Search Results: would you ever forgive an ex

Years after a breakup, have you ever realized how toxic YOU were/ where YOU were wrong in the relationship?

Please post openly. I'm seeking to hear others' perspective and learn from it. Feel free to post anonymously and let's not judge others for their answers. Also, I do not expect victims of abuse of any sort at the hands...

LifeHitMeandRan

Xper 6 Age: 33

Is my hatred for fake apologies understandable?

Here is why: My 7th grade female bully by the name of Massiel B Gaitan set me up twice with a fake apology. The first time she faked it for a week, only to then say she and her friends were never my friends, it was just...

Vesuvius87

Guru Age: 39

My best friend kissed my ex?

My best friend (WHO HAS A BOYFRIEND) of 6-7 years kissed a guy i used to hook up with. Background The guy and I had a horrible falling out, he said awful things and never apologized for them. My best friend has seen...

Anonymous

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My best friend (WHO HAS A BOYFRIEND) of 6-7 years kissed a guy i used to hook up with. Background The guy and I had a horrible falling out, he said awful things and never

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Is she faking happiness? What should I do? I’m overeating?

I had a situationship for 12 years going on. I never officially dated. I invited him to church and I have a best friend for 8years. I told her that It would be super hard for me if she started liking him. (He’s 30 and...

Yrios20

Xper 1 Age: 30

My ex is being weird and I don't know what it means?

we were together for 2 years, he was my first ever boyfriend maybe that’s why I’m so in love still after he abused me. He did it several times. He turned into a very dark disgusting individual. Luckily I got away. Isaw...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Have you ever forgiven someone who severely hurt you? Why/Why not/how did you forgive them?

For me, forgiveness is a journey, and in the end, it improved who I am as a person and made my future relationships better. I was in an abusive relationship that consisted of mental and physical abuse, manipulation and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, Reconciling with an ex?

I'm tearing apart inside. Life's been going good, slowly improving. I've been getting better. And yet still I've always dreamt of her. Of reuniting and reconciling with her. Even through other women passing in the night...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What are some downsides to you as a person and how you are fjxing them?

1. Am a pushover. I'm working on standing up for myself even if it sounds rude sometimes 2. I forgive others too easily. Fixing this by talking to a few friends and deciding basic off a person actions if i should...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My sister is evil?

I try to forgive my older sister but I can’t. I’m 26 & my sister is 28, ever since we were young she would call me ugly & fat. At one point I lost a lot of weight & started dating but she would go after my ex’s, my first...

khb031498

Xper 4 Age: 28

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Is it normal to hate someone so much you wish them dead?

I'm atheist and don't believe in forgiving everyone, esp if they're unremorseful and the damage they did was major. I really hate my first ex boyfriend. He destroyed me psychologically and ruined my trust in people. If I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

If you're not going to get forgiven, it's it better walking away without apologizing at all?

My now ex friend discovered her now ex boyfriend and I have been getting it on for 4 months. Though I've put an end to it last month but she still found the old texts. It's unlikely I'll ever get forgiven so this was my...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, how can I ever thank you for being you?

I probably should have just wrote this as a mytake but, I wanted to phrase it in a way that I can basically just say thank you, for being you. Maybe it's because I'm a straight man but, for example, I was watching an...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do I have a chance at getting him back?

My boyfriend and I broke up. We’d only been dating 2 months but he just recently told me he loved me for the first time. Three days later (and several I love yous later), we broke up after a conversation about ideas for...

Anonymous

(30-35)

10 Signs that Tells Him, She is NOT the One!

1. Stress- If you feel stressed or anxious when you think about her. I remember a time that I was traveling to see a woman, and the whole time down there I was thinking that this is not how it's supposed to feel. If she...

DaveJord

Influencer Age: 49

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Did this really cost me or is there still a chance?

My relationship before last really brought out the worst in me. Won't get into specific details but initially she was the abuser until one day I got tired of it all and began retaliating. Things would often get physical...

eyeameye

Xper 2 Age: 36

I still don't feel actually remorse for supposedly bullying my ex boyfriend's half-sister, is this bad?

This was in HS and she's still affected 8 years later. We're already 26 year-olds and my now ex boyfriend found out when he caught me dumping her rice pudding and laughing during an argument. The reason I'm not even...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I am bitter. How do I forgive people for good and finally let it go?

Even though I have these feelings which I think are valid and justifiable anger I don’t want to carry this anymore. I think what is so hard about feeling like this is I hide it so well. I always have people telling me how...

MilaRay

Xper 7 Age: 28

November 3rd, 2022: Ten Full Years Now Since She Passed Away

You know, I died twice in my life already. The first time was when I was 18, and I learned I would never actually physically grow up. I never got my long awaited growth spurt. I never moved an inch beyond the midget,...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

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