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Search Results: making first contact
Why is my coworker flirting at work but ignoring me on dating apps?
So basically, when I first met this guy it was at work because we are coworkers to be honest I didn’t even notice him at first but the day after our work Christmas party something had shifted he noticed ME and was...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why does my coworker flirt at work but ghost me on dating apps?
So basically, when I first met this guy it was at work because we are coworkers to be honest I didn’t even notice him at first but the day after our work Christmas party something had shifted he noticed ME and was...
Anonymous
(18-24) Reasons why you chose to be single?
As someone with Asperger’s I know I can be off putting to men but at first I thought I have a chance until at the age of 21 I did research and what to expect in romantic relationships. Turns out I couldn’t sacrifice my...
MyraTan
Xper 3 Age: 28 Should be careful in this situation with this man who looks identical to another man I know and don't like, or should I assume it's coincidental?
I got recently approached by a man who I'll call *Marco (not his real name). He was sort of cute and we had a good chat, then he requested that we chat outside the dating site, on social media. After talking for a while,...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 Great first date but his wandering eyes bothered me—red flag?
I [27F] was attached to him [35M] on the 1st date from Bumble. He made a reservation at nice restaurant, Ubered for me. While eating, he told me I had lipstick on my chin and proceeded to keep softly wiping my chin with a...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why won’t this man let me go if he won’t commit to a relationship?
After a year and a half of attempts to get a man who was a close friend that I was in love with, to commit, I finally accepted that I wasn't what he wanted and for some reason, he wasn't honest with me about it sooner,...
MissSunshine2
Xper 6 Age: 37 How can a shy girl subtly make the first move on a classmate?
I have a thing for this guy in my class. He's a year older than me and this is the first time I've ever really been around him, so we don't have much of a connection. The problem is that I am VERY shy and awkward. My main...
Anonymous
(Under 18) Is this classmate into me or am I overthinking the eye contact?
There's this guy in my class who I've never talked to before. He's a year older and we don't have many mutual so I haven't had much of a chance. He plays hockey with my ex, so I know he knows me. The problem with that is...
Anonymous
(Under 18) Crush on an older guy — are these signs he might like me back?
I have a crush on an older guy in one of my classes, and I’m trying to figure out if he might like me back. He’s a little shy and awkward, but some of his behavior has been making me wonder. Whenever we talk, we have...
forestfairystix
Xper 1 Age: 24 Do women feel hurt when a man they’re interested in chooses someone they perceive as being "beneath them" in terms of looks?
I was at the strip clubs one night where I noticed a stripper I was drawn to. not only was she gorgeous but she had boobs that I would of sold drugs to have my face buried in them. however I didn’t approach her because...
Filthy_Immigrant
Yoda Age: 39 Am I making a huge mistake with him?
I met this boy the first week of school. He’s tall, tan, a tennis player, charming, polite, and has the most beautiful accent. It was impossible not to like him instantly. We met in the dorm hallway, talked, exchanged...
idontunderstandboys
Xper 1 Age: 22 Date night confusion? Please help…?
I went on a date last night with a lady i met off tinder. I know its not the best place but yeah. We added eachother on facebook and started chatting. Long story short, i took her on a dinner date. We drunk 2 beers a...
jordanb8989
Xper 5 Age: 34 The guy I like is not making eye contact with me. Is he not interested or just shy?
When I first noticed this guy, he was staring at me. I found him cute. Then it was like we were making eye contacts every day. I would catch him looking at me, I would look at him. But these last few weeks he hasn't been...
Anonymous
(18-24) Is the timing of the initial approach important when flirting with a woman?
I came across a video the other day where a woman was sharing a story at a bar. She seemed like the type of woman who lives in an "empowered woman" kind of way. She said that one night at a bar, she had her eye on a guy...
capriVib
Explorer Age: 23 I am a hopeless romantic. What does it mean if a guy hs a look in his eye?
Am I too romantic and what do I do if I read into stuff too much? What’s it mean if you meet a guy for the first time and you see his eyes and there’s a look in them that says he thinks you’re attractive It’s like it...
Jeijjjrur
Xper 1 Age: 34 Is This Guy Just Nice or Is He Interested In Me?
This guy works at a fast food place I frequent. And the past 2 times he's been working there and I ordered food, he's given me an extra sauce for free. I've caught him glancing at me while he's making people's orders and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why? What does he want? he is 28? is he gone for good?
we were ok the first trip he was ok 8 months he came back home and after 2 months told me i should have done x, when he said he could be their for me and I didn't do it. 2 weeks later he dumped me via text telling me not...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is this normal?
I went out on a date with a guy for the first time Sunday night. He was making intense eye contact with me and didn’t look away even when I was making eye contact back. Can’t tell if this is really good sign or just...
throwmeaway1111
Xper 4 Age: 26 After wasting 10 years of my life, this is how I'm bouncing back.
Hello all. This is not a vent or a call for help. I'm just sharing my journey of failures, trauma and learnings from 2014 to 2024. I hope this might help some who are in similar situation. Let's rewind time to 2015. I was...
Anonymous
(25-29) Can girls make the first move on guys?
There’s this one guy I think is so cute, but I’m worried he’ll think I’m weird if I make the first move and tell him I want to get to know him more. He’s a goalie, and I don’t think he talks to many other girls but I’m...
lilpumkinstar
Xper 3 Age: 26 