Search Results: he thinks were dating

8 d

What makes a guy want to hold a girl's hand?

I used to hold hands or walk arm-in-arm with guy friends all the time. Something about the dynamic changed midway through college when the guys all started looking for our serious dating companions and I kept to my...

DishLady

Master Age: 52

17 d

Am I unreasonable for refusing to hang out with my friend’s boyfriend who once flirted with me?

Am I being unreasonable? I have a friend who has been on-and-off dating the same guy for about four years. For years, she’s been asking me to come to his house in Surrey and spend time with him, even though I’ve...

Anonymous

(30-35)

25 d

Is my 54M coworker actually asking me (32F) out on a date?

Did my 54M coworker ask me (32F) out? He also hid his date from me. What is this? He has always been flirty with me for more than a year, sometimes made worrisome jokes such as he is in love with me but he has never made...

useful_mind

Xper 1 Age: 31

1 mo

Is my affectionate male friend straight or secretly crushing on my bi best friend?

My male best friend is bisexual, and we have a mutual male friend from the improv community. This guy has more female friends than male friends. He talks to women naturally, but with men he seems unable to start a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

1 mo

Have you ever started a relationship by being your true self from day one?

A lot of people try to act in a certain way to get someone to like them. They aren't actually who they are, just who they think the person they want to date wants. Eventually, after dating for a while, they revert to the...

Twalli

Master Age: 35

1 mo

Why is my sweet but inexperienced boyfriend shocked by affection?

So I'm dating this guy he's a big sweetheart but he's only been with one other woman previously who treated him like shit and like he had no worth as a person. I went and did like a little scratch down his back when he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

1 mo

Hooked up with my toxic ex on a trip after years apart—how do I face him now?

I dated my ex about 10 years ago when they we were 18. It was my first love, but the relationship turned toxic quite quickly. He was disrespectful, flirted with other girls, nearly cheated, and mostly only seemed...

Anonymous

(25-29)

1 mo

Boyfriend getting too close to my friend—am I overreacting or is this a red flag?

My boyfriend and I recently started dating near January of this year, we were friends for 3 years before this and both have been in multiple different relationships. He’s genuinely always been extremely attentive to me...

Anonymous

(18-24)

1 mo

Do middle school “relationships” really count as dating experience?

I don’t think they do. My specific “ones” were people I didn’t really like but I did it because I felt like I was supposed to. Plus we barely talked; I was an exceptionally shy child and would only giggle when anyone...

Autumnsummerspring

Xper 1 Age: 21

I don’t think they do. My specific “ones” were people I didn’t really like but I did it because I felt like I was supposed to. Plus we barely talked; I was an exceptionally shy child

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1 mo

Why do arrogant people think they’re smarter than everyone else?

I came across two men on a dating app who’d rejected me ages ago, thinking they could do better. I know both these guys in person. by the way. Then obviously they couldn’t do better, so now the two of them keep popping up...

MissSunshine2

Xper 6 Age: 37

Girl's Behavior

Advice for Guys: Avoid Unclean Women

Let me tell you a story about a girl I used to know, who actually turns out to be a few years older than me but who lied about her age because she looked very young, even younger than myself, and a lot of people often...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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1 mo

Is it normal in Western dating to talk a lot about exes?

Hi. I am a woman who was born and raised in an Eastern culture. I am dating a Western man I met in a Western country where I went to work. The problem is that he keeps talking to me about the past girlfriends he had. At...

Anonymous

(18-24)

1 mo

Why do men only see me as a fun friend and never as girlfriend material?

Im constantly in my own head wondering whats wrong with and why guys dont like me or want to be with. Im well travelled, funny and just a genuinely happy person who loves to have fun. I dont have trouble with getting...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

2 mo

Coworker rumored to be dating a minor: how should I act at work?

I work at mcdonald's. My manager, and another crew member i get along with real well were talking about this new guy who started. Apparently he's 20 and dating a 14 year old. Thats all I heard from them. We all close...

Joe917

Xper 4 Age: 34

2 mo

Is it normal for people to want to date just for sex at this time?

I met up with a guy I’d met on social media; we were supposed to meet months ago, but the timing didn’t work, so I had to cancel a few hours before the date, and he completely blocked me. A few weeks ago he got in touch...

Carina0

Xper 5 Age: 22

Girl's Behavior

2 mo

Why is my friend pushing me toward another guy when she knows I like someone else?

I've known her for quite some time and I had always thought that she genuinely wishes my well. However, some of her recent behaviors are making me question her intentions. So, there's a guy and we kinda like each other....

Anonymous

(18-24)

2 mo

Why is this handsome, successful 29M so lonely and clingy toward me?

So I (22F) matched with a guy (29M) last year. He got out of a 2-year relationship with a girl who was a lawyer. He ended things, weren't in touch with her. This guy works in IT, has a remote job (works from his home),...

baddiska

Xper 4 Age: 22

Family & Friends

2 mo

Why do my friends insist there’s a romantic spark with my longtime guy friend?

My friends know that my guy friend (let’s call him Eddie) and I have been very close since we were seven. After the childhood/middle and high school stories, some are surprised that we never hooked up or dated. My best...

Anonymous

(25-29)