Guys: Why does a guy avoid the girl he likes and act cold towards her?
He liked me, I overheard him say so but he never asked me out officially and never went out. He was an outgoing guy and would speak to other girls so easily.When it came to me, he would be weird and go all serious and act like I upset him.He would walk away from me and avoid me if he could, yet I would catch him staring at me all the time.We were friends and a few occasions I felt like he tried to ask me to hang out with him but then he would change his mind and forget he ever asked me...so we never did hang out together on our own:(I tried so many times to show him we were cool but he just treated me like I didn't mean anything and gave me the cold shoulder!
What's Your Opinion?
Most Helpful Opinion
guys can get like that. He's might be shy and doesn't know how to handle his feelings.If you want to be really sure though just take the initiative and ask him out. Don't wait for him. Too many girls make that mistake and miss opportunities because they 'feel desperate'
What Guys Said 2
Why do you even like this guy if he acts like that towards you? He seems really weird. I have never heard of a guy behaving like that to a girl that he likes. At least not any guy who's over 13 years old.
What Girls Said 1
He might be so insecure with you 'cause he really likes you and so acting cold as a reaction to his fear...he may be rejecting the idea of you 2 as couple because of what he might be risking here: 'your friendhsip'...not sure if it helps, perhaps be open if you think the risk is worthy...