My fiance wants me to wear an engagement ring as well but I don't want to. It's causing fights. What should I do?
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haha you're silly. Iv never heard of a man with an engagement ring. Did SHE propose to you? :p
Dont wear the ring if you don't want to. She is mad because she thinks you don't love her enough to show the world that you are engaged. Regardless of your reasons for not wearing it, she really can't change the way you feel. right?
If you wear it, then you will be lying to yourself, and to her.
When you get married though, would you wear the wedding ring?
(Very nicely, and sweetly) Tell her you don't feel itz right for her to force you to do something you don't want to do. Tell her that your love for her remains the same regardless if you wear a ring or not. And that when you two get married, you will wear the wedding ring. She just needs your reassurance.
Some people perceive rings as something that symoblizes your love for each other/someone. It symbolizes commitment, loyalty, etc. That is probably how your girlfriend feels. Since you have a different opinion on it, then explain it to her.
I mean, what is in a ring anyway? There are a lot of married guys out there who wear their rings, as they hit on another chick at a bar, or while they fool around with their mistresses. So, what does that mean? Like I said, we all have different perspectives.0