Do you agree that looks matter much more than people want to admit?

[Anonymous]

So many people say that physical appearance doesn't matter at all, but the same people would not date or marry someone they don't find physically attractive unless they have no other options. At least some minimum level of physical attractiveness should be there to get one's foot into the relationship. Personality and hard work only becomes important after that first step is achieved. How many of you have dated someone you don't think is physically attractive?

[Anonymous]

I was a bigger girl in my high school days so even if a guy liked me it was more of a secret or just plainly didn’t exist. So when I got my first boyfriend we met via a mutual friend and had only talked on the phone for months. He knew I was bigger and she was bigger if that mattered so it was no surprise but I wasn’t that attracted to him physically. Being that we were young we didn’t have means to see each other that often but did talk everyday after school and weekends for hours and I really loved his personality and humor. Would I date him seriously now, maybe. Would I marry him given the opportunity , probably not. I wouldn’t want to spend the rest of my life with someone I didn’t find that physically attractive.

[sheikalana]

I never hid the fact that looks are very important to me. If I'm not physically attracted to someone chances are I'll never be attracted to you at all even if you have a great personality and good intentions.

[slatyb]

Looks matter more than some people want to admit. So does intelligence, and the market doesn't pay for diplomas.

[Jkgordon]

I agree thst 3D people go for looks regardless how they are being treated.