Saw this on a TV show last night and this lady was helping women fix their marriages buy teaching them to submit to their men is this what men want this is a curiosity of mine because I know I'm way to strong willed to ever do that
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Its all about gender roles. For a happy marriage the couple must play the specific gender roles and this is not just my personal opinion. Its what psychologists say. If the man is submissive, then gender role reversal occurs. The man becomes more sensitive and submissive and the woman is the one leading the relationship. Then both man and woman in the relationship are unhappy. You blame each other for it and whatever you do you only screw things up.
I have seen exactly this happening to 2 of my friends, both married with kids. The one lost his job about 6 years ago and at his age I doubt that he will ever find a job again. His wife continues the work in the restaurant she owns. Role reversal! The woman now takes care of the family and since then she always is a pain in the ass for my buddy, for even the most stupid and unimportant things!
My other friend is in a similar situation. His wife was always a bully and I could never understand how he allows such a disrespectful behaviour from a woman he's supposed to marry. He never defends himself and remains a complete wimp. Role reversal. They are always fighting and his wife is barking at him from dusk tip dawn, threading him with divorce from time to time.2