Is it really normal for partner (male) to say outloud and in front of you that they find someone beautiful?

[Anonymous]

I am trying to adjust myself with my partner's personality. He always say outloud that he finds this girl pretty, that woman pretty and so on, that this woman is sexy and that I cannot understand a man.

I am just laughing it out and agreeing with him, because they are indeed pretty and hot, however is it really okay to say it in front of your partner? I never tried to do that or look at other guys, because I do not want him to be insecure-given that he has body dysmorphia (he said).

I just want to really understand this on a guy's perspective because her sister told me I should talk to him when they heard him getting hyped up over another woman but saying that it is only his crush. I do not want to look toxic, but it is getting heavy, and I find myself comparing to them now. Unlike before, I don't 🫠 Thank you 🙇‍♀️

[SueShe]

We all know that men in general are ruled by their testosterone and that they would want to fornicate about anyone that has reached puberty and until they are on their dying bed. It is no secret that they are unable to control themselves.

It is sad that even though they are in a relationship, they mentally cheat on their partner by obviously having deviant thoughts about them copulating with those girls they find pretty or attractive.

No, it is not normal but what can you expect from a male that is a slave of his sexual hormones. They will obviously find it normal to emotionally cheat on their partners.

[beenherebefore]

Me and my Partner do the same. If we see someone attractive we tell each other.

[Anonymous]

That seems very inappropriate without you being there. With you, it shows disrespect and a lack of intelligence to how that might make you feel.

[RedInnocent69]

I think so. I mean, it’s usually pretty obvious. What’s the point of hiding it?

[Anonymous]

I can see when my boyfriend thinks a girl is hot but he tries really hard not to show it.

[Nice222]

My wife and I talk to each other like that all the time. I think it’s normal. She even points out guys that she finds attractive. And I don’t mind.

[Nikki1989]

Normal for most people I know.