Depression is hard, but it's not permanent. Always, ALWAYS remind yourself of that. You can change.
I had depression, which was bad because I didn't even know I was depressed. My mom actually suffered from depression all my life, so to me if felt like natural way of things. However, what helped me (and I know it sounds cheesy at first, but it really helped) was spirituality. I was agnostic and figured if there was a God, I'd hate him anyways, but I hated that mentality. How can you hate what gave you life? So I got into reading different religions and found that Buddhism was interesting because it mostly focuses on being HAPPY. Letting things go, not forgetting anger and fear and sadness but using them as tools to better find HAPPINESS. It's really interesting if you want to try that.
Also, I started eating healthier. I mean, you may want to say "Fuck today and everybody in it" but you don't ever want to tell that to your body. Your thoughts are power (more on that in a sec) and your body uses what you think on how to better fit you. So if you tell yourself, "I'll at least take care of my body." Your body will take care of you, it will get healthy and strong and on the days I swear I wish I could shut everything off, I at least get to say, "At least I'm healthy and I look good," and that helps tons.
On the thoughts having power bit, look into Law of Attraction, watch The Secret, learn about "manifestation" and listen to Abraham Hicks. Study how to be happy and work on it vigorously. You absolutely must not give up because I promise, hun, you'll find it. Depression is a state of mind and like everything else in life, it can change if you really want it to. And if all else fails, come back on here and we can talk it out.
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Hi,
I struggle with depression and anxiety, here's some tips that help me
-First of all, don't take medication for it. You'll just get dependent on them, and they really don't solve the problem. The problem is that you have experienced emotional trauma and you need to heal from that. It will take time but it's the only way to truly get better.
-Second of all, try to meditate or pray. Before bed, close your eyes and meditate. Don't watch anything upsetting or think about upsetting things before bed, try to watch something funny if you can. This will help avoid bad dreams, plus when you wake up you will feel better
-Look up Teal Swan on youtube, watch her videos about healing the emotional body and whichever other videos stand out to you. They are actually really helpful if you are willing to give it a chance.
-When you're really upset, take a piece of paper and write everything you're thinking and feeling down, as fast as you can.
-Try to think about all of the things you are grateful for. Such as having enough food, shelter, water etc
If you feel upset when you're not with your boyfriend, you might be codependent. Look that up for advice on how to work on not being codependent. (I have codependency as well)
I've been where you're at.
I used to take different anti depressent medications... Some worked very well, others made me almost go blind...
For a few years I was on a popular antidepressant... Then I lost my job. I couldn't afford to take the medication anymore. The depression came back with a vengeance... I was diagnosed Bilolar II, and had OCD and some other things. I have suffered a lot of trauma when I was very young. Sexual, physical beatings, verbal abuse.
I tried to battle it alone.. and my willpower only went so far.
It's been probably 14 years since I've taken any medication or even supplements for my mood.
That's not to say I do not get depressed or angry... I am just much more in control of myself. Even though I blamed God for my past abuse and pain, I turned to Him for help, and He gave it to me. God has saved my life and been there for me. I can credit nothing else. God is the reason I do not have to take drugs.
But it's not easy... Life is still a struggle. It's still difficult. I struggle with so much crap, sometimes I think nobody suffers like I do.
But I get through it. And I am SO glad I am off prescription meds. They were making me sick, literally... All i can do is tell you what worked for me. My Heavenly Father. (God through His Son Jesus Christ)
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Physical activity and hobbies would help out a lot. I know volunteering at a soup kitchen helped me out of a slump, and I still do it because it actually relieves stress. Though it would never be promoted by any doctor marijuana does help against depression but won't help you be any less lethargic and like any narcotic you can develop a dependency (lets be clear its a non addictive substance but like anything can be abused.)
You can try running or some sort of physical exercise for an endorphin rush. Plus it's a good way to work up an appetite if you have trouble eating.
I think you need to keep busy and have more stuff going on.Have you tried meditation? There are many different forms and it helped me jot necessarily get rid of depression but sort of coexist with it.
However it's worth note that sometimes depression is chemical imbalance and not just a state of mind.Take long walks or bicycle. Help someone less fortunate, volunteer work etc. Keep busy n just don't sit idle to harbour negative thoughts. Do bit of gardening, are things grow, flourish. It's the simplest things in life gives you most valuable peace. Finally look in the mirror n smile, say you work for the government n protects people against the bad. keep the spirit high.
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