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Search Results: getting asked out
Friendship not reciprocated, is it me?
Quick facts about me... Currently in 18 year toxic relationship, turned 40 this year, male, never had real friends all my life due to shyness and anxiety. I feel I jumped into my relationship to fast for the sake of...
Gabeinsf781
Xper 2 Age: 38 Was trashing birthday gifts from my ex and ex friend reasonable?
Long story short: I ripped up a picture album of myself, threw away a ring, and stuck a book in a suitcase that I probably won't open again for a few months. Backstory: So one friendship ended last year, but she's...
Anonymous
(25-29) Am I expecting too much emotional support from my stressed long-distance boyfriend?
Is it too much to ask for someone to be consistent with communication during long distance when the other person is going through heavy stress? My boyfriend and I have been doing long distance for about 7 months, but have...
RavenWing057
Xper 4 Age: 32 Long distance cheating?
Hello I’ve been in a long distance relationship for one and a half years. recently my boyfriend went on a boys trip and the first night he didn’t text me until he got back to his hotel room, which is fine. but the second...
Anonymous
(18-24) Did I overstep by warning a girl I like about creepy guys in our group?
There's this girl I like in a shared social group. We've spoken frequently on the phone, went on a date; she said a while back, though, she just wants to be friends; I maintained that I liked her, and we gave each other...
Anonymous
(30-35) I have dark skin and dislike my eye color, what color contacts suit me?
My eyes are normally dark green, but in sunlight they appear to be a mix of green and brown tones. This sometimes bothers me because people ask why my eye color changes and even wonder if I have an eye disease. Because of...
Anonymous
(18-24) How does trauma play into your fantasies?
So i know the nonconsensual consensual play and bdSm can be linked to trauma and can influence what you get turned on by. Concerning myself, I've had a lot of bad experiences with men and sometimes men at work. Like this...
Anonymous
(25-29) During an inconvenience, what do you think about when someone compliments you?
A new doctor i was seeing told me that i seemed nice and had a unique sense of style, but all I could think about was if he would sign my paperwork so I wouldn't have to struggle while im on LOA. A woman said she liked my...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is my boyfriend gaslighting me for calling me crazy after I checked on him?
I have been dating this guy for 15 months and today he was extremely angry with his teenage daughter and he wasn’t calming down on the phone to me I didn’t hear of him for two hours so I rang him to check on him and...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Why do men ask for something casual but get upset when I act casual about it?
I’ve recently had this issue of men only wanting a physical relationship, then getting mad when I don’t prioritize seeing them. I just don’t get it.
Anonymous
(30-35) Why will this guy only see me in private and act so secretive?
I’ve known this guy for a month. We always hang out either at his home or in secluded, low traffic places. I can't find evidence that he has a girlfriend. I'm not ugly and no other man has had a problem being seen with me...
Anonymous
(30-35) Anonymous Feature: Full of Mystery, Yet Full of Contradiction?
In your POV, what do you really think about the anonymous feature on this platform? 🤔 Do you think it should stay exactly as it is, need some improvement, or should be completely removed? And why? * And for...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why is my best friend of 13 years suddenly pulling away after flirting?
We’ve been friends 13 years, both had relationships etc and we finally got back into each others lives again in October, he asked me to join his church, meet his friends and family.. the first few months we texted daily,...
mel725
Xper 1 Age: 35 Is this scary movie outing with my guy friend a date or just a hangout?
So I have this guy friend we flirt a lot and have gotten to know each other over the pass year and a half and recently I gave him my number and when I did he said that he is not really a planner like he don’t really plan...
Trojans95
Xper 5 Age: 30 Is "touching grass" truly the solution to polarization in human interaction?
Inspired by a recent and brief discussion with @oneviewpoint Is "touching grass" truly the solution to polarization in human interaction? There are sayings like "in vino veritas", "drunk words reveal sober thoughts", and...
u Is this security guy flirting with me or just being friendly at work?
So I like this guy and he works in the same facility I do but he’s more police/security and every time I go through the gate I have to show my ID if he’s there hell always give me a wink and a smile. I don't know if this...
MaeMay
Xper 1 Age: 41 Why do girls act interested then suddenly date someone else instead of me?
Hello i am 20 years old and i never had a girlfriend!!! I don't easily fall for someone and i could probably count girls i really liked on finger The problem is that i follow same exact patern and it happened 3 times in...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can I turn down a coworker’s crush politely without hurting my job prospects?
I am a student on work placement, well into adulthood. I’ve noticed that one of the male trainers there around my age seems to have a big crush on me. I’ll be working on a task for my tafe assignment and I’ll see him...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why would a woman chase me to talk but avoid exchanging numbers?
So basically I was at a campfire with my church group that some guy was hosting and when I had to leave, the girl that had to move her car behind me literally ran over to me as I was getting in my vehicle and said she was...
WhiteBoyChill
Yoda Age: 25 Have you ever thought someone was desperate for you but it turned out they were just treating you like everyone else?
This has probably happened to me multiple times but this post is inspired by my friend explaining "humbling" texts to me. Which she says are when desperate guys try to knock you down a peg after being "made" to put in a...
