Search Results: i need some closure

Should I write a letter of apology to an EX I hurt a long time ago?

To be honest I was debating whether or not to even ask this question on here. I'm not sure if I'm asking this as some form of cathartic writing to appease a deep seated guilt I've held on to for years, or if I'm genuinely...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you really NEED closure?

"Closure" is a frequently used term but I'm not sure we all mean the same thing when we say it. For me, closure means hearing an explanation, having a a chance to ask questions and seek clarification, ending with no...

OlderAndWiser

Influencer Age: 71

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Girl's Behavior

Am I stuck in a game or is there something genuine?

I am 21, and have a bit of a problem here. There is this girl and whenever I am with her in person there is no doubt she likes me like I am 100% sure. And others tell me it must be, even random people. But ever since...

Anonymous

(18-24)

One last chance?

Why do guys ask for one last chance? In 2023 I decided to ultimately block a "friend". It gave me closure with our last conversation and i couldnt continue it. I unblocked him 2025 this year in case he needed the same,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is there really no chance of friendship with this guy I like?

i went on a 1st date with this guy i've thought was cute for like forever. it was going soooo well, but when we got back to his apartment, he tried to hookup with me. i dont get with guys the first time i meet them, so i...

Anonymous

(18-24)

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10 Reasons People Go Back to Their Ex

Familiarity Feels Safe Change is hard. When relationships end, it's not just about losing a person - - - it's about losing comfort, routine, and a sense of security. Loneliness Hits Hard Loneliness doesn't just show up...

princeofromance

Guru Age: 44

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Should I talk to my ex?

I feel so angry at my ex and seeing his face irritate me. i can't ignore him since we work in same department. i feel like there are some unfinished buisness between us and that maybe i need a closure. so should i talk to...

Wild_princess

Xper 7 Age: 25

Holidays

Why my "ex" text me on Christmas day?

I dated a guy for a month. We connected very deeply. We were compatible in many ways and he claimed to be a Christian and God-fearing. I never felt this way about someone. He was really kind to me. It ended because he did...

Sweetascandy1990

Xper 6 Age: 36

What does this message mean "I love you even if you don't love me back"?

I woke up to a text notification from my ex-girlfriend. My heart skipped a beat when I saw it. We hadn’t spoken in almost four months; not since that messy breakup where we both said things we regretted. At first she had...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Advice Needed Updated from my question about whether to get attached to someone who only wants to keep things casual, what do to do now?

So similar to my last question about getting attached to someone who only wants things casual. We've done quite a bit together (hangout, work, college, sex, etc.) For an update, we did talk about it and he said he does...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Was I played or was this man afraid of his feelings?

I need some type of closure or clue of what happen to me (28) and this guy (38) I met him on a dating app early may for simply hooking up only, he was my first (ONS) being I’m inexperienced to this we ended talking the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

I ghosted my best friend of 14 years because she was acting like a frenemy. Should I just continue to move on?

Basically the relationship we had started to feel off. Something just felt weird. There was a point in the past where I had felt similar vibes and during those times it was eventually reavealed to me that the cause was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can I make his walls come down any advice and why some guys think this was?

To start off he’s been hurt by an ex back in high school she never gave him closure after their breakup, she doesn’t trust him. Fast forward to recent like these past months and years he thought he had to play it safe...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do guys get triggered when their girl brings up past mistakes?

I understand how much it sucks to be reminded of the mistakes you’ve made in the past especially if you’ve worked on improving yourself to do better. But I don’t understand why a lot of guys seem to get immediately...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Whats a low value man?

some would say, a guy who is in community college for 9yrs and still hasn't gotten a degree, has no connections, can't manage his time, or take advantage of opportunities, doesn't care about his own health (eats whatever...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My girlfriend and I broke up, how can I move on?

We had an argument about 6 weeks ago. I’ll admit it was my fault and we haven’t spoken in over a month. I have been feeling terrible about what happened, she asked for some space and I have been giving her that ever...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Family & Friends

Need closure on the end of a friendship - thanks for your input on a VERY long post (not really a my take, sorry!)

Apologies ahead of time, for the extremely long wall of text. This is a complicated matter, that has spanned a few years - so it is impossible to write a shortened version of it. Definitely not a read, for those that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Will he miss me?

I have given up on a 7 year situationship. We was never together; but we was always more then friends. I felt exhausted the past few months, I put so much energy and time into him. He would let me down more times than...

Anonymous

(36-45)