Search Results: how do i talk to a shy guy

9 d

How can a shy, quiet girl actually get a boyfriend if guys overlook her?

I do talk but still labeled as quiet. ironically I’m alone all the time cuz I have no boyfriend or husband next to clingy following me 24/7 in a serious relationship chatting laughing. As I don’t have that I’m alone...

Anonymous

(25-29)

9 d

Has intense eye contact with a stranger ever happened to you too?

So me and a friend went out one night and my friend kinda knows this guy a little and I just met him that night. He came over and talked to us. He was like 2feet away from me across the table and for some reason we were...

Hawaiikai

Xper 7 Age: 31

16 d

Does this shy introverted guy actually like me or is he just being friendly?

Hi everyone. I’m at university and there’s this guy I’m interested in. At first, we didn’t know each other at all. We would occasionally walk past each other, make eye contact, and then go about our day. I initially...

Anonymous

(18-24)

20 d

How is an attractive shy guy meant to respond to women who want me to approach?

My last question was meant to ask this. I am abnormal, though evidently in a blessed + cursed way. I attract women who think I am attractive, and who I find to be very attractive; but I have zero ability to approach...

Anonymous

(25-29)

1 mo

Is my affectionate male friend straight or secretly crushing on my bi best friend?

My male best friend is bisexual, and we have a mutual male friend from the improv community. This guy has more female friends than male friends. He talks to women naturally, but with men he seems unable to start a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

1 mo

Does my guy coworker like me as more than just a friend?

A while back a guy at work called Ollie randomly started talking to me. We’d never really spoken before, so I was surprised by how friendly and polite he was. He asked if I’d had any further training yet and said we’d...

Anonymous

(25-29)

2 mo

Should I reply?

okay, so there's this boy. It's been one month since I've been going to a new school, and there's this boy in my class, and I've never actually seen him looking at me, and I never even noticed him until like two days ago....

Anonymous

(18-24)

2 mo

Should I confess my crush to an older senior before he graduates?

I have this crush on a guy at my school (that’s how it always goes, right?). I’ve been thinking about telling him that I like him, and in a casual, non stressful way. It’s in terms that I’m okay if he rejects me or...

TimidKoi

Xper 1 Age: 17

2 mo

How can I get a shy guy I like to finally make a move?

there's a guy i find attractive but he seems shy. We talked couple of times and i caught him staring at me but i dont if he will make a move. What to do and how to make him to do something

Anonymous

(18-24)

2 mo

Is he actually into me or just enjoying the attention?

So basically there’s this guy I like and pretty sure he likes me back. He briefly flirted with me back in August and I would notice that he’d act nervously when I was around. We were in the same class 2 years ago but we...

Nonameforuser

Xper 1 Age: 19

3 mo

How can a shy girl subtly make the first move on a classmate?

I have a thing for this guy in my class. He's a year older than me and this is the first time I've ever really been around him, so we don't have much of a connection. The problem is that I am VERY shy and awkward. My main...

Anonymous

(Under 18)

Am I screwed when it comes to dating?

if I'm a shy girl with terribly low self esteem who struggles to talk to guys? no guys ever ask me out or hit on me. obviously going to bars isn't gonna work... so how the hell do i get a date? its really hard to hit on a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Why would he suddenly avoid me?

So there is a guy I've gotten to know over the last few months, he seems to be quite shy. I've admitted to liking him/having a crush. I got to hang out with him&few of his family member at a game one time, he would stare...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Would you tell your friend if her boyfriend was talking trash about her behind her back?

I’m dealing with a really uncomfortable situation at work involving a friend of mine, Alex. I helped her get this job when she was struggling. She’s very shy, has low self-esteem, and lost her long-term boyfriend years...

MissPiggy2025

Xper 4 Age: 28

Why did my co-worker not tell me where he heard it from?

I have been interning for a few months now. A lot of people don’t respect interns here in my department. I remember during my first week at my dept, this per diem guy was very reserved and firmed with me while being super...

bobalife

Guru Age: 35

Was he interested or not interested since he didn’t ask for my number?

I went to the coffeeshop this evening. I was supposed to meet my friend, but she last min wasn’t able to make it anymore. I accidentally sat next to a cute guy and we talked throughout the whole time. He’s a full time...

bobalife

Guru Age: 35

Should I make an obvious move or will it backfire?

there's a guy who works a different shift. We happened to work the same shift once and he introduced himself. His name is Michael. He came by our job a few weeks back after the standard work party which I couldn’t go...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I’ve been off and on with this guy, what should I do?

So I have been on 3 dates with him but never alone, always with my friend and his friend. We really clicked and talked but he never knew when to take me seriously cause im always joking and didn’t want to chase that much...

Anonymous

(18-24)