Boyfriend keeps asking me to marry him, but hasn't actually proposed?

The fact that he asks me to marry him all the time just seems kind of weird to me now and it's kind of lost all meaning because it's pretty much always playful when he asks. Is he letting me know he wants to still marry me, just not going to propose yet?

I've just never heard of a guy doing this!

(btw we're both in our 20's)


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  • My boyfriend does that when we are having fun moments and he is introspecting, I think it a combination of to make sure I was ready, that I hadn't changed my mind, and that I get used to it , to let me know how he feels and is considering it .. I think even though your boyfriend is being playful, deep down he wants to spend his life with you.. rather than saying that because some guys may be nervous or unsure how to express when it comes to deep emotional conversation, this playful proposal maybe to hide his nervousness or insecurity about the situation.

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What Guys Said 1

  • In my opinion it seems he wants to marry you in the near future, but being afraid of rejection he's trying to make sure you will say yes before he goes out and gets a ring only to be shot down.

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    • I do want to marry him though and I've told him that :/. What's up with this boy?! lol

    • o...lol well my guess is he's hoping you will change your mind

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  • Lol, my boyfriend does this all the time. But both of us agree that we aren't in a position in our lives right now to run off and get married. Maybe that's why. Maybe he knows he wants to marry you, but you two just aren't in the position for it right now, whatever that reason may be for where you're at right now. Whether it's based on your relationship, finances, or just simply wanting to wait a bit longer.

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  • Maybe he is just planting the idea in your hesd so you know it'sgoing to happen and you can be ready for a response. ut it would be better as a surprise. Maybe you should tell him you like surprises and he will hopefully get the hint.

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  • Got same issue here.. He keeps proposing especially when he's drunk.. sometimes I have the taught of he's just fooling around.. Anyway good luck to you and your guy... Just don't rush things... ^_^

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    • Aw I'm sorry. Isn't it so frustrating? Even if you aren't ready to get married it STILL plays with your emotions :/

    • yes it is really indeed frustrating.. it might be that he's telling me those stuff to keep me for now but not forever.. :( :( :(

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