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28 year old girl. Brother is divorced. Girl has been in a few relationships and had her heart broken twice. She was going to get married to a guy, weren’t engaged, parents had met but then she called it off. Then she went to Thailand for a month or so by herself.

If a girl has been in 3-4 relationships and dated like another 4 guys for months at a time and is 28.

Is she more likely to not get married as she can’t bond with one guy?

She broke up with me for many reasons. Main reason I think is I didn’t make her feel special enough, she worried it could get messy. This girl was such a rare fine and too beautiful. I just can’t 😭. when we broke up I was hurt and told her not to contact me and unfollowed her off of instagram

I sent her a message 1.5 months after breakup a simple how are you etc.. she did ignore me

Message to send aswell as 100 roses 🥀

looking back on our relationship, I thought the connection we had was special and unique! The memories we made have stayed with me, I thought what we shared was genuinely meaningful. I do find myself thinking about you and wondering how you’re getting on, you meant a great deal to me and I still miss you much!

If you are open to it, I would really like to see you again and catch up it would be nice to hear from you 😊

My ex broke up with me. She is unbelievably stunning and from my culture. It’s been 2 months and honestly I’ve never seen a girl of my culture that rare and beautiful. It’s just like 1 in a million.

We got on so well and had a nice relationship. In the end she was mean and a bit offensive to me. She did seem done with me despite me being a good boyfriend. She did give me shallow reasons but at the same time at the end I could have definitely done better.

I reached out to her a week ago seeing how she is. She didn’t reply. Should I send her not an essay but a heartfelt paragraph and send her flowers?

Why? To know I gave it my best best shot, because in 2 months I have come to terms with I had the best connection to her and I will never find a girl from my culture as beautiful that’s for sure. Her features are so rare and distinctive.

I dated a very beautiful girl 😭, she was so unique and from my culture. She had fair skin and bright green eyes. Never seen anything like her in my life omg. How was she real?

We got on so well, great chemistry, same career. Parents liked me. My parents liked her. Insane compatibility.

Then at the end we were arguing. I was a good guy to her but made some poor decisions at the end like judged her a bit and may have been a bit abrupt. I am inexperienced being my first relationship. Then she dropped me like a hot potato.

It’s been a couple months and damn I can’t take it. I miss her like crazy. She was loving and sweet to me.

It's impossible to forget them once you have grasped. But i heard about them MORE than a 100 times. And still kept forgetting.

No cognitive issues. But it was a defense mechanism. There is no way that to study it as extensively as i did and keep forgetting it is just a coincidence with me also fearing to be changed. Wanting to be changed but there is a huge reason why i became this way, to survive.

Both of my clinger-pusher parents are fearful-avoidant because of their pretty bad traumas growing up, till this day they get scared when complimented, for example.

And i learnt that the most widespread recommendations are very harmful, like; "it's no use overthinking" or "love your parents" These spoken excuses always push the anxiety further down so tightly it overflows out as irrationality.

i rarely see my parents and when i do i cannot bring myself to tell them:

Forgiving should come naturally, not through ideology. Just like breathwork never worked for me until opening up my emotions triggered the breathing changes naturally. It is ok to look like you're possesed for days while pouring out the repressed anxiety.

They still press it down with either "we blamed them, they wronged us, now forgive and move on" (my dad) or "they suck, let's revenge forever" (my mom).

Last time i told mom "i have had this bad habit forever, it is finally going away!" she rudely acknowledged and dismissed it in one same sentence.

I think everyone who refuses to investigate this topic and to persist until trauma psychology becomes as clear as adding 1+1, is afraid of finding out they have issues - even if they know they do - because we developed our issues as a means to survive. letting go of daddy issues frightens us to death, it has been our survival strategy.

The tragedy is that 40% of all adults have UNRESOLVED infancy anxiety issues and seek relationships to cope with them instead of fixing their body's repressed panic.