I won't lie, I am a breast man, however if a flat chested girl was attracted to me and made this known to me, I would not reject her on the basis of her bustling, to my way of thinking, I'm not perfect, so I'm not about to expect perfection from anybody else, it just isn't fair, besides I have found that most everybody has something attractive about them, sometimes you just have to give it a little time to see what that is. Lastly if it just didn't seem like things were working out, I would try to be as nice as possible about it, and not make her feel bad, as much as possible anyway. I did this once before, as I knew a girl who was REALLY into me, and I wasn't so much, however before we became too physically intimate, even though I know I hurt her feelings (which I felt bad about) I was honest with her in that I was just not that attracted to her, and I didn't want us to get into something that would cause her more pain further down the road. So while I did feel horrible about hurting her feelings, I did so by being honest, not by trying to be mean. Does that make sense? Anyway I'm not one to judge somebody else on their physical appearance, because it's not like I just stepped off a movie screen myself.
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neither of those really.
your gonna have a tougher time. but your boobs and ass are just one aspect of your body. and your body is just one aspect of your overall self
i have a flat chest and a ok butt and guys love me. I mean i have guys at school trying to feel me up all of the time. They all say that they like my boobs because tehy are perky (32B) and they are quite small so they fit in their hands better. I am the most popular girl in my year and i have a senior boyfriend who loves me and all of his friends hit on me saying i have a nice body. Guys always ask me out and i am sure that guys will be doing the same to you if you have a bit more self confidence plus your boobs will probably grow ( my older sis was a 34A until uni when she became a 34C adn she didn't look any chunkier) anyway i would just say be confident and wear clothes that complement you and maybe buy a push up bra?
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You dont need boobs lol but all you gotta do is squats and you could b a mini iggy Azalea lol no but really wait till your 17 everything will set in place dahling
oh i noticed your age, then dont worry it will take till early 20s for you to get curvier and then you will have to work your butt to stay thin lol
Sister, I feel you. Everything you just sayed is the same for me. It's gotten to the point i'm waiting to be 18 so I could get plastic surgery.
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To be honest, with the choise between flat boobs or flat ass, I realy enjoy the ass. A woman can be completly flat chested and I think it is a real turn on. But I like a girl to have an ass. I like a woman with curves but a smaller chest isn't a turn off. actually a small chest is a plus in my book. I love to play with boobs, don't get me wrong, but if they are small it won't stop me from fondeling them. i can't say I would play with your ass? So go figure?
The most feminine feature of a woman is her face.
The other parts of you are probably better looking than you think. It is not at all uncommon to hear beautiful girls disparage their own looks.You are who you are. In the end it's about the person. Truly. You're still a woman, flat or not which makes you still attractive. Specifically, there are guys like me that could care less about the ass, I don't want a big ass contrary to popular belief. And breasts, I prefer smaller ones. Chances are, you aren't completely flat chested (no curve at all in any way?), even if you are "little boy" truly flat chested, again, you're still a woman. There are guys that aren't going to care and like you, not to worry.
Do you look feminine in a dress? Do you try to dress feminine? Or do you try to cover up and be shy in baggier clothes?
Men like boobs and asses. But I'd take a girl with flat chest and ass, over a girl with both and slouchy shouldersWhoever told you you are unattractive because you are flat is a moron. Small boobs are amazing, they are firm and perky! Plus, a push up bra can make them look big if you want. Girls with big boobs usually are big everywhere and no thank you!
I dont know my fixation with butts. Flat ones are unattractive.
That being said I've been attracted to multiple girls that were flat both ends so, it doesn't really say much in the end.I would look carefully at who is telling you that you're unattractive. Ten to one, they're just assholes.
It can be a deal breaker. Especially if my chest is bigger than hers.
Having what you might consider a "flat chest" and "flat butt" can actually be very attractive on a girl. Not every guy is attracted to the Kim Kardashian figure (in fact, I find it a turn off). Women with "flat" bodies are just as attractive as "curvy" ones. (I actually find them more attractive - it's almost an athletic quality).
You're still under 18, so a lot might change. Even if not, there are lots of guys who don't mind/like it. You must not please everyone. Even I can't do it ;))
I like tall skinny women who are curved enough at the right areas, but if you don't have any then sorry but I'm not attracted to you.
I'm super skinny and thin in every way but my bf has never complained
You'll develop as you get older. Hate is a strong word by the way, but behaviour also matters.
I'm not sexually attractive to flat bodies.
I Find it really attractive
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