Girls - Would you contact a guy almost every day if you didn't see him as more than just friends?

[nicewiseguy]

Recently been seeing a girl a few times who gives me mixed signals, the main positive sign is that she is always contacting me, email, phone or text - personally I don't contact any of my friends every day, let alone girls I'm not interested in... dunno how you girls are though...?

[Anonymous]

How are you responding to the contact? I'd say she likes you - but maybe she's waiting for you to make a move on her? She's clearly thinking about you a lot and wants to keep the contact going-- if I didn't like someone I wouldn't be contacting him all the time- but maybe she's not certain of how you feel. If you like her, ask her out for a drink and if she says yes, have a fun evening and see how things go - you'll have a better idea of her feelings if you speak to her rather than wondering what her texts mean.

[nicewiseguy]

We've been out a few times... was paranoid for a bit that she just saw me as a friend,I guess I am used to girls giving blatant signals about making moves, but am starting to believe that its more than that now.. I really need to talk to her about it huh

[Lady-in-Waiting]

Personally, I don't call guys I'm not interested in. I'm always afraid of them thinking I'm interested. However, the guy I'm crazy about We talk almost every day. We're still just friends, but if he doesn't call or text me, I call or text him.

Working on getting it to the next level...

Ditto on the not being too abrupt if you let her know. Be subtle, but be romantic. Subtle is cool, but do be a bit obvious. Innuendo can be cool if you know how to do it without being TOO sexual.

Good luck!

[Angeleyezz]

I think if she contacts you as much as you say she does than yes she likes you but she's just probably too shit to actually tell you this. If you do like her back then just make a move and casually ask her out don't make it such a big deal because girls don't like everything out in the open but just try and be as nice as you can and you can take it from there.

[Bubbles]

Sounds like she likes you, there is this guy I'm interested in and I wright him almost everyday, if I don't I still say good night to him. So if you like her then talk to her

[clever_seeker]

I"m still trying to make a stand on this situation my self. are you sure it's not a sign of deep trust.

[Sanda]

Yeah, if a girl goes out of her way to contact you, in any means, every day, then she is interested. She will leave it up to you to make the first move. It's very classic female flirting behavior.

[BeautifulDoll392]

Uhmm. That's usually a sign that they like you. If they take the time of day to talk, IM, Phone or text you then that usually mean they like you.

[lizsh]

Without knowing the negative signs, I would have to say that she likes you. I, for one, would never contact a guy everyday, especially one that I was not interested in.