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How to save this relationship? Help!

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 20:47:09 -0600

Been with my girlfriend for 2 years. Recently she said she wanted a break as she was not sure this is what she wanted anymore and that she's having doubts. But she said she still loves me and don't know what to do.
We had a break of only about a week, during which she rang every night, sometimes in tears. So we agreed we will kinda be back together, more just seeing each other/dating, for the next few weeks and then see if we still want to carry on seeing each other after that.

I have given it some serious thought and think I realise where I made some mistakes, like not doing the small things that matter, startng unnecessary arguments etc. and I think over time this made the relationship feel different and so she's had doubts.

So should I talk to her about this and tell her why I think she's had doubts (cos she said she doesn't know why) or should I keep quiet and let the next few weeks play out, just correcting these mistakes?

I don't want to push her further away by talking about it in case she gets all defensive; even tho I'm accepting fault. kinda like if you break up with your girlfriend and want her back the worst thing to do is keep on about it and say how much you love her etc.

but this is slightly different so not sure what to do?

What does this mean and how should I react?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 20:43:59 -0600

Last night I stayed at a really close guy friends of mine. We have always had an attraction to each other but never really done anything about it. Well, last night I was in his bed with him and all we were doing was cuddling and talking. Then when waking up he kissed me on the forehead and held me tight...is this something I should just shake off or is there more to read into?

Has helping others on G.A.G. helped you?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 20:43:15 -0600

From answering questions on this site, I have gained a better understanding of individuals that I'm attracted to. Obviously it isn't a psychology understanding (it's not scientific). When I see what several people go through, the knowledge gives me an advantage to understand a similar situation (of my own).

Does anyone else feel this way? This excludes derogative comments and unwitting answers.

How can I make my bleached hair blonde? not white

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 20:34:31 -0600

okay well over the weekend I bleached my hair by myself and it was a huge mistake. It looks so fake, its not really blonde its like an extremely bright yellow. I hate it! my friend in cosmotology said she can put a toner in it and she said that will help. But I heard that toner makes it white. I don't want white/platinum blonde hair. I want like a natural light blonde. What can I do without re dying it? is there a certain kind of toner I can use? please help

Do guys wanna take charge?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 20:21:54 -0600

when it comes to making out, getting rough, should I let him lead the way?

Might run into this girl tonight at sports bar, any ideas?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 20:18:05 -0600

so I meet her during the summer and only seen her a couple of times this fall even though we live in the same town . things during the fall have been kind of akward for whatever reasons and we haven't talked much but I might see her tonight and that be an oppurtunity to see what she is up to and gauge her level of interest in me . any ideas as to what I should say or do tonight if I run into her ?

Should I give in?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 20:06:51 -0600

me and my boyfriend fight a lot lately, its over small stuff and usaly if I give in and let it go and be nice it all works out. but today I can't seem to do that he is really getting under my skin about what he did. he doesn't cheat or anything like that but he spends all his time with his friends and I don't have friends any more. ever since we dated he wanted me to ditch them, all we did was party and have fun he wouldn't go with us so I was stupid and in love so I ditched them.

and next weekend his best friends bachelor party is a weekend away with the guys at a cabin I think he shouldn't go can I tell him no?

She says I'm weird, but does she like me?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 20:05:46 -0600

Theres this girl who I suspect likes me and we were driving out in the car, and she was like you are the weirdest person I ever met. But when she said it she was giggling and laughing a little and red in the face. Is it likely she said that as a cover up and a way of saying she likes me because she's shy and doesn't want to tell me flat out she likes me? Do girls do that kinna stuff please give me your opinions

Why am I always just a girl, and not a girlfriend?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 20:05:37 -0600

Ok, so I may not be perfect, but I'm sure as hell that there are worse people than me out there. I'm 18years old, have short dark hair, weigh about 102lbs, normal size like a 0-2 max, and I'm not possesive, don't have any weird habits, and don't stalk guys! I know this may sound crazy, but there are some girls out there who do go a bit guy crazy and want to be with them the whole time, but I mean, I treat people as I want to be treated, so I give guys breaks too, I don't text every second of the day, I never leave scary voicemails, if theyre mad with me, ill give them time to cool down, then ask to talk about it, I have fun too, I'm not frigid, but I don't give it up too easy, I'm not pushy, but I'm not a push over, I love trying new things out if you get me, and I would never cheat. So why is it that any time a guy seens interested, it turns out he's not really, or hw was but changed his mind? And whenever I like a guy, he never likes me back, and if he does, it kind of wears off after a few days, and I'm left wondering what it was that I did wrong? Please help me! I'm fed up of being on my own! xx

Why am I so unlucky in love?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 19:59:14 -0600

I have had one proper boyfriend, that was when I was 15, and was for 3 weeks. I've had another 'relationship' last year, when I was 17 and that lasted about 6 months, but he didn't realise we were dating, he thought we were just getting together for fun, and having sex as friends, I was like what?! anyway, more recently, I hooked up with this guy who I met at a bar, and me and some friends were staying there anyway, as we were friends with his roomate. So we had gone out as a group, and ended up getting together, and he invited me back to his house this weekend, but it got cancelled at the last minute. He also isn't replying to my texts very quickly, and when he does, he doesn't seem interested in asking me much, although he was the one who asked for my number, and who was texting me a lot at the beginning of the week, but it has sort of faded out this week. I have also been told by a friend that he has kind of got something going on with an ex of his, who he was with for 3 years, up until about 2 months ago, and also another girl. But he did tell me that he wanted me more, but I really don't know what to do. It seems like every guy I like doesn't like me, and when they do like me, they either treat me rubbishly, or kind of forget me within a week or less. Its not as if I'm a crazy girl, I haven't been texting him all the time, or calling, or anything, so I'm not being possesive, but something seems to have happened to make him scared off, or not want me any more. He is also 21, and I'm 18, so I don't know if the age difference is part of it? but then its not that big a gap. Sorry this is so long, didn't realise how much I had to say!

Perms

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 19:50:41 -0600

I curl my hair every day, and I'm getting to the point where I'm considering getting a perm treatment done on my hair. I have long, thick, mostly straight hair. I curl it because my hair naturally curls underneath, but remains straight (for the most part) on top so it looks a bit like my hair can't decide which to be - curly or straight.
I want relaxed curls, nothing too crazy or poodle-like. Asking because I want to know if anyone's had this done before.
Are loose curls/waves possible?
How long does it last until your hair relaxes?

Thanks!

Is it salvageable?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 19:42:00 -0600

So we "Officially" broke up on Sunday when I moved out of the house we lived in together. We've been together for a year and a half. He's 27, I'm 24, and I'm his second relationship ever. His first one was only 9 months long... He doesn't have much game. I am a fairly attractive and smart woman. He isn't as aesthetically pleasing, but he is fun, and smart, and he was my best friend. By the way, I have been in love 2 times before, this love is different, and I want us to last.
Our last night we had a huge fight, where I threw a hot dog, glass of wine, and a piece of cake at him. He was saying some nasty things about me, because I told him he spends too much time drinking and not enough time with me. I am not exaggerating the truth either. 3-4 nights a week at a bar for 4 or more hours is a lot, for anyone. I don't want to be with someone like that, but I do want to be with him.
I am on day 6 now. No contact, with the exception of a phone call on Sunday to get some stuff I needed from his house, he didn't answer, and a text about something he told his sister he wanted back, and he didn't reply to that either. I'm beside myself, this isn't self esteem issues, I know that men are attracted to me physically and mentally, this is an I feel like we should be together forever thing, and I am a fool if I let this slip away.
By the way, the fight happened in front of his longest friend, who for the most part used to like me, and the other one is his drinking buddy, I don't like this guy, he is obnoxious, and I am sure he doesn't like me for the reason that I want my ex to spend time with me, instead of finding the bottom of a bottle.
Before we fought that night, he told me he thinks I am very beautiful inside and out, and that he just wanted to enjoy the night with me and his friends. I of course was upset all of his time and attention was invested in his drinking buddy and drinking. That's where the trouble started.

So, what now? Should I file this one away? We did fight a lot near the end. Do I need to give it time to settle down?

Guys do yall really want a woman that cooks and cleans?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 19:17:57 -0600

I can cook but I don't like to clean. I don't see why I should have to clean up after an adult anyway

does it really matter to you? why or why not

What is he thinking??

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 19:14:31 -0600

me and this guy have been best friends for three years... in the beginning we almost had a relationship but he messed up by kissing another girl. we have never kissed or anything and we've constantly been in each others lives. he told one of my friends that no matter he will always love me more then a friend but he doesn't want to ruin our friendship. but the thing is that he constantly has girlfriends. when he breaks up with them he comes back into my life. he won't talk to me or hang out when he has a girlfriend but when they break up he crawls his way back into my life when its convenient for him but then when ANOTHER girl comes along he abandons me again. the thing is whenever he crawls back into my life I end up falling for him again but I don't let myself fall into a relationship with him because I've cried over him way too much. and I've never told him how I felt. how can he claim that he loves me when he only shows up when he has no girlfriend?

Guys, how the heck can I get you to ask me on a date?!

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 19:12:43 -0600

story of my life- start "talking" to guys... but it never seems to get past that stage, then it just fizzles out. how do I get a guy to TAKE ME OUT!? what do I have to do?!

What makes a guy really want a girl?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 19:09:23 -0600

The looks?
the sassy attitude?
Sex?
What is it? xD

Is getting with an older man a good idea? FOR GUYS AND GIRLS!!

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 19:05:45 -0600

Ok I'm sick of guys my own age so I realy want to get with an older guy. I'm 22 and the highest age Id go would be 45 in my head, prob 35 in reality. I want the security, wisdom and just general life experience he could bring to the table. I wouldn't want to end up with such an older man, more just to try it out for a while and see how it went. But is this a bit weird? I don't get on with my father at all so I know I do want a father figure type...!

Do you believe what goes around comes around?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 19:04:42 -0600

Do you believe what you give out will come back to you three fold, kinda like karma?

Theres this girl who I know and she basically stole my boyfriend from me.When we were dating he even told me that she tried to get with him but he wasn't interested.when we broke up his behavior seemed to change.The weird part is I found out from a friend that she practices wicca which is a religion for witches.I kinda had a feeling she was witch becuz I was having all sorts of dreams with her trying to get a lock of my hair or my handwriting.

So when I heard this it kind of spooked me out.Also she's comes off quiet but in realtiy she likes to start a lot of drama.do you think she will get what she deserves?i heard my ex got away from her now and now every time she's around I feel like she's watching me.

Discouraged

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:59:34 -0600

i'm 20 years old, and have not had a serious boyfriend since high school. I am attractive, smart and funny. I have plenty of potential hook ups. but I don't want that.
i can't understand why every single guy that comes around is just into the hook up. it's like there isn't one decent guy out there for me... sure, they're out there, but why don't they ever come my way? it's been this never ending cycle of heartbreak for the past three years for me. they NEVER want a relationship. it never. ever. ever. seems to work out. what am I doing wrong?

everytime another FAILED relationship happens in my life, I basically swear off guys... then I meet a new one... always hope for the best... then they screw me over again. every time. I just don't know what to do anymore. what is wrong with me?

I love him, but I hate him. What should I do? PART 2

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:51:44 -0600

He has asked to hang out since then but it’s always been very late at night. I refuse to hang out with him if he contacts me after 10. I pretty punish him by backing off. Letting him know I am too busy. Last weekend was his birthday, he contacted me to hang out, which trust and believe it took a lot of strength to say no. but my rule is, after 10, no deal! I don’t what to do with him. I love him, but I also love myself. I whish he would get it right or just leave me alone.
What should I do?

At what point should a guy stop pursuing a girl?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:48:14 -0600

I like the chase to some degree, but I am really into this girl and am crazy about her, but not in a psycho stalker way. anyway it doesn't seem to be working at all. she just moves further away--I just love always being around her and worship the ground she walks on. I know a woman who married a guy cause he pursued her for a very long time. she said never underestimate the power of persistence...women love it.

So I think I am gonna give up on her...things are not working, but I have conflicting attitude. So opinions please. how can I get her

How can I handle this situation without it getting any bigger?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:46:44 -0600

I recently started dating this fantastic guy a month ago. He is amazing! About 3 days ago one of my BFF's (Sally) started getting really mad at me. She said that we need to talk without my boyfriend there. As soon as she said that I went to our other BFF (Suzy) and asked what was going on. Suzy said that Sally was complaining to her that I don't hang out with her anymore without my bf. It isn't true, I hang out with Suzy all the time without my bf, sally chooses not to come and hang out with us. Sally is in an emotionally abusive relationship, and she won't get out of it. She won't listen to me or Suzy, and he basically controls her. I don't know why she is acting like this. My boyfriend and Suzy says she is jealous of how healthy my relationship is. How can I handle this situation without it getting any bigger?

Strong features vs. soft Features

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:45:41 -0600

What is more attractive to you in the opposite sex?

Also what does that mean to have strong/soft or delicate features?

This is a question for all web designers

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:43:43 -0600

i have learn html and css but I have difficult to learn php can anyone give me some advice or give the url of site in internet that can help me. I would be very grateful.

This girl said she's not interested but body language says otherwise

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:41:51 -0600

this girl who I know likes me said its not gonna happen but laughed and got red when she said it...her body language says she does like me. touches me...says I'm amazing and all...but said it ain't gonna happen...my intuition tells me she likes me...but she seems like she has low self esteem. like when she's in a bikinni she puts her arms around herself her stomach area and stuff. what should I do. and this mutual friend says she's my girlfriend when were all hanging out trying to be funny and she kinna smiles and doesn't say otherwise

I don't know what to do about this huge problem??

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:39:51 -0600

So I am a college junior and starting in the spring my program requires us to have a very demanding schedule. I'm talking about classes in the day with a couple hour break and then classes at night. Also, on some days we have clinics at the hospital but then have class at night on those days. This is monday thru friday. It leaves me with only saturday and sunday's to work at my job because of the hours my store is open. I have already talked to my boss and she said she would try to give me hours on the weekends but at the same time it would mean 7 days a week I'm either at school doing classes or then working all day.

I'm too the point to where I know I will not be able to handle all that and find time to study and do the volunteering the program requires us to do. there is an alternative solution I could do but do not what to.

I have bills to pay such as car insurance food and cell phone and car payment so I have to have some money but I was thinking of taking out a student loan to cover my bills and everything. I do not have any up until this point of school so I would not have that much accumulated by the time I graduate in a year and half but I'm scared I may mess up and what if I run out of money then what do I do for money, this is all if I quit my job to make more time for school studying and activities within my program.

What would you do?

Dating and looking at other people?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:38:47 -0600

ok so lets suppose that you are dating or talking to someone...and you see other people that you might be interested in...what do you do?

What wifi box do I get?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:38:40 -0600

I just bought a macbook that has wifi with it. I was wondering what box I should get to use on my home computer so that I can use wifi in my house. I have dsl on my home computer so I'm wondering if I need a special box or wire. I tried to enable ICS but my home computer wouldn't let me.
ps, the mac should be here in 7 days, I bought it online.

Player or Nice guy?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:37:35 -0600

So I'm known as a player, I'm a Gemini, I'm friendly and a natural flirt. I always seem to attract attention and of course I give some back.

through out time there's been a few serious girls who I get along with so well that the possibility of a relationship occurs on both sides.

We go on a few dates, get to know each other more, the chemistry is there, lots of caressing, flirting, teasing, laughing some kissing, totally into each other, no sex but the chance of it happening greatly grows with each date

after a few dates, I'm told that I'm a really nice sweet guy and seem to have what they are looking for in a relationship but they just want to be friends. Others have said they're not ready for a relationship or not over a ex. They still want to hang out and that over time those feelings could possible grow into something more.

Bull sh*t! The relationship goes sour from there and the chemistry phases out

I'm confused? Why the sudden change? One minute all is good then BAM! Let's just be friends

I've had two serious relationships which one lead to divorce after one year of marriage.

I have a few (girl) friends who are like a sister to me, say that I'm the ideal guy that women look for, that I have all the qualities.

Honestly I would like to be in a relationship but for some strange reason it's not happening. I can and have been faithful.

I guess there's nothing I can do but continue doing my thing and have sex with no strings attached.

ladies does it sound like I'll ever have a chance with love?

How to ask a girl you don't know out?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:34:24 -0600

ok, so there is this girl that I have seen in the gym a couple of times. I have seen her checking me out but I am not sure what this means, she usually works out with another girl.
i would like some girls to give me some advice on how to approach this girl, I am really motivated because I think she is gorgeous. please answer

If a girl told you she got dressed up for you, what would you think or her?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:28:22 -0600

she got dressed up for you, what would you think or her? would you think it was cute or she's not confident and needs your approval or she really likes you and its nice she's making such an effort.

Is this even a little strange?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 18:04:30 -0600

My boyfriend of 4 months got me socks for my birthday...
I'm thankful for the gift don't get me wrong, I was just expecting something maybe a little more thoughtful.

So Untrue: Myths about Girls & Guys

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:50:47 -0600

What is the one myth that you wish the opposite sex would just forget?

I'm confused about my ex. He stills wants to be in my life, should I allow this?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:44:16 -0600

For the first time in my life, I felt like I was falling in love. After about 6 months my ex suddenly broke up with me after telling me he was falling in love too and swearing that he was very happy to be with me. It turns out, he went back to his "high school sweetheart" of 3 years. That was in January and it is now November. Throughout this whole ordeal, I have gone through so many emotions. Feeling rejected, betrayed, worthless, not good enough, you name it, I felt it. For several months after the breakup, I missed him all the time & still felt I would go back to him if I ever got that chance. Well he never really left me alone either. He would call, text, show up at my job, get angry if I mentioned I had been dating someone new. But he never asked for me back. They say time heals all wounds, & I don't completely agree. I still feel that I struggle with a lot of things now because of what he did to me but I am/was FINALLY moving on. I was attracted/interested in other guys & finally really felt that something better was out there for me. I have been thinking of him A LOT less than I used to. Oddly, he pops up again. We met up last night & he tried to come on to me but I stopped him. If this was 3 months ago I think I would have let him. He told me that he still talks to/sees the other girl sometimes but it hasn't been serious for the last few months... & he asked me why we can't see each other, go with the flow, etc. & he mentioned us having sex together. I don't know how to feel/react to this. I don't want to be hurt by him again. I can't tell whether or not he really cares about me in any way, he always offers to be there if I needed anything but it doesn't matter to me. Part of me feels like I'm young & should just have fun with life & not care so much about the serious side of things but the other side of me is a very sensitive, emotional, caring person who longs for a healthy relationship not one where I have to guess all the time. Should I try to keep him in my life & maybe he will end up liking me more or feeling a strong sense of regret for leaving me? or should I just keep trying to move on?

Dress to impress. Does anyone besides me think that's a good idea?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:33:16 -0600

does anyone besides me think that's a good idea? that maybe one day when you go to school, you dress professionally? to show everyone you respect yourself enough that you would look good. and not the good where you just make yourself not only look good and attractive but where you can feel good and attractive? does anyone besides me dress up at least once, in professional looking clothes, in their school year? or maybe when you just go out?

Should I play it cool from now on?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:32:37 -0600

Should I play it cool from now on, I'm always the first to text and recently call. I fear I may be crowding him (weve only had 2 dates). When I spoke to him today he said he would call me after the weekend to arrange another date, should this now mean that he contacts me and I don't text him til this point or is it ok for me to text him asking how his weekend is going etc?

My boyfriend has been lying to me about small things latley and it's really bugging me.

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:31:35 -0600

My boyfriend has been lying to me about small things latley and it's really bugging me. I called him out today on them and now he said he never said any of them or comes up with a reason why things changed.

He lied once before and it was a HUGE lie, not cheating but something almost as bad so should I let these small lies go or make sure he knows its not right? why do guys do this?

Too soon to say I love you?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:22:17 -0600

I've been dating this wonderful guy about a month and a half. Things are truly exceptional in every aspect. Those 3 little words have already popped into my head, but I'm thinking to myself it's way too soon to utter them out loud. What do you guys think?

What type of scent do guys like on girls?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:16:52 -0600

Guys - What perfume makes you attracted to a girl?
Girls - What scents do your boyfriends like?

He finally asked for my number & I find out he has a girlfriend, why did he even bother?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:16:42 -0600

There is this guy who works in my neighborhood and for the last 2 years, I would always say to myself how attractive he was. Whenever we would cross paths, he would stare at me or go out of his way to turn to look at me, say hello or how are you. I'm shy & very humble & never thought much of this. I would usually just give a little smile in return or say hello quickly & keep walking. I started to see him more often lately & he kept making it obvious that he wanted to speak to me on some level. Finally he make a comment about me always being on the phone when he sees me & how "they must never leave me alone" so I asked what he meant by that and he was like "your boyfriend" & I told him flat out that I didn't have one & kept walking. The next time I saw him he asked for my #. I was excited especially because I had a bad breakup earlier in the year with someone who I felt very strongly for. I still feel like my confidence level is at a all time low because of this. But anyway, this new guy texted me & we started talking, the next day we got on the subject of what he & I wanted & he said something on the level of "I want you so I can do what I want..." that right there raised a red flag. I then asked if he had a girlfriend & he kept avoiding the question by asking if I had a boyfriend, finally he said yes that he does have one. I don't know why but I felt devastated. I guess more over the fact that I still have not yet found something real & true, because all I want is to be in love & happy. I have no problem taking things slow but how can I even continue something with a guy who is already involved with someone else? I guess he just wants sex but it's hurtful. Why would he be concerned with me having a boyfriend if he has a girlfriend? it makes no sense. He even wanted to stop by my job to see me later in the day but I didn't respond & he said "hopefully I'll see you tomorrow." Why do guys in relationships do these kinds of things? & am I crazy for feeling kind of hurt? I know that sometimes people are unhappy in their relationships but I do not want to be some girl on the side or used for sex. It's just hard to get it through my head because I guess I got my hopes up. Any advice on what to do? What if I see him again in the street, how do I act?

Do girls find it weird when a guy kisses their hand?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:10:53 -0600

Is it strange to you if a stranger does it when they first meet you? What about it's someone who you've been seeing. Do girls find it cute?

"I'm not looking for a relationship right now", when is it true, if ever?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:09:44 -0600

We've all heard/use that line before. I know instances when I've been told that to be let down easy. I've even used it myself. I've always thought of it to be a BS excuse. Does apply across the board or are there really exceptions? What if a girl has just gotten out of a long term relationship and you were close with her and she says this?

Gossiping: Her best response?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:07:48 -0600

You're in a group and one girl is dishing the latest gossip. What is the best way for the girl to respond so that she doesn't offend the gossiper and also doesn't appear to condone the spreading of gossip?

Specifically guys, if a girl shows compassion towards the person being gossiped about and tries to expain their behavior, do you think of her as a 'gossip'?

Does she ever lie about not being interested?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:07:18 -0600

does a girl ever tell a guy she's not interested when she really is? if so,why would she say she's not?

Once a cheater, always one?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 17:06:49 -0600

i have this guy friend who I think is a great friend. unforuately, he has cheated in all of his relationships in the past except for one in high school where he dated a girl for 2 yrs. so I know he can be faithful. he says he cheats when he gets bored in a relationship. the issue is he likes my friend and she likes him. she knows about his past, but keeps asking me what she should do. I know I can't tell her what to do...but what would you guys do?

Why is confidence key?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 16:43:35 -0600

i think I know why
but what are your opinions?

Why doesn't he touch me?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 16:41:42 -0600

I have a crush on him. and I think he knows that. I think he has a crush on me too! But the thing is this... we sat together once... and he was all showing off and laughing with his pals... we don't talk to each other... not much aquiantance... but he was definitely showing off for me... but see, accidently I touched him.. he just jerked away.. like I did it on purpose...
He stares at me in this weird way. like he is scared of me or something.. like I'm going to eat him... Why do guys do that?

How do boys act around the girls they know like them? Do they stare at them?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 16:38:35 -0600

How do boys act toward girls they know have a crush on them? Do they try to show off for them? How do boys treat girls they hate? Or don't like much? How do boys treat girls they are disgusted by?:? DO they try to take advantage, by playing that they like them too>? DO they stare a lot at them? Or do they look at girls only if they like her?

If I'm intriguing, what role should I play?

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 16:29:44 -0600

even my own friends envy me when I'm around but I can't help it.i respect myself to the fullest it sometimes makes me feel bad.

He dances with most of his girl friends....... apart from me

Fri, 06 Nov 2009 16:16:39 -0600

He knows I like him so why is this?