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Is he just busy and hurting, or actually not interested in me?
Exchanged #'s with a guy I'd see around. We texted for over a week. He said he's desperate for connection and having trouble making friends. I invited him to an event. He said he could make himself available". OK I...
Anyone else terrified of being “second choice” to the people you love?
Bit of a vent, bit of a question. I’ve had a lot of friendships fade over the years — especially close female friends — because they get into relationships and slowly phase me out. No drama, no fights, just… gone. It’s...
Why do some people come and go in you’re life?
Like there was this one guy who I worked for over two years than he quit, but our relationship was different like we joked around a lot we talked sometimes we did have disagreements but overall he always was good to me...
Still struggling to get over a guy after one date almost 2 years ago? What’s wrong with me?
I cry hard about it, I feel depressed, I haven’t really talked to anyone else, I’m in therapy, I’ve been off work for months… there was a lot of drama after … he made me feel like I was safe even though I wasn’t looking....
Why didn’t he sue me after I told him to go through with it?
He gave me a warning about suing me for defamation of character and other things out of sadness and anger. I wanted him to do it tbh knowing that I could get a record and my life be over.. I told him I couldn’t get my...
Why am I feeling this way?
Hey y'all, im going to keep it short and simple. A year ago big changes happened, I lost my career that was a big part of me. My ex boyfriend who I was with for 4 years left me for the tenth time, but instead of begging...
What did I do wrong? How can I fix it?
Hi all! So I have a conundrum with my boyfriend. We met at work 6 years ago and have been together for the past 4 years. i love him tremendously and we have been inseparable since we linked up and lucky for us we have...
What It's Like Prepping For And Living Through a Hurricane
If you are watching the news in the US lately, you'll know that this year has been particularly bad along the East and Gulf coast in terms of hurricanes forming that have or will effect the US like the current hurricane...
Am I the backup friend?
I have had a friend and I would say we were close but not super till we decided to go to the same college. In high school I had a friend group with my best friends a, b, and c. My friend a and b went to different colleges...
I ruined my life and dreams?
At age 32, because of a bad childhood, for it, i got out at 24 but i completer was devasted, i grew to learn i came from a toxic housrhold, bad boyfriends and friends, and lost jobs, i couldnt get over the sadness. Was...
Why should a guy ask a young woman's hand in marriage if women initiate divorce 80+% of the time, especially in western countries?
As a kid and into adult hood, I have an old school mentality of getting married. I'm not a guy who wants to play around. But today, I see more girls getting divorced. Using dating apps I see women in their 20s or 30s or...
Why is he crying when he broke up with me? Will he regret his choices?
We were seeing each other for 4 months and we had communication issues on both our sides. He lives an hour away so we were dependent on texting and seeing each other on weekends and we had a few disagreements via text...
What song describes how's your week passing by?
This week was an awful week for me, not getting out of the house, trying to avoid people and just sitting in my room over thinking... What happened reminded me that i broke my word when i said that i shouldn't trust...
I asked his number first, then he asked me out but I didn’t see the message. So I asked him out back but no reply. Should I text him again or no?
I (30) met a super cute guy (28) on Friday night out. My friend brought him over and we talked a bit, and I asked his number (it was my first time I did it, I was always the one to get asked). He was a bit shy but seemed...
I’ve never been this depressed?
There’s a lot to unpack but basically I was in a DV situation with my boyfriend, I got the cops involved due to the abuse so therefore we had a no contact order. we had the order for 4 months that was just lifted. He’s...
My mom wishes that I die?
I don't know if its normal or not if its out of anger, but my mom wishes i die and repeated it, im 23 years female.. I don't know if all parents say things like that anyhow my whole life i tried my best to get high degree...
Agree or disagree? Sadness is the mind's way of healing from trauma
I was pretty sad recently....what helped me get over it was recognizing that EVERYONE is dealing with the same problems. Everyone has sad moments. That got me thinking about the purpose of sadness. I remembered a saying...
Do you ever get burnt out on social issues?
I was putting in work, having conversations, and then after a particularly unproductive one I just couldn't anymore. I felt my mind just shutting down afterwards. I haven't been able to even watch the video they...
Is it stoicism or is it emotional repression?
Stoicism is the philosophy of valuing objective and logical thinking over anything emotion-driven. The idea that, "We can't control what happens to us, we can only control how we respond." But there's the fact that, as...
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