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the other day my cousin and I when to a bar and found two girls we clicked with. my cousin was driving so after we took off from the bar the girl that my cousin clicked with wanted to eat something so we stopped at a 7-11. they both decided to go in while me and the girl I clicked with decided to wait for them in the car.

they took there sweet little time and we started talking about our past relationships. then she got a little weird and started telling me how when she was in her teen days her cousin and her had a little incest thing on the down low. she had humongous boobs and was wearing a tube dress and she would tell me that a lot times when she and her cousin were alone he would approach her and praise her boobs and would ask her if he can feel them and that supposedly she would let him.

so I been wondering, was this another opportunity that when over my head?

I thought I should asked her that if she doesn't have any qalms having her cousin play with her boobs that if perhaps she would love it more if it was done by a guy who was not related to her; since its obviously less creepy. but I was just wondering, was this really her intention? sorry I'm slow and I dont understand people at first at times

So I've looked around the internet for a bit and I've only seen guys asking if they should send a happy birthday, but not much about girls typical motivations they might feel while in this conundrum.
id love to know the female's perspective on the motivations.

(History)
We've known each other a long time us both growing up in the same church, im 27 she is 22.
We didn't talk much as kids, but 3 years ago i started to get the feeling she was developing a bit of a crush.
She would rub up against me while passing me by seeming to not notice or care that her stomach just grazed my butt.
She would always be around me during public hang outs, she would ask me to walk her to washrooms, she would separate me when looking too happy talking to other girls by acting all cute pulling my arm and saying she needs to go pee. She would randomly bite my shoulder or quickly lick my my leg in public when sitting between them while i was on the my laptop.

We'd text every day for a bit, and the climax was when i got back from a 2 week vacation and we hung out on a couch and she put her head on my lap and we talked for a few hours and i got in her pants and started to play with her ass.

A few weeks later things slowly cooled down, we don't talk much now, but still share the occasional LOOK.
because covid we haven't seen each other in over a year.
This year though i consciously didn't text her on her birthday because the year before she didn't message me on my birthday, petty i know, (our birthdays are 5 months apart).

This year i got one, we haven't really talked for about 2 years. (Don't have fb and don't do bday stuff on ig)

It went as follows.
Her: happy birthday!!
Me: thanks (name) i appreciate the birthday wishes 😁 hope you're doing well.
Her: im doing great anyway enjoy being 27.
Me: I'll try, thank you.
I know nothing special, but the only other girls that messaged me happy bday definitely have a crush on me, so just a bit confused, Girls please help