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Why do I let him walk all over me?

i’ve let him cheat on me, call me horrible names, choose when he feels like talking to me, ignore me for 2 weeks at a time, break up with me then come back when he’s bored, he speaks to other girls a lot, he obsesses over...
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Do you understand your language's dialects/accents or do you struggle with them?

I still get shocked when I hear French people say they can't understand Quebecois or Cajun French, or that Levant Arabs can't understand North African Arabic or Mexicans can't understand Cuban, Argentinian or Chilean...
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What is your secret to enjoying life?

For me, it's trying not to compare myself or my life to others. Comparison is the thief of joy.
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How do I move on from loving a man who still won’t love me back?

Okay so I met this guy when I was 11 years old and he was 23. He works for my dad and it started as a little school girl crush. I think he was aware as everytime id see him id go all red in the face and act shy but...
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Why am I so obsessed with my looks even when others say I’m pretty?

everything i do revolves around the way i look, i cannot let myself be seen without makeup in public; even though i look similar without it- at one point i would sleep in it so i could wake up in it the next morning. I...
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If someone doesn’t agree with you, that doesn’t automatically make them a Trump supporter or right winger?

I don’t think a lot of people quite understand that many people may not belong to a specific party, but may have stronger opinions and feelings on certain topics compared to others. For example, I myself am a moderate....
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How can I be a trusted guide and friend to my son without being permissive?

I'm comparing my parents' relationship and what I would like for my son. I feel more emotionally secure with my mother than my father. At least I never feared her. Even though my father has always been a good provider and...
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Should I change myself to fit my husband’s estate dream life?

My husband dream is to work on a country estate as a head gardener. he's already worked on a country estate for a very wealthy, famous family in the uk but he wasn't head gardener at the time now he's a head gardener at a...
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People don’t wanna do anything with me but will do it for others?

I knew one guy. I often offered to hang out somewhere, and he always declined my ideas. We had situationship before. Today I checked his instagram and saw who tagged him. I saw other girl who was same nationality as...
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I think my boyfriend wanted to kiss me, what should I do?

This is my first relationship and I (17) really like him (18), but it hasn't even been a month and we see each other so often (not that I mind). Anyways just before Valentine's day, we were in the car together and he went...
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Is this guy still not over me?

Some years back i made friends with a guy at work called Ollie. He worked with his then girlfriend. I originally thought she was his big sister as she was always bossing him around and looked annoyed to be in his...
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Am I right or wrong about partner and boundaries?

When I was with my ex he always to me had some really strong boundaries as in not letting anyone mess with him. When we got together and I was let into his world and throughout our relationships span there was never...
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Is it normal for strangers to stare in NYC?

I was visiting New York (Manhattan) and had an experience that made me feel really uncomfortable and anxious, and I’d like outside perspectives. I was dressed very normally and neutrally: white sneakers, a long...
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I have a crush on a girl I don’t even know — how do I stop comparing myself to her and move on?

Hey guys, I’ve developed a crush on a girl I don’t actually know. We’re from the same ethnic and religious background, same community, and I found her through mutual friends. But lately I’ve fallen into this unhealthy...
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Is it really normal for partner (male) to say outloud and in front of you that they find someone beautiful?

I am trying to adjust myself with my partner's personality. He always say outloud that he finds this girl pretty, that woman pretty and so on, that this woman is sexy and that I cannot understand a man. I am just laughing...
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When will non artistic men understand that angles matter?

Whenever I see a guy's picture and he's not artistic, they show an unattractive picture as their best picture. Then they say they're not photogenic. Women aren't asking for professional pictures or asking you to take a...
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Why can’t I find/attract a good man?

I’m 23 and have only been in one relationship before. I don’t sleep around or do hookups, also I don’t wear makeup as I don’t want to A- look older than I do, as I’ve been complimented on how youthful I look compared to...
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How to cope with mentally draining and manipulative parents?

I have a mother who is often negative and miserable. She frequently feels sorry for herself, has never been very independent, and struggles with both mental and physical health. She believes people are out to get her due...
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Do you often compare yourself to other?

I do that a lot. I compare myself with kids who are doing way better than me. Like yesterday in our Economics class they were talking about this guy in our school who has 6 A grades (UK universities only require 3) and...
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Why do y'all use the worst excuses when someone asks if you want to date a fat person?

Yesterday I saw a post asking if you would date 2 women. They looked like they were at a healthy weight, but the comments called them fat. I started to look up other fat posts and saw that this community does not like fat...
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