Do you accept help (money ) from someone who hurts you?

I was in a relationship with a guy for 7 years. We were engaged and going to get married
But he traveled to another country and cheated on me with another girl for months and we broke up (he confesed me that)
My financial situation is very bad and I have no hope in my country because of the war
I want to travel to the same country, but I need money to do it, and he is still communicating with me and suggesting that he would help me for free.. i refused so he said
"Think of it as a debt"

Do you accept help (money ) from someone who hurts you?
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