Search Results: girls self esteem

Am I screwed when it comes to dating?

if I'm a shy girl with terribly low self esteem who struggles to talk to guys? no guys ever ask me out or hit on me. obviously going to bars isn't gonna work... so how the hell do i get a date? its really hard to hit on a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

Do you ever resent your body?

Sometimes I actually really do. I'm not unattractive or fat or have 12 toes or anything. It's because of my bladder. My entire life has been affected by bodily fucking functions. It seems the universe thought in its great...

RandomGirl42

Guru Age: 26

Social media / couples boundaries?

We don't follow each other on all social media platforms (only on 2 - Instagram & Facebook, not tiktok) to respect some level of privacy online, but I don't like some of the profiles he is associated with especially when...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Need some ex relationship advice?

So, my ex girlfriend/girl i was engaged to for 3 years have been split up For 7-8 months now. We both made a lot of mistakes and treated eachother poorly. We was on and off a lot. Well, she contacted me 3 months ago...

jordanb8989

Xper 5 Age: 34

How Do I Look?

Was in a 3 year relationship, we been split 7 months?

jordanb8989

Xper 5 Age: 34

Should I be concerned?

Need your advice on something please. My partner whos bern through channeling bad stuff has been effected by it mentally resulting in a change of self esteem, fear to loose me, jealousy over nothing. We're doing what we...

Noredcarpet

Xper 5 Age: 46

Guys, Have you ever told a gal that SHE is out of your league?

Funny little convo today with someone who is insanely successful, seemingly social, but has some kind of self-esteem issue. He claimed that *I* was out of his league. I didn't understand what he meant. I actually...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

I met a guy in social setting twice , he gave me lot of attention without any follow up , later when I messaged him , he left on read. I'm stuck. Why?

I come from a very conservative family , also never had guy friends in life. I live with my mom and sister separately, my mom left my father because he was a womaniser, he later abandoned us and lived his life selfishly,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I don’t know how to get over this, someone help me?

hey everyone, so here’s the situation. last year in October my boyfriend met two girls while he was out at dinner with a group of his friends. he followed them on ig and he DMed one of the girls memes. he didn’t tell...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Why is Indian hate becoming normalized?

Like I'll see comments saying so and so country is the India of Europe or something, or worse so many memes and comments calling Indian women ugly. Sometimes the video won't even be about Indians and there will be someone...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend told his female friend about our personal problem? Is this a red flag?

So my new boyfriend and I have been together for a few days now. So far I see a lot of green flags beside this lack of communication with a situation we faced. I’ll just say we jumped kind of head on with sex because we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, what do you mean when say a guy is overly nice, or too nice?

Does that mean that he lacks confidence/has low self esteem, or are they seen as a love bomber?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why tear the next person down?

Why tear someone down to uplift the next if let’s say a guy not necessarily want the girl but can seem a little interested or just being friendly let’s say and there’s another girl who he doesn’t let’s say quite take to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Have you ever had someone tell you that you made them a certain way?

My ex said to me , You made me this way? Basically blaming me for her choices and decisions, I just laugh and said , I am not your Dad so i didn’t make shit , you made your own selfish choices and decisions, don’t try to...

Finchie40

Master Age: 48

Education & Career

How to cope with knowing you wasted your 20's while you see the younger succeed?

Im soon turning 27 and i feel like a big fail in life.. Not hating on my self but its true. I only enjoyed till primary school, the rest is spending energy living with social anxiety until i got no energy left to...

blazerock44

Xper 7 Age: 27

Do you think these guys are interested or just think I'm an easy lay?

I am 32 single female and I'm by no means great looking :/ but at work I stepped down from my "career" to be a cleaner and I noticed that 2 guys who never used to pay attention to me at all both started paying attention...

Aliceinwonderland92

Xper 5 Age: 33

Did I save myself from a night of humiliation?

Beauty is in eye of the beholder. But most people, probably 85% would classify me as unattractive or average looking while the minority 15% will see me as ridiculously attractive. I don't go out often but when I do, I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, What do girls think of guys with low self esteem who don’t even try to talk or approach?

Like I don’t even try to make eye contact I have no idea if it comes off rude but I just don’t do it

Anonymous

(30-35)