Search Results: really interested, just being nice

26 d

Ugh I’m so disgusted how to stop?

Ugh, I don’t know how to stop being rude to most men especially if they are attractive… I hate when attractive men are “nice” or pay attention to me because I just feel like they want an ego boost and I’m never wrong!...

Anonymous

(25-29)

29 d

Am I wrong to feel hurt, and is my friend also at fault for excluding me?

So there was this girl who was not very nice. We had gone for a group hangout. In the end when I was paying for my bill the other two were talking. The not nice one brought up some topic of some plans, not sure if it was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

1 mo

Should I date my 50-year-old dog walking friend with a big age gap?

I started walking little pekingese fifi around 4 weeks ago on the local beach as the weather is starting to improve and I thought it be nice. One morning a staffy came running towards fifi. Fifi is only little and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

1 mo

Why is this girl suddenly being so much nicer and warmer to me?

For context, she and I are in the same Class. I have a crush on a guy in my college class but she doesn't know this. She started becoming much closer to this guy this year and they became friends an he's now part of her...

Prairie_Flow3r

Xper 4 Age: 24

Flirting

1 mo

Was this guy actually flirting with me or just being weird?

I remember a few years ago, I was standing outside and some guy came up to me saying the charm on my lanyard (that I’m wearing as a necklace) is nice. I explained a little about it. It’s just my roommate got it for me. It...

Anonymous

(18-24)

1 mo

Why is it this generation of men really struggle to take accountability?

At my work im the only female union rep. I essentially do my normal work but kinda act as a let's say lawyer to my colleagues if they get in any trouble at work i can sit in there meeting and defend them and advice from a...

MissPiggy2025

Xper 4 Age: 28

Entertainment & Arts

1 mo

Should bald men be more normalized and romanticized in mainstream media?

I myself am guilty of making fun out of bald men time to time but only out of banter never being actively cruel. My husband is bald himself and shaved all his hair off during covid when he was 27/28 and has never gone...

MissPiggy2025

Xper 4 Age: 28

2 mo

Is modern dating permanently ruined by social media and dating apps?

I was speaking with a friend from another country and he was telling me about the dating culture in his particular country and how many woman are far more interested in lying to you for money especially if your a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

2 mo

Is he still interested after a great first date and then going silent?

I met this guy on a dating app about 3 weeks ago. I sent out the like first. We matched the next day and we started talking right away. He came in very strong and looked very interested. He would reply fast, flirt, make...

Anonymous

(30-35)

2 mo

Do men misinterpret a woman being nice and engaged as romantic interest?

I’m curious how men actually read this, because I had an experience recently that confused me a bit. I went on a date with a guy — we had a really good conversation, talked for hours, and I was genuinely engaged. I like...

LaFemmeFatale_1

Guru Age: 29

3 mo

How can I firmly get a creepy coworker to leave me alone at work?

I always seem to attract freaks, sometimes I partly blame myself because im too polite and friendly in person and try not to judge others on face value. These men end up thinking because I was nice to them once there...

MissPiggy2025

Xper 4 Age: 28

Travel

3 mo

What are some warm, tropical, fun places for a US based traveler to visit in October or November? Affordable, fun places to go for NYE celebrations?

So I went to Miami during Christmas vacation week last year, and holy smokes that place was so F’in busy. Traveling during peak travel season is just generally a bad idea. Prices were way the F^ck up, crowded as sh^t and...

WhiteBoyChill

Yoda Age: 25

Family & Friends

Am I overthinking or those are few of the signs that a guy is somewhat interested in you?

He will usually always greet me in mornings and converse just a bit or occasionally… he is super nice and smiles a lot I don't know and now I’m starting to think about him even when I don’t want too like I may be ignoring...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy offered to show me around when I visit his city - is he interested or just being nice?

I'm traveling somewhere for a solo trip. While planning, I was looking at social media for things to do in the area and accidentally liked a photo of someone who lives there. He messaged me after I liked his photo, and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Flirting

How do I flirt with the guy I like?

I am Autistic and I struggle to know how to flirt. My way of acting interested is in doing nice things for people, favours which they don’t notice and complimenting them on their nice clothes, which I do with my friends,...

MissSunshine2

Xper 6 Age: 37

Please, does anyone have any guidance or advice? The pain is just too much?

so before anything I am currently 48 years old and I have been through therapy since grade school as well as medication’s, and everything just seems to be getting worse. The big thing that scares me and worries me and...

Dbman99

Xper 2 Age: 48

Need help understanding signals from a girl in my class (I have Asperger’s so this is hard for me)?

There was a girl in my university class that I thought was very nice. She’s around 24–25 and I’m younger. We were in the same class for two years, and during that time a few things happened that confused me: After one...

hb2040

Xper 1 Age: 21

Other

Confused about my brain?

Normally like to be a "nice person" doing things to help others in need comforting people in distress just over being nice but for some reason I also feel sadistic I strongly enjoy others suffering to the point its...

metallhead665

Xper 4 Age: 21