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Obviously both happen. What do you think happens more? I am not condoning anything. I am just curious.

I know there are plenty of women who try to get with a married man but then there are plenty who also wouldn't even try either because of morality or because it's too hard.

Also married women are definitely cheating more than ever now, so what do you think? Do you think it might be about the same?

Think about all the women you've met in your life. When I say "catch feelings" I mean when someone just can't stop thinking about another person and wants to be with someone and all over someone. Please feel free to share why you think so and any experiences/stories

I went through this about 10 years ago. My then 25 year old girlfriend made more than me when I was 32. But at the time I was pursuing a dream (I was a professional athlete) and I my time was consumed with training. I was no dead beat but I just had a different focus at the time.

I was doing freelance work just to pay the bills and I was struggling. She even offered me money at one time (which extremely kind of her) but it I turned it down out of pride and went further in debt.

Anyway the insecurity was on my side when it can to this (also contributed to our break up). She didn’t care but I did. It had a lot to with being raised to “be a man” when it came to being a breadwinner.

Nowadays I make a lot more money given I’m retired from my sport and have full focus on my career. But I am also a lot more “boring” now since I’m no longer the free wheeling adventurer I once was.

But money is a touchy issue. Form a evolutionary perspective I really do believe most women still subconsciously expect a man to provide for them even it’s unnecessary or impractical. They might get into short term flings with guys who offer other benefits (looks, excitement, adventurer, personality, etc) but when it comes to long term commitments they have a much higher bar on this

I also believe when a woman makes more money then her boyfriend/husband she’s more prone to cheating. Especially if she is comparable to him when it comes to looks (maybe she will stay loyal if she’s physically unattractive compared to him)

In fact I believe it’s unfairly more socially “acceptable” for a woman to do this given the guy is considered a “chump” if he is financial dependent on her. More more acceptable then vice versa.

I have a divorced uncle who worked a low paying his entire life and was supported by his (comparably) rich wife. She was no multi millionaire but she earned a lot more than him.

She ended up cheating on him the entire marriage. He tolerated it because they had kids and he needed support.

My wife was talking to her sister everyweek living in another city 4 hours away and her sister's husband comes town and takes her out to lunch before i met my wife, he knew my wife was divorced and single probably her sister told him, my wife says nothing happened that night, but when i became her boyftiend , her brother in law comes to town again and invites her to his hotels bar for a drink i was her new boyfriend and no one knew about me but my wife told me if i would go with her so we went to see him together, she did not want to go by herself to see him , so it seems like we start seeing her sister and him a lot afterwards, this continued after we got married , we went trips vacations and eating out at least once a week , we even stayed in their house some weekends , i usually get up late but wife always gets up earlier and i woke up earlier to go to bathroom i saw her in the kitchen hugged and kissed her brother in law on the cheeks while he was making coffee and usually have conversation together untill i woke up about the same time as her sister while my wife an him alone in living room drinking coffee or watching tv i guess , when i was with him alone he was telling me dirty stuff like sleeping with another women cheating, do you think my wife has or had an affair with her brother in law? When my wife retired , i was working and we had one car she would go to see her sister and him once a week after we moved 20 minutes away from their house , my wife says she just went to book store and shops with her sister but sometimes he would go with them or cook lunch for them. Our sex life wasn't great with my wife. One day he gave me some viagra pills out of blue, and when i was retired he was kind of nasty or not talking much with me i guess my wife was not free anymore because always with me, and one day we were in their house for holidays my wife was dressed real nice he all of sudden said to me i only took your wife to dinner once and you better stay with her