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The Reality of Rejection?

Sometimes rejection hurts in different ways depending on what we value most.. What kind of rejection from the opposite gender hurts the most for you? # Unrequited romantic feelings? # Feeling that who you are...
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How do I get over my shyness around the man I like?

So I like a guy and he's genuinely a great person. We used to be friends too but now things have become a bit awkward. I caught feelings and thought it was unrequited. After spending months like that I recently realized...
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Which is worse, unrequited love or a breakup?

Do you think the pain from unrequited love or a breakup is worse? Which one have you been able to get past, and which one has haunted you for years to come? Personally, having dealt with breakups, I know it’s difficult -...
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How do you deal with unrequited love?

Especially when you know there is a spark between you two, but one (or both) parties needs to learn life lessons, work on things, or mature a bit before either of you would be ready. Do you keep the person as a friend,...
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What are some literary references that you expect people of all ages to know? Do our metaphors need updating?

Obviously metaphors change over time. "Netflix & chill" has replaced "Hanky panky" and that's fine. Languages evolve (except the damn French & their purity council but that's for another question) but does the changing of...
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Obviously metaphors change over time. "Netflix & chill" has replaced "Hanky panky" and that's fine. Languages evolve (except the damn French & their purity council but that's for Show More
It's just natural evolution of language
We are less read, knowledgeable or/and biblically literate
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Getting over an unrequited love?

It seems silly but back in 2021 I started to have feeling for a friend of mine in 2022 I told him about said feelings (which if I ever develop feelings for someone again I prob won’t speak on them) but it wasn’t...
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How to know if he's just friendly or a player? Will I have a chance to shoot my shot?

This classmate first attempted to talk to me in the fall 2023. Coincidentally, we got classes together again in spring 2024. He's always the person to talk to me first, I never went up to him. I'm an introvert and I'd...
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How should I deal with this on and off unrequited love and can I get a male’s perspective on his behavior?

Sorry, this is kind of a long story so I’ll try to do main bullet points: - I matched with this guy on Hinge 2 years ago (we both agreed to casually dating) and we spoke daily for about 4 months before we actually met in...
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If I'm trying to distance myself from my crush, is it childish to say no to doing a one-on-one activity together that I would otherwise want to do?

What would you do in that situation? Is it immature to say no when one's crush asks if you want to do a certain activity together, when your main reason is to avoid solitary interaction with them? Or would having the...
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What would you do in that situation? Is it immature to say no when one's crush asks if you want to do a certain activity together, when your main reason is to avoid solitary Show More
I'd focus on whether I wanted to do the activity rather than who I'd be doing the activity with, even if it was with my crush who doesn't like me back
I'd focus on the unrequited feelings I'd have to suffer through while doing the activity, and say no, even though we would be doing an activity I'd otherwise want to do
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All this ''you'll find love again'' is it really true for a woman or not?

I believe there comes an age where some of us simply stopped feeling that passion if someone new comes along. Guy 1: I've only felt it on 2 different occasions. The first time I was 12-13 years old and kept pinning over...
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How often does unrequited love happen to women?

We always hear more about the guy pinning over the same girl/woman from his early years (even as a kid) but she has no romantic feelings towards him. She moves on with someone else and he's hurting. I'm feeling just like...
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How to know if he still likes me or not?

This past weeks, he always being goofy and playful with jokes on me. He sometimes replied to my Instagram story at late night. When we met, we barely speak and I also didn't want to start the conversation (didn't want to...
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Should I call her or should I stop any contact with her?

Let me explain: this woman used to be my crush for over 2 years. She knew about my feelings but she rejected me several times, after giving mixed signals. Many months later, and after several attempts from my parts to...
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Girl my fiance was sexting sent me the proof, confronted him and found out he ended it but has also been texting other girls. What now?

So, fiance (M32) and I have been together for 10 years. We've had our ups and downs, but all the while we've "stood in love" and worked through things. Two days ago everything was great, and then everything was not. A...
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A question for men in regards of unrequited love?

A few years ago I meet this guy on a previous job, I was on my late 20's and he was on his early 30's We got along well and I thought I gained a friend/acquaintance while being there, but I confess that in order to...
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Why she did this?

There was a girl I really love. Well I always think of her as my unrequited love. She is a coworker but we don't meet everyday. Once I confessed to her, asked her for a date and she laughed at me. Few days later she...
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Please give advice (unrequited love)?

So for about 1.5 years I’ve been friends with this guy. Eventually I began to like him but didn’t say anything to be sure. Eventually, I was sure and told him. I’m assuming feelings were not mutual because he did not tell...
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How do you deal with lifetime-unrequited love and lust?

I didn't even have girlfriends until my 20s, but I had crushes on ones in high school but I wasn't naturally as attractive and during those years I was more awkward compared to today. I am starting a phase again where I...
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Why is it worse to accept and not reject a man out of pity?

It can be any progress the man wants, whether it's a date, friendship, moving in with him or even a proposal. Several men complained about rejection or unrequited love. They get hurt by it. I once said accepted of...
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Have you ever been a victim of unrequited love?

If so, were you ever able to successfully lose feelings and move on with your life? Or did the other person ever have a change of heart that resulted in you two finally ending up together? What’s your story
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