Search Results: what to say in a text

2 d

Why do women prefer chatting on WhatsApp instead of regular texting?

When communicating with women why do they all say ( lets use WhatsApp)?

Jeff51

Yoda Age: 52

5 d

Why did this guy suddenly ‘ghost’ me after 3 amazing months of dating?

I matched with a guy on a dating app. He and I are talking for a bit and the chemistry is great, we have a lot of the same interests. We agree to go on a date a week later to watch a movie and grab a drink, and I felt...

Guttercat8

Xper 1 Age: 23

Break Up & Divorce

5 d

Why does my ex who left me still harass me and play the victim?

She does everything she can to rain on my parade , she blames me for everything and doesn’t take accountability for any of her actions and behaviors , like she is trying to play this victim when really she is the abuser....

Finchie40

Influencer Age: 48

6 d

Avoidant men: have you ever stopped ghosting the same woman you kept hurting?

I’ve been dealing with a guy for years who has a strong pattern of pulling away when things get emotionally intense. The cycle usually goes like this: We get closer / talk more / hang out He gets overwhelmed, stressed,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

8 d

Dead beat dad returns for my help: what would you do in my situation?

My so called father has been in and out of my life since my mom and him divorced when I was like 6. Made promises yet never showed up. He missed all my graduations, all my birthdays and every important aspect of my life....

Smileygirl2000

Xper 3 Age: 26

9 d

He says he wants to know me, but do his actions show he just wants sex?

I wanted some outside opinions on this situation. I went on a first date with a guy and left feeling like he was more interested in sex than actually getting to know me. on the day of the date I had to text him to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

10 d

What did he really mean by calling it a ‘psychological question’ to know about me?

Me and this guy got along quick. We had great friendly banter at the beginning. Then weeks of no contact came between us, when he suddenly does this: He texted me one day, pasting this thing he asked from a group chat we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

11 d

Is my older long-distance boyfriend just busy or losing interest?

I posted the question but forgot to add details so here it is Before meeting in person, my long-distance boyfriend (f25 m49) was incredibly playful while chatting. When we finally met this year, he was actually very...

Anonymous

(30-35)

13 d

Am I wrong for saying my girlfriend’s hurt feelings are her fault?

My girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years. She's never been the type to show affection, in fact, she acts like I'm her friend instead of her boyfriend. She uses swear words (so do I, but it's situational), never...

Anonymous

(18-24)

15 d

Is it wrong to cut people off after they’re brutally honest with you?

I've hand of lot of instances like this happen in my life and I wonder if they thought that I was nice enough to let it slide. Examples Friend told me she hated when I acted like a good person, wore weird clothes and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

15 d

What stops you from double texting someone who keeps leaving you on read?

So this guy & I are supposed to be friends, he told me months ago that he deleted all photos and videos in his gallery, which included me. I felt like trash but he said it so casually I thought he was oblivious. It...

Anonymous

(25-29)

17 d

I didn’t realize I was in a Situationship. ?

Long story short met a guy, he pursued me, I barely had to do anything for a whole year but we clicked and got along. I’m 32 years old. never been taking out in public with a guy ever. first guy to acknowledge me and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

20 d

Is my best friend in love with me or just using me as a placeholder?

So me and this guy have been like best friends for almost 2 years… we have all the same nerdy interests, so much in our life mirrors and we started all of this not too long after he was in a 6 year long relationship with...

Anonymous

(30-35)

21 d

Did my guy friend mean it when he texted “love you” after a favor?

So guy friend of mine whom I've known for 3 years now (we have been pretty close, texting, talking, he was there for me when ex&I broke up, he wiped my tears from my cheek, etc) has asked me for a favor every now and then...

Anonymous

(25-29)

22 d

Long distance cheating?

Hello I’ve been in a long distance relationship for one and a half years. recently my boyfriend went on a boys trip and the first night he didn’t text me until he got back to his hotel room, which is fine. but the second...

Anonymous

(18-24)

23 d

Friend mistook group hangout invite for a date and is telling people—how do I handle this?

To put it simply, me and my two friends were planning on hanging out together. The two of them are in a relationship and I didn't want to third wheel and wanted to bring one more friend. I wanted to bring a friend that I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

25 d

Should I text him directly after no reply, or just move on from dating?

I’m pretty social and have close friends but i feel a bit awkward when it comes to dating. Especially as a girl who was socialized around traditional norms I refrain from approaching men unless they come to me first. Even...

Anonymous

(25-29)

28 d

Should I explain to a guy why I wanna cut him off?

Story cut short, we are in situationship for nearly 3yrs (yeah IM DUMB, I KNOW), then as we graduated our uni, i decided to just ask him what are we and he do admit we are more than a friend, but also a friend. That’s...

Anonymous

(18-24)