He said that I captivate his mind?

[chelsieshaybaby]

Me and this guy have been talking for almost three months, we have an interesting dynamic, lol.

We like each other, but tend to play it off with humor, even though we both know we do. He lives in cali and I live in oregon. We have an undeniable connection.

heres a bit of are convo tonight

me: lol and that may be so, but I still would wish you the best if you found the girl for you wandering around cali somewhere.

me:Id never wish anything bad upon you, and some new found girl.

Id simply accept that it would just be my luck to form a connection with a guy, living so far away, and knowing I was too late too do anything about it lol

Him: Lol

Him: Bah hum bug

Him: Honestly I can't see anyone captivating my mind like you and ...that can creep to the heart.

Him: They can have my body Because I'm a bored slut...but that's all

Him: Lol

Him: They can't replace you.

Him: It would be a miracle.

Hmm.. What does he mean I captivate his mind exactly ? And why does he say he doesn't think anybody could do that where he's at? He lives in a large city in cali where he could find a girl who he could actually connect with in person? Yet he sais I'm the only girl who can captivate his mind the way that I do..

[madhatters4]

i think honestly he's just complimenting you and saying that despite the fact that you live far away you still occupy his mind in a way no one else can

it may just be words to butter you up but it seems clear that even if they are just lines he likes you.

[chelsieshaybaby]

:)

[martyfellow]

He says that to dozens of girls online. I woldn't trust him.

If he were honest,he'd tell you he doesn't like our state referred to as 'cali', for one thing.

[Dandeus]

Lived here in California my whole life, nobody I know gets their panties in a bunch over calling it Cali.

[martyfellow]

Here's one native who DOES not like it..I'm sure there are many.

[chelsieshaybaby]

Hmm.. Didn't know that was offensive. But ill remember that and won't say it anymore. I wouldn't want to offend someone by saying that.. My apologies! Thanks for the answer:)

[martyfellow]

You're welcome..you had no way of knowing! Good luck, stay away from this guy...

[chelsieshaybaby]

you really think he's bad news?...:/

[martyfellow]

Not tha bad, just another desperate mad datist on many sites...

[bh6676r942]

I think you just really likes you you're very attractive your face looks just perfect and it's the kind of face that any guy would just want to kiss you look like you have an ideal personality and any guy would want to be with you and hug you because you look awesome in that particular way wow!

[bh6676r942]

You look like a Barbie doll Come on

[chelsieshaybaby]

Thanks but I don't really think he is in it for something like that... we don't even ask for pics lol

[GuyAdviceFromGuy]

Sounds like a good compliment, you should set up plans to meet up

[chelsieshaybaby]

Im definitely going to try as soon as possible!

[Rahim517]

Well, you're young, attractive, you, ahem, "captivate his mind"...it's possible, just possible, that he wants you to be the mother of his children.

[blackeagle007]

Your willing to do the long distance thing?

[chelsieshaybaby]

I would if it was worthwhile and if I knew he was being completely serious with the things that he sais... I really like talking to him.