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One of my friends mentioned this phrase. I said, "If that's true, then if he is struggling can i assume you wouldn't help your husband?" She said "Its not my job to help him, If he is struggling and needs help, it means i need to divorce him." I responded by saying "Whats wrong with you, you're supposed to be taking care of each other." And she called me a pick me.

This more often than not seems to be the attitude of a lot of women. They dont view marriage as a partnership, they view it as a one way street where all of the benefit goes to them, and screw their husbands.

Suffice it to say, she is not my friend any more. I made her mistakes, and lost a good man. i won't be friends with people who have that kind of attitude any more.

For more than 2 decades I have seen my parents on most days are on good terms but I’ll never forget those times where my mom has a heated argument with my Dad and he will listen to her instead of arguing back. Although it’s rare but still I really hate it when that happens and couldn’t help but wonder should I get into a relationship/marriage because i couldn’t handle the nasty part. I hate conflicts no matter what, I know it’s normal that’s why I want to avoid it at all costs. From now onwards I’m choosing to stay single to preserve my peace as I hate conflicts.