifestyle:

Enjoys variety in: Food, physical activities, cultures, music, wardrobe, location(traveling).

Eats fairly healthy

Enjoys exercise

Good hygiene

Likes to live in a clean house, clean car, &c. Can let things be messy every once in a while and not stress, but not living in filth. Not OCD but kind of close, maybe around 80%?

That's her!

Kind of the female version of me in the Lifestyle and Mental areas. Physical and Sexual more like the Yang to my Yin. Of course these are just my ideas, who knows who I will actually meet and perhaps I'll be pleasantly surprised by someone who doesn't fit into the above "boxes"!

[tea0lover]

hmm dude... good luck with that.. but hey well written! xD

i'm sure if you find this girl, she'll be a KEEPER!

best of lucks!

[zeitgeist057]

Well of course!

She did ask for our definition of "perfect", right? Not, "what will you settle for?"

[zeitgeist057]

and actually this isn't too far off from most of the girls I've dated. I'd say that almost all of them had at least 75% of these qualities.

I didn't really think about it while I was doing it, but this "ideal woman" was just a combination of all the best things I've enjoyed about my past partners.

[mike5150]

I have a wide range of women I find attractive. Here is just simple breakdown of things that are important to me

Personality: If she generaly seems happy or makes me feel like she enjoys being around me that is a plus. For the most part whenever I talk with a girl after about a minute I get the feeling there just wanting the conversation to end or they just seem disinterested in me that is a huge turnoff.

Looks: Naturaly everyone is going to want someone there attracted to. To me they don't have to be a model or anything like that. I want a girl with a nice smile and its a plus if she likes to smile alot. As for makeup a little bit is nice but don't go overboard on it that would be a turn off.

Body: I don't mind if a girl is a skinny or if she has a little weight. I perfer a girl who can eat there whole meal if we were to go out for dinner or something but I still like to know she is healthy.

Other: Don't over due perfume. I know girls around here who the second they walk into the room all you can smell is their perfume. Sports that's another plus if she likes sports, also rock and pop music is perfered as well.

[tea0lover]

Why don't we start with the main one, of course for me

There in oreder of what's more important

Personality:

-very smart person, not in book smart but as in astute, anyone can be book smart and do absolutely nothing when it comes to real life.

-caring but not going overboard with cheesy!

-makes his own opinions and has a mind of his own!

-really funny but knows when to stop! I can play hard but come on! treat me nice!

-loves sports (specially Baseball)

-love to read (not magazines! >.<)

-adventurous!

-Spontaneous

- Open for new ideas and cultures

- Be Clean! I love guys who are clean because if they care for them selfs they defenitly can care for another person

-Respect my ideals as I'll respect his

Aspirations:

HIGH! I love men with a big aspiration! if you don't have anything for you, you could fill all that I wrote but with no aspirations you'd be like the broom, like I said before " if I wanted to date one I would!"

Physical:

TALL! at least 5'11, I'm 5'7 so yeah I like them tall

not skinny! if I wanted to date a broom ii would, but not overweight, in shape

white, tan, dark it al works for me

really penetrating eyes, I am a true believer in the idea that the eyes are windos to our souls so I love guys who say a story in their eyes

color of eyes? I do love color eyes but if you cover the requirement before your good with me

Religion:

i'm catholic but I'm open for anything

Age:

i like them 4 or 5 years older than me,I consider myself a very mature person so no idiots

So I think that's it, I don't want to linger more so, I'll stop thinking for now about this.

the end to this is that I want to be taken care of. I worry about to many people so a liitle love towards me would be very refreshing! and no I am not a mom or any of that sh*t! thnx

best of lucks to everyone!

[biewersrule]

Self-confident, has a life besides me and would not give it up all the time for me either, is a person sure of himself, great sense of humour, manners, giving unto others, thoughtful, caring of my needs but not overly so...and wants to be with me but willing to respect my boundaries as well, and share in some but not all of my life plans and activities. Oh yes and of course someone who surprises me with kind gestures that I would appreciate...ex: not tickets to a ballgame but to a play or something of the sort.

The worse type would be one who wants me all to himself all the time, calls me all the time for no good reason, emails, texts, etc...boring..

And I wouldn't want to give up my life just to be with him, cause he'd lose respect for me and just end up dumping me after 20 years anyways.

[SuperCurious]

Interesting a nswer, thanks :)

[frecklefaced]

link

Thats him(:

Physical; Red or Brown hair

Green blue or hazel eyes.

Somewhat muscular ( though my boyfriend is super buff) I don't mind if they are average.

Taller than me by at least 4 inches. I'm about 5'4.

and Great smile:D

Personalitly;

Less outgoing than me but still good with people

Loves his family

Likes kids

Can make me laugh

makes me feel comfortable

and has silly things about him that make me smile:D

[mrlonelyone]

Physically I have to find them attractive enough and reasonably fit. I find a wide range of bodies attractive. I am not demanding of a specific type when it comes to physical looks. I take good care of myself they should too.

Mentally though... I am really picky about the brains of my partners and mates. They have to be able to keep up with me. I am a theoretical physicist and I refuse to play dumb for a beautiful but mentally slower person.

Mentally they have to have something on the ball. They don't have to have the same interest I do but they have to have some interest of some kind. I like a partner or mate to be someone I can learn from.

[SuperCurious]

Thats good to know, thanks :)

[Paramore_fan]

Ooooooh your job sounds fun, but I prefer anatomy

[mrlonelyone]

Anatomy eh. Which parts do you enjoy the most?

[DoctorSex]

...i want different types of girls at different points in the week loool but I will say this though...my wives have to have submissive, kind, reliable, and intellectual on a broad spectrum, personality traits. But I'm not lookin for that at present...infact, I choose to stay the hell away from those type of girls, and I wish more guys thought like this..

Some girls are pure wifey material and shouldn't be sexed or f***ed around with.

Ive wrecked too many good girls + guys babymums...i sit up at night thinking, 'i feel sorry for the next guy, he hasn't got ANYTHING new to show her + woow some guy actually had his kid with her...jheeeeez'

[bioweapon154]

link

I like them to be fit or at least healthy from some idea. Obviously a pretty face. I found personality should probably be as close to the maturity that I saw in this lifestyle posting. Go on and read it, I really found it to be refreshing that for once a love-life magazine put out something that offered hope for mature people looking for relationships and banished childish behavior.

[Anonymous]

my Ideal Boyfriend:

Personality-

Honest, caring, straight-forward no bull-sh*tting, generous, kind-hearted/ helpful, sense of humor, does me my favours/ considerate, sensitive, friendly, loyal & truthful, hard-working, someone who's not secretive...

Physical Appearance-

Dark haired (brown hair preferably), brown eyes or hazel eyes (prferably brown), average height (5"10 - 5"11), well-built (not fat but with some meat I don't like skinny guys), short- medium length hair (no long hair please)

[DaveMicharl69]

If a girl has a sweet, fun personality & I find her easy to talk to & pleasent to be with, everything else is just extra gravy! If I had my ideal choice, it would be a girl with a pretty face & nice curves who wore things to show off her waistline, (tucked in or belted shirts) but in the grand scheme of things, that is really unimportant. If I found someone I loved being with, then as long as she's happy & comfortable in how she dresses, any style would be fine with me...

[SuperCurious]

:) that's good

[itsweird182]

What she looks like doesn't really matter as long as I find her attractive. Although I am only 5'5" so I prefer shorter girls.

Personality wise, I like a girl to be kind and sweet and want to spend lots of time together. I don't like it when a girl has a ton of guy friends that she sees more than me. I would like her to be in school doing something with her life and working. I don't care whether she lives with her parents or not.

[SuperCurious]

thats good :) thanks

[darkknight1x]

When I think of the perfect woman I imagine she would look like this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Pf35DBjERk

. As for personality she would have to be funny,have a great sense of humor,faithful,very affectionate,passionate,sympathetic,have a huge heart,friendly,outgoing,very energetic,down-to-earth,smart but not too smart,appreciates the simple things in life and never yells.

[Anonymous]

I would want a girl that has black or brown hair, long and straight. I like blue eyes and not a lot of makeup, fair skin, dark pink lips, big nose, but not to big more of like a straight angle to it, I like nose rings and a nice face shape.

5'5 or less ( I like short girls) bigger butt than boobs but at least a B. not to skinny ( athletic body type is nice) dimples at the bottem of her back because that's so hott to me .

i like shy seductive girls that like to tease

[Anonymous]

it's hard to say...

i dated a guy that was prefect on paper. he had all the qualities I was looking for personality wise and appearance wise. however there was no chemistry at all though he had the qualities I was looking for

then I dated a guy that was not so prefect on paper. for one thing he was shorter than me. but who can explain attraction? cause I'm so into him, we have that chemistry.

[snowboarder720]

a snowboarding megan fox. lol.

i dunno, I don't think any girl can be perfect. every rose has its thorn, but I dig brunettes the most. Sorta tom boy like. oooo and acrobatic too, because then they have amazing abs

[SuperCurious]

Lol Megan Fox is gorgeous :) and that's true

[Jager66]

in no particular order:

kind hearted

low maintenance

many well formed opinions

happy

open minded

spiritual but not religious

mutual chemistry

values a healthy life style

[SuperCurious]

Good guidelines :)

[Olesya]

personally, I don't need any princes, supermen and the like (have never actually dreamt of guys of that sort and don't believe the type itself exists in real life). I'd like someone with whom I can be myself - spontaneous and rebellious:)

[SuperCurious]

Good answer :)

[DirtyDlish]

I don't think like a chick like oOOOH my perfect man would be blah blah blah blah. I don't care who you are if its right it just clicks. Get your head out of the clouds

[SuperCurious]

Lol I just asked a question, my head is where it goes :) not in the clouds

[party4life]

I don't have a really perfect type of guy, but all I know is that, he has to be good looking.

And behavior wise, no smoking, drinking, or doing drugs, and treats me like a princess. :)

Too bad my guy is perfect in look wise, the other things I want like smoking, drinking, and doing drugs... well that's f***ed... :(

[SuperCurious]

I think its almost imposible to get a perfect match, my guy isn't ep to my exact standards but he is still pretty awesome lol

[party4life]

That's good, just don't go out with a coke head... ruins your WHOLE relationship on a whole new level.

[SuperCurious]

I won't even go out with him if he smokes to weed more than a little...lol

[party4life]

GOOD. Keep it that way. DON'T EVER LET THEM TRY TO RUN OVER YOUR MORALS.

[SuperCurious]

Thank you :)

[Anonymous]

really nice!

can make me laugh no matter what

somewhat attractive, I kinda like guys with brown hair more but its not needed

taller than me but I'm only like 5.4/5.3

has to be able to commit- not right away or anything but at some point.

and there HAS to be a good chemistry/sexual vibe.

[ryanontario]

the problem with concept of ideal bf/ girlfriend is that they don't really exist , lots of people who'd be OK in real life exist but the perfect match is not found by many .

[SuperCurious]

Im not saying you have to find it, just asking what qualities you think are essential

[shacodraco]

she just needs to be able to make good sandwiches. she could be man for all I care. ;)

[SuperCurious]

haha wow

[markprendo]

HAHAHA

[destroyer]

Long shoulder length hair, curvy with 15% bodyfat, doesn't nag, low maintenance, dresses sexy all the time, cooks, cleans, friendly, great in bed, faithful

[Anonymous]

She'd look like you :) seriously though, curvy, doesn't nag, cute face, doesn't cake her self in make up, sensitive and at least tries to make me happy.

[SuperCurious]

lol thank you :)

[Opinion Owner]

Haha welcome :)

[SystemofAdown]

I have lots of types I find attractive its like choosing a favorite band.

You fit in one of my types tho :)

[SuperCurious]

Haha why thank you :D

[DoctorSex]

i agree with the first statement...i want different types of girls at different points in the week loool but I will say this though...my wives have to have submissive, kind, reliable, and intellectual on a broad spectrum, personality traits. But I'm not lookin for that at present...infact, I chose to stay the hell away from those type of girls...