Impossible to relax and have fun when somethings bothering you?

[CuddlesWillDie]

What do ye think of this theory? Alcohol can impair our thinking and make us silly and more inclined to have fun but ultimately I believe we all want a clear head and a fresh start to truly enjoy ourselves

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This goes for subconscious thoughts too (When we're not aware of it now but it comes up later)

[Invoker]

For me, to genuinely be clear-minded. I need to acknowledge all the problems I, myself am facing along with the ones I care about.
I need to appreciate the work I put in and know that it's not going to be enough and as much as it never will be, I need to do my best with what I have everyday and every opportunity.

When I accept all of this in any given moment, peace follows. Then chaos all over again lol.

[Invoker]

Ah when I said ones I care about I mean to say specific people and of course, animals.

[CuddlesWillDie]

I agree, its important to love who you are and the things we do. Do you think if something can be done in your power that you feel compelled to do should be done instead of abandoned?

[Invoker]

Of course. I do believe we need to be selfish at times and doing something out of fulfillment will fall in line with being selfish. Progression in all things.

[CuddlesWillDie]

Well I do noticed going out your way to make another life easier (Like bearing with that annoying friend for 2 hours giving them advice but they come back to you days later saying that it worked) or going back to clean up past messes tends to give me a spiritual boost, I don't know if its like that for everyone but I guess helping others can be better than getting help from others sometimes

[Invoker]

Its all a matter of helping me, help you. Nothing wrong with a bit of gratitude in the world.

[CuddlesWillDie]

Kudos :)

[BertMacklinFBI]

nope not at all, riding a motorcycle proves my statement :)

[CuddlesWillDie]

Well I guess when full focus is on a task and you're in "the zone" thoughts are blocked, you've made a pretty good point

[CuddlesWillDie]

Also what are motorbikes like? I've always seemed to prefer them to cars even though i've never driven either

[BertMacklinFBI]

motorcycles are just amazing bruh. they say people who ride a motorcycle know the true meaning of why a dog sticks its face outside a window. its the ultimate freedom, nothing around you, you're literally sitting on top of an engine, and get to control all its inputs and outputs. turning/cornering is by far one of the most joys you could experience on a motorcycle. its a hobby that can also be used to commute, very versatile. you can park on the curb in most places. fit between 2 vehicles. power/weight ratio is amazing! you will have never ever experienced going from 0-60 in a car like on a bike. its just pure bliss bruh :D and everyone who rides loves to ride for life. if you're interested you should look up some motorcycle safety course lessons and get your certificate to get your license. its a whole lot of fun that most people in this world miss out on :D

[CuddlesWillDie]

Heh, you've seriously tempted my desire to buy one since I do like the idea of getting ontop of something sexy and riding it to my hearts content lol. They say bikes are dangerous but only if the driver (Or other driver) was stupid according to a man with 37 years of experience riding them. I enjoy cycling as it is and one of my favorite PS1 game is Road Rash 3D (Kind of like a racer/brawler but with motorbikes and weapons) My favourite colour is orange, orange motorbike would that be weird lol?

[BertMacklinFBI]

hahaa that is true, the only danger of a motorcycle is the rider itself, can't ever blame the bike. but you also gotta watch out for stupid drivers, which honestly, its not that hard once you become experienced. and you will learn to not put yourself in sticky situations so you're always safe in the end. orange is not lame at all, bikes srsly look good in almost every color. orange Lamborghinis look weird, but not bikes. Honda CBR600RR used to make a lot of orange color scheme bikes. hahaa pulling on your gloves, strapping on your helmet, and swinging your leg over your bike is the best feeling before kicking up the kickstand, turning your key, turn off the killswitch, pull in the clutch, hit the electric starter, and hear that engine come alive. next move after that is all yours :D

[delrey]

Alcohol does a great job helping me to cope with stress and video games also clears my head.

[CuddlesWillDie]

Alcohol can socially loosen me up in small amounts, in large amounts I can get either very silly (Singing loudly like a mentally challenged kid lol) or very emotional (Normally when there's some recent issue going on) Video games are my main place to escape and can be very fun, or very frustrating (Depending on the game) unfortunately they eat up a LOT of my time and I realise I haven't done much productive things