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Search Results: do looks matter physical appearances
In long-term relationships, do women truly value personality over looks?
I’ve heard this said a lot, especially when people talk about what really matters in a long-term relationship, but I’m curious how true it actually is in real life. Obviously physical attraction gets things started for...
BDRick
Xper 4 Age: 33 What kind of person are you, and what are you looking for in someone who makes you feel secure enough to build a future with?
I’m someone who values depth, clarity, and intention. Honesty, emotional maturity, and genuine connection matter a lot to me. I’m not looking for something surface level. I want a partner who values substance over...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it normal for a 30 year old woman to flirt with a 24 year old guy?
So I'm 24 years old and at my new-ish job there's this 30 year old woman who's been flirting with me, or at least I think. She's very affectionate and gives me a lot of compliments, including a lot based on my physical...
Anonymous
(18-24) How to not be bothered by your physical ugliness?
I'm ugly. All my life people have tried their best to let me know that I'm not beautiful. Every time I'm attending a social gathering or a family get together, my elders would pass cruel jokes on how I look. I used to...
Anonymous
(18-24) What Men Desire In a Woman
For the best experience in reading this, I recommend using the desktop version of GaG as some of the content may not be available on mobile. Y'all ready to get triggered by yet another one of HawkPerception's MyTakes? 😂...
Why are people shamed for altering their appearances?
This question is geared more towards women because women are often judged by our looks in society and we are pressured and conditioned to look a certain way like most Instagram models with filtered and photoshopped...
Cherrylicious
Yoda Age: 35 Why I'm Not Interested in Younger Women
As promised this is my follow up Take to my other one which details why I like older women Why I Prefer Older Women Over Younger This one is largely about young women in their 20s. Again, I am aware that “not all” young...
Being virgin at 20 among men is considered shameful, so there must be a reason why I still am, right? How can I understand what is wrong with me?
Hello! As per title, I think there is something wrong with me but I can't tell what. I have a job, I have a social life, I go to university... a pretty normal lifestyle. And yet, I'm one of the Great Untouched, and on...
Anonymous
(18-24) Fitness compatibility is a real thing!
Something that has always baffled me is when women choose to start working out AFTER a breakup even though their partner has mentioned many times in the relationship that they're getting fat. They do this as vengeance to...
How to accept being ugly?
Pretty privilege is insane. I have a conventionally attractive mom and sister, and it's insane the different treatment we all get. I am ignored, meanwhile I have people (especially men) come up to me to ask about...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do people pretend personality matters when it’s appearance?
So I’m 32 and moving through different stages of life I have always heard personality matters in dating and that’s just not factual. Personality takes a back seat to appearance more often then not it’s the guys with the...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do girls say looks matter when how I look has only ever gotten me surface level praise?
All my life, even from some girls I thought of as physically attractive: "Oh he's so cute lol" and compliments from adults etc. Yet I've never gotten close to establishing any relationship. I tried Tinder once and found a...
AndrewJordon99
Xper 2 Age: 27 If There's One Thing That You Should Remember In Life, It's That You Should Treat Everyone The Way You Want To Be Treated
We need to start identifying the triggers that aggravate mental health issues in our society - bullying, social media negativity and anxiety, gender based violence, substance abuse, stigma around issues such as maternal...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is going to gym and changing your appearance basically the only important thing for finding a girlfriend?
I have never had a girlfriend in my whole life and I really want to experience being in a relationship. The issue with the culture in which I was raised is that appearance was not considered very important for...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you agree that looks matter much more than people want to admit?
So many people say that physical appearance doesn't matter at all, but the same people would not date or marry someone they don't find physically attractive unless they have no other options. At least some minimum level...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why can’t someone ever come up with this answer of why you can’t judge a book by it’s cover?
The reason looks can be deceiving is because it’s easy to make judgments by what is visible to our eyes 👀. As it is looks and/or physical appearance matters. They’re just not everything that matters. As for me in the...
Counterclocking
Xper 7 Age: 46 Should I go on dates with women I feel only borderline attracted to?
I know women go on dates with guys they only feel so so about physical appearance wise all the time. In a best case scenario she is giving him a chance to get to know him. If she likes his personality her attraction for...
Anonymous
(36-45) MCheetah December 2022 Journal Entry to Vent
This is just a journal entry for me and me alone. I don't expect anyone else to possibly understand it or get it, but writing helps me vent. I'm going to type until I feel better or reach the character limit....
MCheetah
Editor Age: 39 What makes it difficult to find love nowadays?
Hello everyone, my name is Rick and I just wanted to ask you all a question because it has been on my mind for some time now. First, I wanted address the fact that I am on the Autism Spectrum and I'm currently single,...
Anonymous
(25-29) I need opinion from guys?
hi, i want to approach my crush because i think he kinda like me (maybe? based on my observation) but i dont have any confident, i think i'm not pretty because i have acne scars 🥺 i also think i am not his standard. can...
handpickcotton
Xper 3 Age: 25 