Search Results: being one of the guys

2 d

Was my new work colleague trying to make a move?

I started my new job around 6 weeks ago. there's been a lot of obvious sexual tension between me and the guy whose training me but we are both too shy and awkward to amit it. Other colleagues have picked up on it but...

Anonymous

(25-29)

3 d

How can I approach women respectfully without feeling like I’m bothering them?

So in order to get a date, I have to actually talk to women, right? The problem is... I feel bad about talking to women in public. Let's negate more common areas where being hit on is more expected, like the bar, a club,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

5 d

Why does my ex brag about being blocked and seem to enjoy it?

i blocked this one guy i dated because he wasn’t honest , years later i unblocked because i didn’t care anymore. he came back and just was awful so i blocked him again , it’s like everytime he gets unblocked he wants to...

Anonymous

(18-24)

7 d

Why does finding a wife have to be so difficult?

How it feels to be looking for someone in 2026: I’m just so tired. I’ve been trying to date for a few months now and the ego and hubris of these women nowadays is very exhausting to deal with. I had only like a total of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

7 d

Was I wrong to walk out on this double date after being used as a pawn?

I recently got asked on a date from a guy whose on the same university course as me. I said yes and he told me it be a double date with some friends of his, that I also know from uni and that we were going to this really...

Anonymous

(25-29)

7 d

Is my coworker actually interested or am I overthinking her signals?

I have gotten pretty close to a coworker over the past few weeks. When we first exchanged numbers, she’d take forever to text back and even admitted she “forgot” to respond sometimes. Then after she went through some...

Anonymous

(25-29)

9 d

Would you outright ask a woman you don't know if her 🦉🦉s are real?

I'm on a first date... the fellow is literally just staring unabashedly at my 🦉-🦉. He was pretty bold about it too, asking if they were real. I laughed at him (bc I'm relatively small-chested compared to the...

Master Age: 52

9 d

Can candid body language in photos really reveal who someone loves most?

And with body language you can't lie? Is it better than words. If you see these photos what do you think the real body language says about this couple relationship? In those photos, it is the same guy with with different...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

10 d

Are these friendly baristas actually flirting with me or just being nice?

I go to cafes to get coffee a lot. Sometimes, the male baristas would be handsome young guys with super sunny, dreamy eyes when I make eye contact with them. The type of look almost as if they want to hit on me. I don't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

10 d

Are guys just more openly animalistic in approaching women nowadays?

Basically, I don't remember guys being this overtly animalistic when I was younger. Now... it's like a complete free for all. Guys just seem to say whatever's on their mind -- often something very sexual, which I was...

Influencer Age: 52

15 d

How to help someone become more emotionally intelligent?

i'll try to keep this short since no one wants a whole essay. but i've been talking to this guy for almost four months, and i really do like him. we call multiple times a day for hours at a time. he's funny, witty,...

naowhat

Xper 1 Age: 19

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15 d

Have you realized an irony of life recently?

... because I have! A few months ago, someone asked how we feel about exes being in new relationships or even married. I responded by saying "he's a better man for her than I would have been" . Then I said that in at...

BCRanger10

Master Age: 38

15 d

He says he wants to know me, but do his actions show he just wants sex?

I wanted some outside opinions on this situation. I went on a first date with a guy and left feeling like he was more interested in sex than actually getting to know me. on the day of the date I had to text him to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

19 d

He saves me, then avoids me and won’t look at me—what does this mean?

Hi everyone. I just wanted to ask a question. If a guy that knows you, he kind of knows she likes him (has a crush on him). I subconsciously stare at him and he finds me looking at me. Like I look at him, he looks at me,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

22 d

Should I feel bad that this guy at a group hangout didn’t remember me?

So I was going to this group hangout (I think I went 4 times before) and this was my 5th. One of the guys was being very nice and friendly. He clearly did remember me. However another one asked me if it was the first time...

Anonymous

(36-45)

23 d

Does this shy introverted guy actually like me or is he just being friendly?

Hi everyone. I’m at university and there’s this guy I’m interested in. At first, we didn’t know each other at all. We would occasionally walk past each other, make eye contact, and then go about our day. I initially...

Anonymous

(18-24)

23 d

How do I change my view on men?

I turned 23 this year, and since middle school I haven't been able to view any guy in a positive light with my dad being the only exception. in middle school my mom moved us to the area I live in to this day, it's...

Anonymous

(18-24)

25 d

When a younger guy propositions an older woman, is it "just for fun" by default?

I've had this dialogue with a few people bc in my opinion a younger guy with his whole life ahead of him isn't propositioning a woman old enough to be his mother for anything more than a short-term fling. He wants to say...

Master Age: 52

25 d

What makes a guy want to hold a girl's hand?

I used to hold hands or walk arm-in-arm with guy friends all the time. Something about the dynamic changed midway through college when the guys all started looking for our serious dating companions and I kept to my...