Accidental boob gaze - did he feel it?

[Anonymous]

So I was on the train today and had to get off. It was crowded and I was climbing over people. As I went past this guy I accidentally boob gazed his back. As I got off he gave me a friendly smile - nothing suggestive - but as I walked off the train I thought back to what happened and I am sure my boob (nothing else) was pressed against him for about 30 secs and then grazed across his back. So the question is, do you think he knew it was a boob? And if so what would he think about a random boobing? I think he was about 20 and I'm 40 (if that helps)

Updates

+1 y

Yes i meant boob graze...

[Anonymous]

I vote YES
and veterans of train travel realize that this happens from time-time so nothing was thought of this GRAZE other than vicarious pleasure.

We don't often ponder how OFTEN we graze the guys, sometimes don't realize it even afterwards.
Hugging his arm = grazing, be it strolling or partner in dance class
Full frontal bear hugs, often with a kiss finale = grazing big time
Guess who? Hands over eyes from behind surprise often is a back graze
Crowded trains = crowded airports, busses, movies, sports events, et al.

I don't want to get into cup size as this happens to all gals but I've heard more grazing reports from the middle sized group... so guessing you are a "C"

[Asker]

Well I grew up in the country so not much train travel until I moved to the city... I'm not a veteran boob grazer.
I'm a DD.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, OK
another tact would be to use your arms to spread a path prior with "excuse me, this is my stop coming up" and not afraid to poke ribs with fingers... with a big smile... the herd these cows, country gal

[Asker]

Thanks for the tips :-)
I'm gonna try some of those - haha

[everyoneloves]

That's quite funny sorry haha but I don't think it's a big deal I accidently hit a women up the ass with my large and filled handbag the other day ! Don't let it worry you

[Asker]

That's ok, discussing it here on has made me laugh about it - some excitement up there from the guys... and it isn't even the most embarrassing thing I have done (it was much worse when I was about 25 I accidentally grabbed a random guys dick and I didn't even see his face).

[everyoneloves]

Lol you proberly made his day and I agree I love this site and people actually can discuss there answers unlike yahoo etc ! Maybe you should do it as much as u can if u ever feel a bit down haha! I'm sure that man remebers that well you sounded like a funny 25 yr old !

[Asker]

It is great how you get opinions from real people of all walks of life on here.
I don't think I'd be brave enough to do these things on purpose - lol. My friend said maybe on a subconscious level I did do it on purpose... (yeah, thanks).
The penis grab was just an unfortunate (or fortunate as the case may be) placement of the hand as I was gently swinging my arms in a really crowded place - I had turned to say something to my friend and all of a sudden this thought shot through my head - OMG, who's dick is that in my hand? And seriously, I could feel everything like he was wearing boxers. I let go as he walked past and I turned to look at him just as he turned away (so I only saw the side of his face) but my friend trailing behind me immediately raced up demanding to know what the hell I had done to this guy and looking at me like I'd just had sex with him. She said after the grab he stopped and looked me up and down, smirked and puffed out his chest and walk away... lol

[coffeprince]

How can a guy really know or tell the difference? Lol I don't think guys can tell the diff b/w boo. Or someone's arm brushing

[Asker]

Yes, I wondered that - I've tried brushing them on my arm to see how they feel different to other body parts but I have more feeling in the boobs than my arm so I can't really tell. One guy on here said "Marshmellows"...

[godfatherfan]

he probably did.
and since your cougar age, he probably thought you did it on purpose.
gotta love any boob touches... on purpose or not
remember that episode of Friends when they didn't want to tell Joey his show sucked, so Phoebe said she was just going to "press by breasts against him"
she did and he just smiled... lol... that is how nice that is lol...
you shoulda went after him... raaarrrrr

[Asker]

Haha... Yes I do recall that episode now. OMG, it was actually an accident.
Funny that if a random guy put his penis on me I don't think I would be happy about it...

[godfatherfan]

Well that is the unfortunate difference between men and women. men want sex and will take a naked woman or parts at anytime...

[Asker]

Hahaha...

[coffeprince]

Lol!!! Aww phoebe

[Anonymous]

This should explain everything you need to know here :D

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KLpTvsqMNJE

[jenny_q]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

[coffeprince]

LOL love him

[Asker]

HAHAHAHA - yes well explained and very funny. Thanks for sharing the clip :-)

[Asker]

A lot of great reaponses... I think this video sums it up.

[LittleSally]

This happens to me a lot... o. O
I'm not a guy, but I don't think he thought anything of it.

Ad least I wouldn't.
But they can definitely feel boobs on their back - they have a radar for it I'm told. xD

[Asker]

Lol - thanks :-)
It hadn't actually happened to me before - I just moved to the city recently so it's way more crowded...

[HikerDude]

If you've got double Ds, he definitely knew what they were lol. I get a huge smile on my face just thinking about a big pair of titties, let alone feeling them. And yes, young guys are attracted to hot older women ;-)

[Asker]

Lol - thanks for your comment. Sounds like he definitely felt it and knew what it was - only one touched him as I was kinda side on.

[HikerDude]

Well, it sounds like you made each other's days. Nothing like getting a good sexual compliment to put a smile on your face.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, we can definitely tell! When he smiled at you did you catch him briefly looking down to check out the pair he felt on his back? I'm sure he wanted to size them up!

[Asker]

Haha.. He was looking at me smiling and then when I looked at him he diverted his eyes like down to the ground and said "sorry" - I don't recall if he stopped between my eyes and the ground but if he did it was only for a moment.

[Opinion Owner]

LOL! Yeah--he definitely checked them out! Were they dressed to impress or where you covering them up?

[Asker]

How are you so certain he checked them out?
I was just wearing a nice top as it was after work so nothing low cut or anything

[Opinion Owner]

Because I'm a guy and if I felt a nice pair of boobs against my back I'd want to have a look at them! Plus looking down toward the ground as a great subtle way to check out the rack on the way down! XD Do you think he liked what he saw?

[Asker]

I don't know... I'm thinking maybe the "sorry" was because he apologised for checking them out? He looked embarrassed at that point.

[Opinion Owner]

Hahahaha! So he got caught staring, huh? I take it you have nice boobs then? XD

[Asker]

Well I couldnt work out what the sorry was for exactly as he wasn't obviously checking them out -but maybe he was...
I dont know what makes boobs 'nice boobs'.

[Opinion Owner]

If he was checking them out it would have been obvious to him and he probably thought it was obvious to you too. As for what makes nice boobs, I'm surprised you wouldn't know! lol!

[Asker]

Well I always think beauty is in the eye of the beholder - some like them big others like them small...

[Opinion Owner]

True, true. But there are certainly some boobs that get more attention than others.

[Asker]

I dont think mine are in that category.

[Opinion Owner]

I'd be happy to provide an expert opinion should you need one!

[Asker]

Hahaha -thanks but I'm not sending an pics.

[Opinion Owner]

That's too bad! It sounds like the guy on the train would've liked to have a mug shot of the pair that was poking him in the back! lol!

[Asker]

Haha -he looked pleased with how it felt (smile) but not sure after that - he didn't stare at them bit I think he was being polite.

[Opinion Owner]

LOL! How did he looked pleased by how they felt? Feeling them is typically even more fun than seeing them! XD

[Asker]

Well I saw his smiling face after I dragged them across his back.

[Opinion Owner]

Yep, that sounds about right! The best I've had happen on a crowded train, there was a hot girl wearing thin pants in front of me and when the train accelerated she'd back up into me and repeatedly bump her ass into my crotch. That had me smiling too! lol!

[Asker]

Haha -what's better boob or ass?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm generally more of a boob fan. This was nice because the height basically meant her ass was rubbing up against me dick though. It was a bit embarrassing because I'm sure she could feel it since I could clearly feel both her cheeks on either side of me when she'd back into me.

[Asker]

Hahaha - that is really funny! Did it start making you hard?

[Opinion Owner]

It did. Fortunately, I was still soft when most of the bumping occurred, but I definitely started getting hard as a result.

[Asker]

Haha - well she probably did feel it but I am sure she understood.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah--it would have been hard for her not to feel it, though maybe she just thought it was something in a pocket or what not. But yeah, I was nestled right in the crack of her butt and could easily feel her on both sides me so it inevitably got me twitching in response. I don't think she was on me long enough to feel me getting hard though. lol!

[Asker]

She's gotta have known it was your dick - not many things in the pocket that shape with that texture. Haha. She was probably quite enbarressed... not quiye as bad as me in my mid 20's when I did an accidental dick grab! Swinging my arms as I walked in a crowded place and turned to a friend next to me and - OMG, is that a dick in my hand? Yep it is! Lol...

[Opinion Owner]

Wait, what? You actually grabbed a guy's dick? What happened there? Did it react?

[Opinion Owner]

C'mon QA--don't leave me hanging! It sounds like you didn't leave the guy in your story hanging! lol!

[Asker]

Sorry, was offline for a while - yes a was in my 20's. I was in a crowded place walking with some friends and turned to talk to one of them. As I turned to her this thought shot through my head "omg, is that a dick in my hand? (momentary feel around).. yep that indeed is someone's dick. Omg, he must be wearing boxers as it ain't in a neat little package". I let go and swung around to look at him... he had already walked past and I only saw his profile as he strutted off. My friend trailing behind came racing up and says "OH... MY... GOD! What the hell did you just do?" Like I had jusr had sex with him cause she saw his reaction - surprised look as he walked past me then turns back to look at me, looks me up and down, smiles, turns to walk away, and puffs out his chest as he walks off. No I didn't feel him get hard.

[Opinion Owner]

How on earth did his dick end up in your hand? How long was it there?

[Asker]

I think I swung my arm when I was walking and turned to my friend to talk and he just happened to be there. I dont think it was there for long - maybe 3-5 seconds. A lot of thoughts flew threw my head in that time.

[Opinion Owner]

So your hand just landed on his dick and you kept it there for a few seconds? Did you wrap your hand around it at all? I'm surprised he didn't start to get hard.

[Asker]

His whole dick was sitting in my up turned hand. I could feel his balls, the head, like the whole thing just hanging there lol. Yeah I did feel him get a bit firm but it hadn't actually stood up. Maybe it did when I let go, I dont know. He didn't stick around for long so I guess he worked out it was an accident (?)

[Asker]

And I did feel around the head/shaft (just confirming yes it was a dick)...
Ps, I am 6 ft so my hands are big for a girl...

[Opinion Owner]

If you were feeling around the head shaft and balls, it's no wonder he started to get firm! Nice dick?

[Asker]

From what I felt I guess so... I didn't get to see it or feel it erect... If you just got to feel a pussy for a few seconds could you come to the conclusion as to whether it was a nice one or not?

[Opinion Owner]

Fair point. It'd be tough to get a sense that quickly with a pussy, but certainly possible with a pair of boobs or an ass.

[Asker]

I guess there isn't much to boobs or ass - they are just mounds lol. What do you consider to be nice boobs or ass?

[Opinion Owner]

True, true! Happy to expound further. It might be easier if you messaged me.

[deddi]

he knoew it was a boob, and he liked it. So he gave you a smile. probably you won't meet him again... so it's over.
But in case destinty will put you again on the same train... well you can smile him back ans see what's gonna ahppen :)

[Asker]

LOL
Thanks... I think I'd be too embarrassed to smile at him now

[MoshingExec]

He didn't know most likely. That is how pick-pockets operate. Bump or rub against someone and they cannot distinguish you grabbing at their ass for a wallet as opposed to accidental touching.

[Asker]

LOL - that could work

[tmac725]

He probably felt it. I'm sure most guys would agree we love a random boon graze here and there haha.

[Asker]

It looks like most guys on here have certainly agreed with you - HAHA

[Ryosanada]

You probably made his day. Yes we can tell when its breasts against us, bras have pads vs your skin, or something else touching us.

[Asker]

This bra didn't have any padding.

[Ryosanada]

Maybe your nipples were hard? I guess we just have some ways of telling some things, and you should smile that you made his day.

[Asker]

I dont recall if they were hard - I think they may have got that way after it dragged across his back - LOL. Yeah was embarresed at first but can laugh about it now.

[Ryosanada]

All girls should laugh about stuff like that. We guys are easy to please, and you'll probably never see him again.

[Asker]

LOL - I think it is because we wouldn't be quite so happy to have a random penis shoved onto us... so we put ourselves in what we think guys will be the same. Maybe if us girls could get into a guys mind a whole lot more then there would be a whole lot more random boobings going on... haha

[Asker]

*we put ourselves in what we think is the guys shoes and think he will be the same
sorry totally stuffed that bit up...

[Ryosanada]

LMAO! Yes there would be. But yes I can see your point. I guess I mean, don't do it on purpose, but don't worry if it happens. I love it when it happens to me, but not as good as dashes. Lol.

[Ryosanada]

Dashes is supposed to be flashes. Stupid phone...

[Asker]

Ha ha - dont think I's be game enough to do it on purpose... I can just see after I 'hit' the 5th poor unsuspecting male passenger in a row it might raise some suspicion LOL.

[Ryosanada]

LMAO. Well keep smiling.

[Ryosanada]

Oh, and you can boob graze me anytime.

[Asker]

Hahahaha... thanks for your comments!

[Ryosanada]

No problem

[Sexualchrist]

You mean a boob "graze" yeah he knew if was your boobs.
He probably thought you did it on purpose too.

[Asker]

Actually I was kinda side on so it was just one boob. Yes I mean a boob graze - typo - more than one what can I say but it's been a long day...
Seriously, he'd think it was on purpose?

[Sexualchrist]

It's irrational but if he was that young it would just be wishful thinking on his behalf.

At his age, even though you're 40 he wouldn't hesitate.

[Asker]

Wishful thinking? You mean hoping it was on purpose?
20 year olds like mature ladies?

[Sexualchrist]

Yes hoping.. and yes! You two should've hooked up actually...

[Asker]

LOL - thanks for your comments

[Sexualchrist]

My pleasure. Good luck as a future cougar.

[Asker]

LOL - thanks :-)

[singlebee]

@Opinion owner - gosh don't call her a cougar... that gives me a boner... 😜😛

[Asker]

Really, you young guys love cougars?

[Sexualchrist]

I don't think he got your message. You have to put @and then his name if it's on someone else's comment.

But yes we do. If you're still looking the goods.

Shut up I'm still young lol

[Asker]

Yeah I forgot the tag... but it doesn't seem to work if I'm annonymous

[Asker]

Younger than me!

[Dansexuall]

It probably made him rock hard. I'd love that to happen to me. And i love women in their 40's :)

[Asker]

Ha ha - Thanks :-)
Would you be able to tell it was a boob that was on your back?

[Dansexuall]

Probably, why don't we meet and you can press your tits against me and I'll let you know :D

[Asker]

LOL - next time you are down under...

[WhoTheHellKnows]

Of course he knew it was your boob. How could he not? Lol
;)

[Asker]

Um, was hoping he might not have noticed or thought it was another body part.

[WhoTheHellKnows]

Nope he WAS hoping it was your boob that grazed against him. That's why he smiled lol

[Asker]

Lol - actually he was smiling and then said "sorry"

[WhoTheHellKnows]

That doesn't mean he didn't like it. He knew your boob touched him. And an older women breasts graze? That's pretty awesome lol

[Asker]

The sorry was cute - like he didn't have anything to be sorry about?
It's funny because women probably wouldn't be so happy to have a random penis shoved on them, especially an older guy...

[WhoTheHellKnows]

Guys like boobs lol! Any kinda boob graze is always welcome. If it's w hot older woman, then it's like "SCORE!!" Lol
Sorry but it's true
The sorry was more a thing to be polite and subtly let you know he felt the boob graze

[Asker]

LOL - I'm blushing
Thanks for your comments - they've been very helpful

[WhoTheHellKnows]

Lol don't pretend you didn't enjoy grazing your boob against a younger guy 😛

[Asker]

LOL - what can I say but I think I chose well... Even if it was an accident

[WhoTheHellKnows]

Oh you naughty woman!!! I bet he thinks he's lucky too lol

[Asker]

Hahaha... It was actually an accident... somehow I was lucky it was a cute young guy.

[WhoTheHellKnows]

And he was thinking he was lucky a hot older woman grazed her breasts against him. Bey ta he went home and... well you know lol

[Asker]

Seriously, a little boob graze is enough material for you guys to do that?

[WhoTheHellKnows]

If it's from a hot enough woman..., yes

[Asker]

Yeah well I don't know if he thought that.

[WhoTheHellKnows]

You can message me if you want but I'll guarantee you he did

[Asker]

Well I'm not gonna see him again so let's just say he did ;-)

[WhoTheHellKnows]

There ya go! Now go enjoy thoughts of him ;)

[Asker]

Haha thanks...

[Anonymous]

Oh ya he could tell. And he would have gotten a little smile I'm sure. It's funny you can bump into people all day and not notice. But a boob you notice right away.

[Asker]

Haha - seriously, you guys have a built in "boob graze" alert system? He did smile at me...

[Opinion Owner]

There is nothing else like that feeling. Lol

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1390703-why-would-a-girl-give-me-her-number-then-not-respond
Lend a guy an opinion?

[singlebee]

@Asker ya we do have that system built in us...

[Asker]

Lol, thanks.

[Genie23]

"Do you think he knew it was boob" Lol. Obviously 😂
This happened to me a lot 😐😐😐

[SatanClaus]

Ohh so you do this on purpose... i see

[Genie23]

@SatanClaus Whaaaaat? NO! Never -.- 😒😒😒 It was accidetal

Unfortunstely, accidental grazes are bound to happen when you are standing in a crowded place 😫

[Genie23]

Accidental*

[SatanClaus]

I was just pulling your leg ok

[Asker]

I don't recall it happening to me before - I grew up in the country where there were now crowds.

[Genie23]

It happens.. He undestood that it was an accidental craze. I bet he enjoyed it that's why he smiled.. 😐

[Asker]

Yeah, he seemed like a nice guy... He actually said sorry after he smiled

[Genie23]

Oh! That's cute.. :-)

[Asker]

Yeah, I know! He didn't even do anything
He was nice looking too.

[Genie23]

Omg! It seems You have a crush on him! 😉

[Asker]

No it takes a bit more for me to have a crush...

[singlebee]

I would love it if that happens to me too... Probably I should get really hard... He definitely enjoyed it..😘

[Asker]

So he would've noticed and known it was a boob?

[singlebee]

Of course he noticed that it was a boob... That's why he smiled at you...

[Asker]

LOL - now I'm embarrassed...
Would you seriously get hard from that?

[singlebee]

30 seconds of soft and probably big boobs...30sec is not less...😳
So ya maybe I would get hard or semi hard... I don't know... LOL 😏

[Asker]

Yeah they're pretty big (DD).

[singlebee]

My god that makes me wanna have a relation ship with mature women like you hahaaha (NOT HINTING ANYTHING) 👍😍😂

[Asker]

LOL - thanks.

[singlebee]

Welcome...

[CreepyOldMan]

Oh, boob grazed... OK. I get it now. I thought you had eyes or some sort of camera apparatus, or something.

And I found that rather creepy.

[Asker]

I think most people realised its a typo - I wrote it on my phone...

[CreepyOldMan]

Ok, well, when I first read the sentence, 'As I walked past this guy I accidentally boob gazed his back.'

I was just trying to figure out how that would be anatomically possible. Lol :-p

[Asker]

Yeah, fair enough.

[Shaft50]

Yep, he knew... guys are very body conscious... of their own and others

[Asker]

Haha - thanks for your comment -I'm pretty convinced now that he must have known. No longer in denial

[Shaft50]

Yeah, he knew and he liked it... I wouldn't have shirked away from the contact

[Asker]

It seems like most of the guys on here (from all age groups) would have liked it

[Shaft50]

Guys are guys, hey... if a good looking girl was to graze their body against mine, what's not to like. Especially on a train or other public place, the physical sensation would have been heightened somewhat because in those crowded places our personal space diminishes... I had a similar incident and I was at the end of the train, everyone was standing packed in, I had a heavy bag in one hand and I was hanging onto a rail with the other. A young lady was right up against me and it was so awkward by she took it in good spirits, knowing that nothing could be done about it. A strange mix of pleasant but awkward...

[Asker]

Yes awkward but nothing you can do...

[Shaft50]

Exactly, but the guys are left hoping that their body doesn't physically respond... that would be embarrassing

[Asker]

Yes I imagine that would be embarressing - when we get turned on it isn't really all that visible.

[Shaft50]

I had an embarrassing occurrence that is funny now... she knew what she was doing and she had to get off the train before me, leaving me with a tent... she used to drive me crazy like that but it was all good fun

[Asker]

Yeah I find it a bit slack doing that to guys - I dont do it. I would guess its something most guys wouldn't like.

[Shaft50]

She was a tease and loved doing it... lots of fun but sometimes it went too far but she was the kind of girl where everything was a sex game...

[front2back]

It's pretty easy to tell when a girl's boobs are rubbing up against you than other body parts.

[coffeprince]

I kinda doubt this lol I'd mistake it for someone a arm or maybe booty as they try to wiggle by lol

[Asker]

I was gonna ask how he would know it's a boob and not another body part... but then I guess the only other two things that soft are a stomach and a bum - which would be much lower (especially in my case as I am tall).

[chrisbigman]

I'm sure he knew it was a boob, and chances are he liked it.

[Asker]

Thanks for your comment :-)
... it seems to be what everyone thinks!

[chrisbigman]

You're welcome. There's always a chance of it being the compete opposite, but that's EXTREMELY rare.

[chrisbigman]

I gotta admit that since I hardly get much affection, I would wish someone would do that to me - even if it's accidental.

[Asker]

Complete opposite - that he didn't know? Or that he didn't like it?

[chrisbigman]

Either.

[kaitlovesyou]

You probably just supplied him some good masturbation material lol

[Asker]

LOL - yeah sounds like it, especially going by what all the guys above have said

[blondfrog]

Yeah he felt it ;) he finds you attractive. I am a guy I would know

[Asker]

Thanks for your comment - how can you assume he found me attractive? (He had very little choice i the matter)

[blondfrog]

That smirk and hold in eye contact I am a guy I just know its takes a man to know a man.

[Asker]

LOL - yes he did do that, but then he looked away and said sorry.

[blondfrog]

He was nervous :3 cougars can be sexy heck I am a victim for falling for a cougar meow 40 year olds can still be hot just look at Jennifer Aniston :3

[Asker]

Ha ha - that makes sense. Can't believe how many guys your age here say 40 year olds are hot...

[blondfrog]

If you can still be hot at 30s-50s you are a legend :) which is possible :)

[Asker]

Yes that would be good to achieve that. I've started with a Personal Trainer recently so hopefully he will help me recapture my youth (I haven't really worked out much for a while)

[Anonymous]

You gotta believe noone but us guys especially of the same age
He knew exactly what it was..
And it happens to me as well

[Opinion Owner]

I mean boobs grazed on like side or back...

[Asker]

Yeah that's why I asked on here - Don't know many guys your age to ask
What do you think when it happens to you?

[Opinion Owner]

Tbh enough
Enjoy it :p
But now it's kinda normal...

[Asker]

Cool - thanks for your comments