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Would you prefer a partner who is brutally honest 100% of the time, or one who tells gentle, well-intentioned lies to protect your feelings?

Let's say you've put on more than a few pounds and your partner lets you know that you've gained weight and finds it unappealing. Do you appreciate their honesty and try to change, or are you offended by it? (That's...
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What was the hardest part of pregnancy for you? And Guys, you can share as well what a challenge was for you during your partner's pregnancy?

I was blessed with a lovely pregnancy. My only challenge was the caffeine detox and having to switch to soleless decaf coffee - man I was cranky about that. My husband, at the time, had me on a very strict diet so that I...
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My husband has gained a lot of weight lately. How can I bring this up without starting a fight?

So, my husband used to be pretty fit, but over the last year or so, he’s put on quite a bit of weight. I love him no matter what, but I’m starting to worry about his health and, honestly, sometimes I miss the old him who...
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Do you ever feel like your partner is a bad influence?

My boyfriend loves to spoil me, which I like obviously, but it's sort of holding me back. Whenever I think about getting a job or going back to college, he shoots down the idea. He seems happy to have me just lazing...
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Love and accept each other no matter what.
Encourage each other to lose weight while staying supportive.
I’d consider leaving them, but they should accept me.
Neither of us should comment—it’s not our business.
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Is it normal to lost sexual attraction to your partner after 5 years of marriage?

I've always heard that married couples naturally start having less sex over time, but lately, I've been struggling with a lack of sexual attraction to my wife. We still have sex sometimes, and my libido seems fine—I still...
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Will still date your partner if they gain weight?

here's a question that I asked my friends about their opinions which was different from mine. I will appreciate if you share your thoughts about it. Q1: Let's say you found someone and you decided to date. After few...
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Why do people say “looks get only your foot in the door”?

I’ve seen countless stories of couples where one partner gained weight or got out of shape and the other partner lost attraction and felt like leaving.
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Is going to gym and changing your appearance basically the only important thing for finding a girlfriend?

I have never had a girlfriend in my whole life and I really want to experience being in a relationship. The issue with the culture in which I was raised is that appearance was not considered very important for...
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Do you think people gravitate towards their same body type when it comes to relationships?

Just a thought because my last ex was fat actually. I know there's a stigma with that word, but I'm just telling it like it is and describing him. Do you think most people end up with their same size of a partner? I don't...
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Just a thought because my last ex was fat actually. I know there's a stigma with that word, but I'm just telling it like it is and describing him. Do you think most people end up with Show More
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It's the inside that counts!
It's the outside that counts!
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Men need to stop consuming anti-women media, they are shooting themselves in the foot.

1. The golddigger argument. Right now there is this ridiculous trend going around about 'high value' men and 'alpha' males. I see many men commenting that you will not have a chance with a woman unless you are either of...
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What does love feel like for a guy?

I’m very curious on how love feels for a guy, because I know men aren’t as emotional as women, and I know a big part of love to guys is attraction. But genuine love, like if your girl gained weight, had a child, got...
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If your partner gained weight would you a) leave them, b) threaten to leave them, c) help them get back into shape, or d) cheat but stay with them?

I'm not fat, I run 5 kms daily. But I am tired of posts on this site about people being "lazy" if they gain weight. There are a lot of reasons why someone can become fat and it has nothing to do with being lazy (people...
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I'm not fat, I run 5 kms daily. But I am tired of posts on this site about people being "lazy" if they gain weight. There are a lot of reasons why someone can become fat and it has Show More
Leave Them
Threaten to Leave Them if Don't Lose Weight
Help Them Get back into Shape
Cheat but Stay - being fat means they can't find anyone else, perfect "doormat"
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Would you be with someone that weighed 700 lbs?

Would you be with your partner if they gained weight or was that size normally?
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Can you choose up to seven special perks given to you, based on who you already are?

Here's an old Reddit post I did. This is the remastered version of that for GirlsAskGuys. You get these perks based solely on you being you! These apply only to those reading this post! You can choose up to seven of...
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Would you still love and be with your partner if they started gaining a lot of weight after being in a long term relationship with you?

They start getting comfortable with you that you’ll never leave them. The relationship is very healthy.
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They start getting comfortable with you that you’ll never leave them. The relationship is very healthy. Show More
Yes of course. I love them for who they are. 😇
Nope, I require them to stay in shape. 😪
I will get fat with them 🥰
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Is it a good idea to gift your partner a dress that's a size bigger so that she'll be able to wear it in case she gets even fatter?

"Babe, I see you are gaining weight so, I thought I'll buy a size bigger so that it'll fit you for years" Inspired by this question
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"Babe, I see you are gaining weight so, I thought I'll buy a size bigger so that it'll fit you for years" Inspired by this question Show More
This is so genius and thoughtful
Not bad but not that great either
You're going to have a problem
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Even if most of cheating signs are present, is it possible that someone might not be cheating?

Hey (We're on long distance because of my studies, planning to move in together next year) I think I read too many 'cheating signs' and I don't know what to believe. I trust my partner, we worked through a lot. Even...
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If your partner gained a lot of weight, would you stay with them?

Honestly I would stay with my partner if he gained a few pounds. And as for me, I've always struggled with my weight and unfortunately will stress eat which will add to me gaining a few. I would still love my partner, and...
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