What is the best way for revenge of an alcoholic and violence husband?

[Anonymous]

I'm so sick of my husband and i want to revenge, i want to hurt him so bad so that might help him to wake up and realize his mistakes. He quit his job and he is drinking every day and beat me and keep my daughter In her room if i didn't give him money. I work my ass of to get money but he just calls me useless women. He even beat me if i refused sex and still have it even if i like it or not after that. I can't do this anymore.

Of course cheating

Beat him back

Quit your job too

Leave him alone

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[abc3643]

Leave you husband and plan it meticulously... Find a safe-house for you and your daughter; preferably someone who 1) your husband doesn't think you'd go to and 2) keeps a gun.
On the day you leave, take all of the money out of your joint bank account and in cash. You hide it perhaps over a friend's house. You pay bills as you can in person and in cash.
If you have automatic deposit of paychecks, stop that before you even leave him.
There's a lot to think about, but, basically, you are planning to commit murder against your marriage, but this is necessary for your survival and his. Only then will he possibly understand what he's done and, once he's turned it around, MAYBE consider getting back. I wouldn't though - this is something that, once I was gone, I'd stay gone... and don't worry about your daughter - you are sure to get full custody.

[Waffles731]

You need to leave,
A man like that won't just stop,
You need to take him and your daughter out.
Next time he beats you call the cops and press charges
Get a divorce and don't let him have access to the kids.
Eventually you will find someone who actually cares about you and your daughter but right now, you need to get the hell out.

[Waffles731]

The best revenge is living well.
You leave him and do your damnest to be happy,
Fall in love again, watch your daughter grow up, get remarried, and live a happy life while this mans alcoholism consumes him
Thats revenge

[Waffles731]

And when he takes his last breath dying from his alcoholism, maybe he might think of you, how you are happily remarried, about how he never got to see his daughter grow up, that his anger and the drink consumed him

[DaniJ]

Ultimatum. Stop everything, or instant divorce. Right now, you look really good in court. Revenge makes you just as bad as him, and he'll end up with half the stuff (money, belongings, etc.) I say get out now while you can probably get it all.

[Araya]

By "leave him alone", I mean literally "leave him alone". Dump his pathetic ass and move your daughter away from such a caustic situation so that she does not have any lingering disastrous issues on her psyche as she ages.

Please.

[misscocobutter]

The best revenge is to leave him high and dry, so he can't use and abuse you or your daughter anymore. Even if it's the toughest thing you've ever done you have to get away from this piece of shit asap

[MadeInAmerica]

The best thing to do is to remove yourself and your daughter out a toxic situation instead of stooping to his level and playing games.

[gapminder]

Well he's obviously an alcoholic, so the best thing you could do for everyone is plan an intervention and give him an ultimatum. If he receives the message or not only he knows. But you can't just sit by as a passenger in the Trainwreck, so an intervention with family and friends involved is the safest most effective way to get things going.

[Anonymous]

leave him if he is that bad but my motto is. the best response against evil is love. nothing hurts it more than responding with love and genuine forgiveness. its the most surprising bitchslap evil can take.

[Asker]

So you're telling me to forgive him and just move on?

[Opinion Owner]

yes. but dont hold the evil in your heart. dont hold the grudge. it eats you from the inside with time. i've been there and regretted it.

[Asker]

He's not going change

[Opinion Owner]

well thats why you should built a new future for you and your kid. just try to stop hating him one day.

[johnnywoods]

I've been abused by a woman before but if I called the police no one would've took it seriously, so I had to find another way to escape and I never went back. You're a woman and you have the privilege of calling the cops and to be saved from an abusive man.

[Sara413]

Take your child and leave. This is abuse, not some shitty mistake to get revenge over. Leave.

[Mesonfielde]

You should leave and live somewhere else! If the house is yours, then have him thrown out. If you're shared, then start a divorce and you'll get the house somehow.

[Anonymous]

Best if you just take your kid and leave, call domestic abuse hotline

[Asker]

This isn't enough

[Opinion Owner]

No point in revenge, once you find a place to stay everything will crumble around him, no job no money, he will have to leave too

[Astro1222]

Err, Divorce... I don't know about others but i have a lot of family experience in that and erm... DIVORCE

[Prettygurl12]

How about you be a mature fucking adult and give him divorce papers and leave with your character in tact?

[Anpu23]

I normally don't advocate this one, but check out Dream Lovers Laboratory, there's more then one solution to a problem.

[Kirah]

Leave him. If he threatens you, get the law involved.

[Chief16]

Why'd you people marry so young in the first place anyway?

[HentaiMaster23]

Leave him yo deserve someone better, and it wouldn't be cheating cuz he already broke the Marridge vow, by beating you

[Wetpu55y]

Start ducking other men! Lots of them! Especially his friends if they are keen

[SkiBum69]

Yeah, tell an internet page and ask for advice regarding domestic abuse, rather than tell the proper authorities!

[Jackblue]

Call the police and have him clapped in irons. That is the best revenge.

[ted22]

Revenge? Lady get yourself out of that rrelationship.

[Wild_dude999]

Says you're 18 to 24 on your profile. I think you want to just leave him he sounds like a loser

[lumos]

Uh. Divorce him?

[Asker]

He's not going to suffer from this

[lumos]

I'm pretty sure he won't suffer from any of those things considering that he doesn't seem to care about you. The best you can do for your own and your daughter's safety is leave.

[Justababy]

Come see me I will film me fucking your brains out and send it to him in a text