I know I sound like a gold digging bitch but my boyfriend - now fiance - popped the question a week ago. The ring he gave me probably cost less than $1,000 and he's a successful real estate agent so I know he has more money to spend. Should I be offended?
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Wow you should be happy he gave you a ring at all.
If you really loved him you wouldn't even need a ring to spend the rest of your life with him.
I had an ex-girlfriend who always looked at other womens rings and made comments to me about them.
Now it would make sense that if she wanted to get married she would say "did you see her ring?" but she always commented "did you see the SIZE of her ring?"
I was still in college and didn't have the money to buy her the $8000 ring she wanted, but I loved her and knew one day when I had a good job I would buy her that expensive engagement ring. Well we were dating for about 4 years and she was getting a little pushy about marriage so I asked her,
"If we could get married now with a smaller diamond ring, or get married in a few years with a BIG diamond ring. Which would you prefer?"
If she had given me the answer I had hoped, I would have probably had been a married guy. But she gave me the BIG answer and now she is my EX and I am not married just happy.8