Search Results: getting respect at work

Is this guy still not over me?

Some years back i made friends with a guy at work called Ollie. He worked with his then girlfriend. I originally thought she was his big sister as she was always bossing him around and looked annoyed to be in his...

MissPiggy2025

Xper 4 Age: 28

I’ve decided it’s time for me to stay away from dating as a whole, anyone else?

Yeah yeah, I’m young. I don’t really care how young I am at this point, I’m just done with it. everyone man and woman, have made it a big deal that I have only had one boyfriend in my 23 years of living. And don’t get me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Would it be wrong of me to demand he cut off contact?

Ok, so drama drama. Left my partner to get some space and think things through. He before got mentally ill, jealous, we have tried to get through. He has mainly focus his energy on us and as things were looking up we got...

Noredcarpet

Xper 5 Age: 46

Guys, Why do men feel entitled to a woman’s body and other sexual acts from a woman?

Not saying all men, but obviously a vast majority of them if the question is being asked. one. I’ll start with is blow jobs, men expect it. If they aren’t given it then they are upset, feel “unloved” not “cared for” not...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is it a normal coworker behavior or there's something else?

I joined my office on June. Now since it's a research space it's a very fun department with mostly young people. Therefore colleagues make friends groups and everything. I met this coworker of mine here, he's around 4...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Am I wrong for not letting my girlfriend borrow my car when she's already told her friends they can because of how she treated it last time?

My girlfriend and I have been together just over a year, not living together. A few months ago she asked if she could borrow my car for a few days, for a getaway with her girlfriends. She only has a sedan, her gfs have...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why is this guy nice to me but unfriendly to others?

So there’s this guy in my building and I’ve noticed (I haven’t done anything to earn any kindness from him lol) he will hold doors for me and like do mini favors for me like getting my floor for me in the elevator and I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Learn to Let Them Go

This Take is more for women than it is for men. I’m aware there are guys who can't let go of the wrong person, but I still think this issue is by far and large more of a problem with women. Right now I know some women in...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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Does my guy friend like me?

So for context we’re both (now former) coworkers, he’s in his 30s and I (late 20s) just started getting a HUGE crush on him. We’re both interested in a lot of the same things like music, Guitar Hero, some old cartoons,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Have you ever felt like you were truly loved by someone , to eventually find out they just liked using you?

Unfortunately I experienced some of these relationships in my lifetime and it can sadly put a question mark over your head , by making it harder for you to trust someone again , and it can make you question on whether...

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

Break Up & Divorce

What do I do next?

Im in this kind of «hopeless situation» right now, and in need of some advice. I have been getting these urgent/intrusive thoughts about my ex lately. It feels like i miss him, the relationship and connection we had, and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you believe in the right person at the wrong time?

I met this guy 4 years ago whilst training together at work. He approached me first whilst I was working. He asked me if I was the girl he was gonna be partnered with when training and I said yes obviously. After that we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do a lot of white men seem to be only ok with interracial dating if it involves a white man and a non-white women?

When you look at Hollywood and Western media, white men tend to do a good job in self promoting themselves in the best possible light, while also stereotyping non-white men with negative stereotypes....

Anonymous

(18-24)

My friend likes a guy but he likes me and its awkward for me?

My coworker and I both work in an office, and recently a new guy joined our team. When he first arrived, all the women in the office were gagged—this man is FINE. We all openly admitted that we found him attractive, so it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do I attract younger men?

I'm married to a man 5 years older then me and I've always preferred older men when it's came to relationships. I'm very happily married and my husband is the love of my life but before I met him I struggled getting men...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why? What does he want? he is 28? is he gone for good?

we were ok the first trip he was ok 8 months he came back home and after 2 months told me i should have done x, when he said he could be their for me and I didn't do it. 2 weeks later he dumped me via text telling me not...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Education & Career

After wasting 10 years of my life, this is how I'm bouncing back.

Hello all. This is not a vent or a call for help. I'm just sharing my journey of failures, trauma and learnings from 2014 to 2024. I hope this might help some who are in similar situation. Let's rewind time to 2015. I was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Girl's Behavior

Advice on friendship?

So I started getting drinks with a co worker. I asked her first and she agreed as long as I remembered she was married. I respected that and I have no intentions of crossing the line. Just a few things have happened...

Anonymous

(30-35)